Wouldn’t it be great if every time we asked someone out on a date the answer would be a resounding yes! Unfortunately unless you are a supermodel or have your own private jet the chances of perfection in the wide world of dating is pretty slim. Successful dating has to have a strong plan with the ultimate aim of finding someone special. Don’t get too caught up in trying to overcome failure and triumph in the dating world and concentrate more on becoming one the many successful stories that we all hear about.

Marriage is not the institution of society that it once was.  This does not mean that getting married is a bad idea, it is merely that fewer couples seem to put the significance of marriage upon the pedestal and high honor that it once held. Marriage is a huge commitment for most and it can be incredibly terrifying for some, while for others it can be like a warm security blanket giving you comfort in trying times and joy at others. But the question then arises, can merely living together give you the same feelings that marriage does just without the official marriage license?

There comes a point in every single person’s life that they must take a deep breath and recognize the depth of their singleness.  Sometimes this is not an easy process as many will have deep concerns in accepting the single status when everyone else is a couple. This can often put immense pressure on a boyfriend whose girlfriend is hearing the tic toc of her biological clock, or on a girl who may have many married friends pushing her for romantic success. This is all well and good but there are also many reasons to stop obsessing about single status.

“You and me
Let it be
We are one
It is done!”

Now that the spell that bounds you to this blog has been cast we can proceed.

The secret to any spell is the belief that it will have the desired effect, focusing the energy, thought towards a certain someone that you have strong emotions for. Modern women, use different ways to mesmerize the object of their desires, and it isn’t necessarily witchcraft or voodoo.
Pheromone infused perfumes, sexy lingerie, high heels, sensual gestures, a different way of casting spells. Knowing the secrets of seduction is, in itself, the magic spell of our century. Playing the romantic game the right way, and leading him or her into your “web”. Knowing how to puzzle the senses, so that they play in your favor is magic and be patient as there will be setbacks, unless you have a genie to do your bidding.

Does my hair look okay? Do you like me? Why won’t he call? These are all common concerns voiced by insecure people who see compliments as a true measure of their self-worth. Men who have an affinity for dating insecure women should do so with some trepidation as they must understand that there is usually a reason for their partner’s insecurity. So the question now becomes how better understand the issues involved and build solid relationships that will last. When dating insecure women there are two important things to realize, first, that all the compliments in the world won’t fix your partner’s insecurity and whatever baggage they are carrying around could take many years of freak out moments to deal with, and possibly many therapists to overcome. Second, all of the whiskey in your favorite tavern won’t fix the issues being dealt with in your partner’s mind.

The citizens of a country are governed by rules of law and have specific boundaries in place by which those that live in that country have a mutual understanding of what is right and what is wrong. These citizens agree to respect differences among them in order to have a peaceful co-existence. Relationships are pretty much the same in some respects, as a mutual understanding between a couples usually begins with good boundaries that both can agree upon. This is why healthy relationships always have boundaries, and boundary violations can mean an ugly end to a relationship.

Have you ever been hard at work during the day just wishing you were anywhere but at the office, when all of a sudden your phone makes that little sound or vibration that tells you someone, somewhere was thinking about you? That fun cute text message finds you just at the moment when you needed it most, but of course it could also be the phone company texting you to remind you that your bill is overdue, still for an instant you hope for the best. Text messaging has become the most widely used form of communication in the last decade or so, and a good portion of those text messages are called, strangely enough “sexting.” Sexting is when a person uses the digital capabilities of their smart phone to send sexy messages and pictures with the sole purpose of generating a warm and fuzzy feeling in the recipient.

For anyone needing fresh and innovative approaches to fulfilling their growing sexual desires, it seems like this would be a great time to discuss a few possibilities to enhance and electrify your intimate moments by opening up the possibilities of doing the deed with the chance of getting caught in a few potentially risqué public sex locations. Not for the faint at heart!

When I say picnic, I mean a blanket, a picnic basket, a romantic location and of course a pleasant party to share it with. Simple and practical.
We may choose to add certain items to the classical picnic setup as long as the beforehand mentioned items are present. I’ve always found the idea of a picnic to be very romantic, bearing the “colors” of old school courtship. It can be adjusted to satisfy any type of encounter, ranging from friendly to romantic for that matter, and everything in between.

Men are idiots! No, I really mean it, there is scientific evidence to back this up… I think. They are all for casual sex but the second any great conversations turn to anything even remotely resembling an exclusive relationship the guy will panic and run for the hills. This doesn’t always mean the guy is a jerk or a bad person, but the fact is that the world is full of Commitment phobic men.