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Top Excuses To Get Out Of A date

Published on 01 Oct 2012 with 2 Comments

 
A few uncomfortable thoughts: a stubbed toe, a root canal, and being stuck with a date you don’t like. While they all involve just temporary pain, spending a few hours with someone you feel you don’t mesh with can seem excruciating at times. So what do you do when you feel like you’d rather be gnawed on by a herd of rabid squirrels, rather than sit through 2 more minutes listening to why Star Wars is better than Battlestar Gallactica?

While there are many approaches, here are a just a few of the tried and true tactics to get you home early:

Take the honest route. When you find your mind wondering during dinner, and wishing a friend would call your cell with “an emergency”, go ahead and lay it on the line. There are certainly ways to be polite and tactful, while asking to excuse yourself from the rest of the evening. “I’m just not feeling as if we’re a good match” is an effective opener.

Feign illness. Maybe it was the fish that made you ill at dinner… hang your hat on that excuse and then hope your date doesn’t recall that you had the chicken. I do suggest that if you decide to play The Sick Card, you go all in though. Don’t be too passive in stating you ‘feel a bit queasy’; instead, go right ahead and tell him / her “wow, I don’t know WHAT they put in that gazpacho, but whatever it was; it’s going through me like a locomotive!!” There are very few people that will attempt to detain you after that declaration.

Having a friend call you with a “so-called” emergency actually has been over played in Television and the Movies but can still work if you have children. Just be smart as to how and when during the date you play this card. Set up a code in advance, just in case your date wants to question you about the situation and asks if they could help. A text with a key word telling your friend to call back in 5, 10 or 20 minutes is helpful

If the above mentioned tips fails to get you to the exit, and an accelerated end to the date, there is always the “excuse me, I have to use the restroom” line. This works best if the restrooms are out of view of your date and have a close proximity to an exit. This is to only be used if your date actually instills a sense of fear in you and your options are limited and your safety could be compromised. Try to avoid this tip if at all possible as it is not only a method of last resort, but you are also not quite sure of the mental state of your date and whether he or she may be the type to retaliate.

These few tips to end a date early are by no means the only ones, but having a friend in the local SWAT team come in and arrest you would definitely work and probably eliminate any future requests to go out, however it may be a bit on the extreme side. The best method for ending a date early is not to go out with them. It’s difficult to ascertain whether a person is a good fit for you with out the first or second date but you can weed out a great many of the undesirables. Just use your best judgment and natural instinct and you should be fine, if that doesn’t work, pull the fire alarm and run like hell!

Do women like muscles or brainiacs?

Published on 05 Sep 2012 with 1 Comment


This is a question that has been asked throughout the ages, are women more attracted to men with rippling, toned physiques, or those with brains? To answer this question we need to look deeper and begin a modest investigation of the differences between both types of men, but from the female perspective.

It seems that although most women appear to like a man with muscles, it’s the total package that most females desire. The totally ripped gym rat looks great, but if he has the intellect of an eggplant the window dressing is wasted. A man does not have to be perfect, but simply to be well groomed, reasonably fit and have an air of confidence about him, as this will elevate this person well above the man who merely has a muscular body going for him.

To most women, your occupation does not give you license not to put in any effort into your physical and mental well-being. A plumber can get to the gym and dress neatly just as easily as a stockbroker. It’s more of a mental state that separates those that can from those that can’t. This is why the perfect combination of Brainiac and Muscleman is in such high demand.

When we talk about brainacs, we are not necessarily speaking of someone with a genius IQ, what we are saying is someone who has the intelligence along with the discipline and desire to achieve and succeed. Many women can’t accurately put their finger on those things that create sexual attraction, but it is almost universally accepted that it is a combination of several things that generates interest. Women can sense passion, not only in regards to the chemistry between two people, but in the way a person approaches life as well.

There are of course those women who do not care in the slightest about a man’s character, intellect or the way in which he presents himself, for them its only about one thing, ‘is he hot or not!’ Some women, much like some men, look at a member of the opposite sex merely as a conquest, and the thought of any long-term relationship never enters the thought process. For these women it’s all about short-term and instant gratification.

But the question still needs to be addressed, do women prefer men with great bodies or men with great minds, and because the human race is imperfect and subject to a variety of opinions, this question can never be truly answered one way or the other. What can be stated is that each person has a particular set of experiences as they grow up.

These experiences shape who that person is today and what makes them happy and what does not. Finding someone who shares many of your experiences or at least the way in which you view the world can change the way in which you perceive that person. In high school it was the geeks versus the jocks, but as we got older the lines became a bit less clear as each of us has that sense of the perfect combination that they connect with, that one person who’s body drives you crazy and who’s mind takes you to a whole other level.

The Guy Code To Romance

Published on 27 Jun 2012 with 0 Comments

There are guy’s out there that are giving other men a bad name when it comes to romance. Its not that these guys are mean or abusive, they are just schmucks when it comes to communicating any feelings to their wives or girlfriends. I understand that its easier for some guys to get their feelings across than others, but this is where the major debate arises, its not that there aren’t any feelings of romance within a guy, its just that he has no idea how to express them. It’s for this reason that many relationships go wrong, even though they can so easily can be turned around simply with some thought of how those feelings can and should be expressed.

If you are with someone special you should have already felt those romantic feelings, but also understand romance for guys may manifest itself a bit different than for women. Romance for men or romance for women is more about expressing the feelings that should already exist rather than trying to figure out how to be more romantic. If you need to read a book or blogs for someone else to tell you how you should feel then something is probably wrong.

Once a guy recognizes and acts upon his romantic side it could become a bit habit forming. Romance is fun, so why not keep it up as long as the feelings are there? Have you ever given someone a gift and seen his or her face light up? How did that make you feel? Well, if you are in a sound romantic relationship, you probably felt almost as good as the person receiving the present. So why not keep that feeling going, it could be something as simple as holding a door open to a car with an umbrella on a rainy night, or a beautiful pair of diamond earrings, for the more extreme. The key for most guys who are figuring out how to get in touch with their romantic side is to express those feelings in a manner that will let their wife or girlfriends know that they are always thinking of them.

Many guys are romantic but don’t like anyone to know that they are, in their eyes it may make them seem less macho. These closet romantics will display a momentary romantic gesture before retreating back into their tough guy façade. Being a closet romantic is fine as long as the object of your affection sees through the facade, and you make no major effort to conceal your romantic guy alter ego from her.

Timing is another important aspect of the guy’s code to romance. Romantic gestures must come from a spontaneous outpouring of feelings that are pure and not contrived to cover some ulterior motive. Forgetting your girlfriend’s birthday and feeling pretty crappy about it is not a good reason for romance, as guilt is never a good reason to do anything, it is merely covering for something that should have been done already. Romantic gestures should not be one and done either, they are continuous expressions of how you feel about someone.

Once those feelings begin to wane, and the displays of affection are few and far between, the relationship is usually on the decline. Romance encompasses both passion and intimacy, but it is important to realize that there is a difference between these two. Quite often you will meet someone and the passion burns hot for a short period of time but quite often fades quickly as well. Intimacy is a closeness that takes time to develop and usually can stand the test of time, especially when expressions of romance are displayed on an ongoing basis, but more importantly, as long as romance is felt.

Writing A Good Headline For Your Dating Profile.

Published on 18 Jun 2012 with 0 Comments

 

By creating an effective online dating profile headline, a person can literally change their life. Read about several writing tips to help point you in the right direction.

Meeting your potential mate online is very common these days as internet dating has made it easy and convenient for people to get together. Just like anything else, there are some things to know in order to improve your online dating experience.

Creating a meaningful profile can make all the difference in the world in terms of your success in meeting someone online so here are some guidelines. Your profile is going to need a name or title. Try to think of a headline for a dating profile that somehow identifies who you are or what you’re interested in. Stay away from names that might send the wrong message to someone who will be reading your profile.

The next thing to do is to write about yourself. This section is very important because it’s like making a first impression on someone. The goal in writing about yourself is to let people know what your interests are and what you’re looking for. Be sure to list any hobbies that you may have so that you can attract someone who has similar interests.

Stay away from sounding negative, angry and apologetic for being on a dating site as this will make you appear to be a bitter person. Instead focus on writing about positive things and try including a little humor in your profile which can really make all the difference in the world. You can even incorporate this into the dating profile headlines.

Checking for grammar, spelling and punctuation errors is also very important. A person can be extremely intelligent but if their writing is filled with spelling mistakes and typos, they’re are going to appear uneducated and readers will get easily annoyed and turned off.

After you’ve finished writing about yourself you will need to post a photo. Including several pictures of yourself will greatly increase your odds of having your profile noticed. When it comes to dating advice, I can’t think of anything more important then including several photos of yourself in your profile as a picture is worth a thousand words. Make sure you are easily viewable in the photos and stay away from posting pictures of you and your friends.

By taking the time to create meaningful dating profiles with catchy dating profile headlines, using the above dating tips as a writing guide, you’ll increase your chances of finding what it is you’ve been searching for and that is when your life can literally change!

 

 

 

What Do Women Really Want From Men!?

Published on 01 Jun 2012 with 1 Comment

If you’ve ever wondered what a woman really wants from her man then check out this graphic. We surveyed over 4,600 women to help uncover what they really want from their man!

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Divorced women and how to meet men after separation.

Published on 30 May 2012 with 0 Comments

 

While divorce may be viewed as the end of one chapter, it is also often thought of as a fresh start for many. So how to move forward and actually meet men now that you’re single? There are many places an attractive woman can meet a new guy
and begin the process of dating after divorce.

Check out singles groups. Whether you have a friend that belongs to an outdoor enthusiasts group, or saw an ad for Parents without Partners on Facebook, don’t just listen to the stories others tell about how much fun they have, get out there and join them! There are plenty of single men in these groups who are looking to socialize and meet single women.  Pay attention to who the single dads are at your child’s school. It could be a fellow volunteer at the Ice Cream Social, or may even be your son’s teacher… so be receptive to school-time conversation and don’t count anything out.
Network within your circle of friends. Your friends are one of your greatest resources when it comes to meeting Mr. Right (or even just Mr. Now), so be sure they know you are looking. Too often, friends may assume that you’re “not ready” after your divorce unless you come right out and tell them. Even if they don’t know someone directly, their spouses have co-workers, who have friends, etc.  Join a gym.  A local gym can be a great place to meet men while keeping yourself looking your best. Nothing says I am over past relationships and ready for the future better than a well toned body. The best part is that you don’t even have to look like you are ready for the next fitness competition to attract men, you need only show the determination to try in order to attract! If you are looking for a bit of payback as well, a well toned body is great revenge as this states to your ex (if he should happen to see you) that you have moved on and he is no longer holding you back and your best is not being wasted on him.
The bottom line is that just because one marriage didn’t work out the way you had planned does not mean that you will never have the type of relationship you have always longed for. After all, there is life after divorce for women! The only thing that can stop you is you! Giving up is only going to make you lonely and more than likely overweight, (see tip about going to gym). You need to make a conscious effort to be receptive to engaging in a new relationship.  Sitting home and merely browsing the profiles is not going to get you out on a Saturday night, but taking the bull by the horns and sending an introductory message just might. Keep an open mind and realize that the perfect person for you may turn up in any situation, from bumping into in line at the supermarket or asking you about the book you are reading during your morning commute. In can happen anytime and anywhere and all you have to do is be open to notion that it will.

Do you know how to choose romantic food?

Published on 16 May 2012 with 0 Comments

In order to know how to choose romantic foods one must first understand the setting. The mood music playing in the background, a gentle breeze is blowing through the balcony windows causing the light white drapes to billow up and push aside giving view to the moonlit ocean below. All is perfect as you are about to sit down with an attractive woman for dinner and some wine. The rent-a-waiter hired for the evening brings out the appetizers and the lady has a pained look on her face as the buffalo chicken wings chosen are placed up on the table. It is then apparent that someone does not know how to choose romantic foods.

 

These chicken wings would be fine if it were at a picnic and an individual had little intention of turning the afternoon romantic, but remember that even when men go out of the house to buy groceries their primary concern is to find and romance a woman. So it is imperative that if one is going to spend any time at all with a woman, he will have to eat and therefore should know how to choose romantic food. The setting means everything; if sitting in the movie theater, you can have a tender moment sharing popcorn and a drink or eating from both ends of a red licorice until lips meet in the middle. It’s not always the food but how and when it is served.

 

This is not to say that dining at elegant restaurants is not the way to go, but this article is to see if one can know how to choose romantic foods, not restaurants. Lets say the date is taking place in a five star restaurant would a person be able to look at a menu and choose the most romantic foods for that date and that woman? There are those foods that are said to boost one’s libido such as oysters and there are those that demonstrate elegance and the finer things in life such as Foie Gras. There is not much to do when searching a menu at a restaurant to discover what romantic foods are offered there, as long as you have done your homework and know the names of some.

 

 

I’d like to conclude the article on how to choose romantic foods by impressing upon the reader that both the affluent and the middle income folks can both bring their cuisine to a new level more by compliment the mood or atmosphere of the moment with the right choices of food rather than merely purchasing expensive caviar or truffles. A simple back yard barbeque in which the couple can take part in the preparation and cooking of a fine meal, topped off with a dessert the two of you created can lead to a passionate evening just as easy as the finest meal at a top rated restaurant. Of course it also helps if both he and she are naked under the apron!

Long Distance Relationships – Should I go or should I stay?

Published on 15 May 2012 with 0 Comments

Long distance relationships are never easy and they will strain even the best of relationships. The smallest speed bumps may seem like Mount Everest when you are hundreds of miles away from the one you want to be with. So then the question eventually arises should I, or my partner, consider a move to the other’s city so we can be together? Sounds like a relatively simple question, right? Well, the truth of the matter is that it can be one of the most unsettling experiences in your life, and that’s not even from the move itself, just the thought of it! So how does one know that they should consider picking up their current life and moving to another city? Here are some factors and advice that a person should consider before making such a transition.

One of the most significant indicators of when a long distance relationship should become a same city relationship is length of time. If you have recently met someone on a vacation to some tropical beach and you live in New York and they live in Texas, short of fireworks and baby cupids flying over your heads when you kiss, there is no reason for either of you to make a life altering decision to relocate at this time. One of the greatest blunders a new couple can make is mistaking desire and lust for a true relationship with potential. Moving too quickly concerning a long distance relationship is a recipe for failure, as you still don’t know enough about each other to make a life changing decision. If the two of you are meant to be together, you can both wait just a bit longer without worrying about the actions of the other.
Another important factor in determining whether it is feasible for you to make a move in order to change a long distance relationship into a same city one is what type of job or career you currently have. If you work for yourself via the Internet such as a stock trader or as an online consultant, the move would be much easier than a person who needs to be at a brick and mortar office on a daily basis. Most of the time your career determines your place of residence more than you do. There are however those larger companies that have many offices nationwide which could make a move much easier. The bottom line is that you may have spent a lot of time and effort getting to a point in your career that would not transitional well to a move and to start fresh may cause issues and resentment. Your partner may be having the exact same concerns as you about their career as well.
For those who are already well into their careers there are also those that may be still be attending various universities and have not yet found their career paths. This does not make the move from one city to another any less difficult, as like large companies, universities may be on opposite sides of the country and just as difficult to transfer from one to another. The positive aspect of being a college student involved in a long distance relationship is that age is on your side. It is much easier for a young person to delay a relocation decision as they have more than likely not yet invested much time into their chosen fields of occupation. Young people for the most part are mostly concerned about their own careers, this bit of selfish or “me first” attitude may make any relationships take a back seat for the moment.

Relocation to a new city to be with that special someone is a great plan if you truly feel the potential of a long-term relationship is there, but consider what you may be leaving behind. We have mentioned jobs and school, but what about the people we leave behind? What family are we leaving? Do you have older parents that need you? Do you have brothers and sisters that may only get to see you occasionally on holidays? This is an issue that you must give serious consideration and seek advice as moving to be with someone you may love may cause more heartache than letting him or her go.


Millionaire Matchmaker Will Find You A Rich Sugar Daddy

Published on 08 May 2012 with 0 Comments

Matchmaking is quite often described as a method of bringing individuals together for the intention of dating and hopefully entering into a long term relationship. This worked quite well in the movie “fiddler on the roof” and we all know that wonderful song with the axiom “matchmaker, matchmaker make me a match” but in that film there was another song that was even more poignant to our discussion, that being, “If I were a rich man!” Hence begins our discussion in the use of a millionaire matchmaker and the search to find a rich sugar daddy.

There are great numbers of dating services in the world, however if we narrow down their scope of relevance to only those catering to the extremely wealthy, we are then left with the upscale millionaire matchmakers. These dating services cater to those who have achieved much in their lives including great wealth, and therefore are searching for relationships that go beyond the traditional and ordinary. Introductions can be achieved in a number of ways, but with the advent of the World Wide Web and high technology, most scenarios involving an introduction are taking place on the internet, although a very few still conduct this undertaking in a up close and in person manner.

In order to accurately introduce a wealthy man to a young woman who is trying to find a rich sugar daddy or “significant other” of considerable affluence, the dating service must determine in addition to the normal criteria for a dating relationship, the financial status of one party and the desires of the other. This may seem like an easy task except that it is quite common for those in positions of great wealth to not be entirely forthcoming as to their alleged levels. The other party may also exaggerate their perceived worth and overstate their desires as well.

The millionaire dating services although in the business of introductions has many more topics of concern to address than the traditional introduction service. In addition to physical and emotional compatibility, they must address issues of fiscal compatibility as well. This does not mean that both parties must be on the same financial level but both must have what the other holds of value and can provide that need. We certainly have come a long way form the brokered marriages in “Fiddler on the Roof.”

Professional Singles Too Busy For Bars

Published on 08 May 2012 with 0 Comments

The company is in the middle of merger or large acquisition and all are spending long hours at the office. Friends and relatives invite you out for a cocktail or dinner at the newest hotspot in town but are forced to decline as you have entered the ranks of the professional singles too busy for bars.  It is not uncommon, one has to make choices in life and to get to the power position many dream of, hard decisions must be made. It is at this time you are trying to find some sort of balance in life, but for professional singles too busy for bars the choices are not many. Don’t fear all is not lost as with just a bit of thought and imagination one can have the best of both worlds.

Firstly, decide if you’re going to these hotspots is to spend quality time with good friends, enjoy the evening and chat aimlessly while sipping your favorite Martini, or are you on the hunt for that special person who can make the rest of your life abundant with incredible bliss or at least the rest of that evening! It seems that many professionals have taken refuge on the various Internet dating sites which cater to any and every niche group imaginable.

The use of online dating sites has made the search for a relationship, regardless of the type, incredibly more efficient and effective. This enables those singles to begin their search for a relationship right from the comfort of their own home or office during lulls in their busy schedules. Imagine you are waiting for an important phone while watching economic news stream across CNBC.  Once can now simultaneously browse the personals on their favorite online dating site and make note of any individuals that they might want to contact at some later point. Compare this to having to dress for the evening, commute to the venue with hopes that one incredible person may catch your eye out of a hundred.

These established men and women can view thousands of profiles, which through specific search criteria are within those parameters they deem important in a significant other. Instead of spending an hour getting to know one person who may or may not have these qualities, the busy executive can now break the ice with a hundred individuals in the time it used to take to know one person. Of course these numbers are whittled down to a select few that you may want to contact in real life and invite for a person to person interaction. For hard-working demanding individuals it’s all about the numbers and in this case, time is an important asset so the more people you can meet in the shortest amount of time is of great importance.