Emotionally unavailable woman

Sometimes men are just plain stupid. This isn’t to say that they don’t occasionally get it right, but it seems the millennial male fails to recognize certain aspects of dating that concern those obvious signs that you’re emotionally unavailable at the moment, yet they constantly try to talk you into an obviously wrong relationship. Many men simply refuse to realize that some women just do not want to invest any emotional energy at that specific point in their lives. Dating does not always need to result in a successful relationship or romantic situations. Sometimes dating can be just about getting out and meeting new people and let the chips fall where they may.

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There are many ways to date an emotionally unavailable woman, however you must have a well thought out plan with the key component being the realization that there is a reason that the emotional aspect of her personality, when it comes to dating, is not present or is minimized. If you have been previously hurt by a dreadfully wrong relationship, there will be distinct signs that you’re emotionally unavailable that will be noticed by many around you.

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There are plenty of emotionally unavailable men that would love nothing more than to hook up with emotionally unavailable women as both can continue their unattached ways and avoid most romantic situations. This way of being is not helping either situation, as there is no end game for this type of relationship other than some effortless conversation and then moving on if one person begins to show any signs of emotional attachment.

The infamous long distance relationship is also a great excuse for the millennial male and female to choose selective lovers while simulating a successful relationship. After all, how often do these types of relationships go the distance? Emotionally unavailable men often will choose the wrong relationship knowing that it will come to end and thus avoid the dreaded committed relationship.

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If you begin to date a guy it is inevitable he will soon pick up on those subtle signs that you are emotionally unavailable. The distant look in your eyes and the elusive way in which you masterfully avoid intimate questions are obvious signs that there is some type of wall built around particular aspects of your emotions. What should be an effortless conversation becomes strained and vague when suggestions of any talk of a relationship, or something with an emotional aspect is brought up.

Some men have trouble comprehending the ways to date an emotionally unavailable woman, but to understand why she is emotionally unavailable is the best method to break down those walls so the two of you have an actual chance of a successful relationship. Nobody wants to be cut off or blocked from a solid attachment to another individual, but often we use our past experiences to shape our future. We learn from the past but we have to use good judgment in how to apply that knowledge. Emotionally unavailable women are only unavailable until … they are not.

Written by Debbiie Shawnless
keen writer and budding journalist.