The majority of people that frequent the online dating sites throughout the Internet are not as stupid as you may think. These sites are full of photo personals of genuine people looking to meet other genuine people. They can figure out rather quickly which of those photo personals are the real thing and which are placed by relatives of deposed royalty in Africa just waiting for your help in return for a few million bucks!
So you’ve joined an online dating site, scoured through dozens of member profiles, and found a few that you maybe interested in dating. Hopefully they will find you interesting as well. Looks are very important but the reality is, at some point you still have to communicate with him or her. It is at this juncture that you will either make it or break it as far as dating goes! Growing up, your parents would instill a piece of knowledge on to you which can benefit you throughout life. That is, that first impressions do count, and that you can never get a second chance to make a first impression, especially when it comes to dating.
There seems to be an invasion going on and although it doesn’t get as much media coverage as illegal immigration along the Mexican border or the stream of refugees pouring into Europe from the Middle East, it still may have a racial component to it as it tugs at the traditional values of both Western men and the Asian Culture. What we are witnessing is a sudden increase in Western men with Asian girlfriends. This article may serve, tongue-in-cheek, as the white man’s guide to dating Asian women.
Is it a soft no or a definite NO, is it a flirty no or an aggressive NO! Signs that do need to be taken into consideration! Besides that, the surroundings, the events prior to that question or lack thereof and of course her mood. Don’t approach a lady in a bad mood! I can say, with a 99.9% certainty the answer will be NO and it will be an aggressive NO for that matter, one that might involve unwanted adjectives being thrown your way.. OUCH!
Charm is the art of having an attractive charismatic personality. Yes people, it is an art, an art that must be learned and developed. Some people have the special ability to charm others the instant they enter a room. Others earn a reputation for being a charmer over a period of time. Although most people are born with some natural charm in varying amounts, it can be mastered and sharpened through practice.
In today’s high tech world having a great smile and a mysterious personality won’t get you as far with the fairer sex as it used to. It now seems that the majority of interaction between men and women takes place on a small screen, compliments of mega-corporations such as APPLE OR Samsung. So, even if you have no problem burning up your Giga bytes of data on apps such as Skype, WhatsApp or Facetime you will still need to boost your texting skills with women in order to break through their personal cyber defenses in order to pursue them.
Small talk (also known as chit chat) is conversation that is strictly kept light between people who really do not know each other well enough to engage in more “heavier” topics.
Such is the case of those individuals who suffer from a condition called Social Anxiety Disorder (or SAD for short). This type of disorder can make small talk an extremely anxiety producing action. Although there are different methods to extinguish or lessen this form of anxiety, a good method is to prepare for topics that are most likely to come up during normal small talk. You have to do a little homework, which in turn, will help boost your confidence level.
The idea of dating women who make more money than men creates a rift in the traditional role of man to woman, as seen through the eyes of man.
Throughout history, man’s role was to be the provider, the breadwinner as it may in the relationship. It was, and still is an important role, for the male’s ego which bruises quite easily. Making money is still of the utmost importance to the male who identify that with success. A female that equals or surpasses a man in terms of salary may very well threaten his ego and manifest itself through anger and frustration (brought on, no doubt, by jealousy).
It’s probably not a statement that someone might want to admit to, considering the fact that us women are considered to be more emotional than men but by accepting the facts for what they truly are is even more mind blowing.
And of course age must be taken in consideration as well however…
Since time began men and women have been desperately trying to figure out the best ways to get noticed by one another, and have always come away with mixed results. Men may seem too aggressive if they make the first move yet a woman may seem almost desperate if she initiates contact. It always seems that the more attractive the woman, the less chance of her initiating the process of getting to know each other. But here are 5 reasons why a woman should make the first move on a man, in no specific order:
