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Feebee7777
Sat Jul 18, 2009
We are not all gold diggers! if that was the case, wouldnt anyone do? ...erm...no, i dont think so! So think again all you S/D's. After keeping two boyfriends over 20 years and not knowing any better,i think its time to turn the tables, ive done my bit for 'poormankind' and no longer can afford to keep anyone but myself, so if a nice guy wants to take me out, i think i deserve it, ive waited long enough, im on this site to hopefully meet a guy that actually works for a living!
Carymal
Fri Jul 17, 2009
I recently joined another dating site with vetted members and substantial membership fees but there were no attractive men!! Sugardaddies are hot! And I am used to living well... so it's a no brainer. But they have brains as well very attractive! But I also have morals so will proceed carefully. Will say we met at the gym if you ever fly to Barbados and meet my folks. lol.
ClaireHitch
Fri Jul 17, 2009
I just read a comment from a girl with lots of lip gloss and holding her hair up high for the pic she took.........'I hate men that earn more money than me!' Ok, she is clearly from the states but OMG. What is wrong with you all! I have dated the most handsome and eligible of men and they tended to be a pain to move on from for one reason..........they knew that I would of loved them with one leg or without the handsome face or fittest of bodies. All this coming from an english girl who yes! has a pretty face but more so a massive personality and one that people just wanted to be around. Is this site about playing the game and well, playing up to being a bit vaugue or needy or possibly dumb? I came on here as I thought I would get the opportunity to meet a guy that has money through believing in himself or from determination as opposed to who cares where it came from, he is successful because of the £ sign. Claire
SaraDK
Thu Jul 16, 2009
maybe im a bit naive. But to me the sugardaddy means "a man that earns more money than me. that loves to travel and live life to the fullest... a man that would like to involve a pretty lady in his world. and have her as a fun and pretty travel partner... if it developes then ok... but should not be the reason for the friendship" ...... i do not offer sex for money or materiel goods.... i am not a prostitute... i am better than that
Theresa8235
Wed Jul 15, 2009
Reading the comments posted on here, there are a few that have really shocked me. I am 27 years old and I am only on here to find company. Someone who WANTS to take me out, spend time with me and so forth. I am grown and I can take of myself. Money is not the object for me, it is the satisfaction of having that person that makes me feel important. I do not want a man to take care of me,yeah money is nice but when you have never had it, you can't miss it. I can't believe how selfish some people are. Yes, granted, this is a "Sugar Daddy" site, but money is not that important. Yes, I am tired of finding so called "men" who still need their mothers 24 hours of the day, or will not work, or work and never have money or bills to pay or can not pay for anything. Yeah, I would like a little help once in a while, who doesn't want that, but money should never be expected or the main reason. If your looking for happiness, look to yourself first! Only you can really make yourself happy. I am not looking for love, just fun. No strings attached are the best, not because of money but because I can still do what I want to do without having to answer to someone and still the have the fun friendship or whatever you may call it. For people to look for the ATM or the big bank, shame on you. Work hard for what you want just like everyone else has. These men and women who have money, and so on has worked very hard to get to where they are today. Don't take advantage of it.
Vh23
Tue Jul 14, 2009
After reading quite a few posts, I thought that I would offer my two cents worth. I believe that we can have many meanings for an SD. Everything from a man looking for a purely sexual relationship to a man looking for a new wife. The only real requirement is that he is financially sound and wants to use his finances to help a lovely lady. I have been very fortunate to have been contacted by many SD's. Some are very rude but most are sweet. Most of the gentlemen that I've talked with are looking for more than sex. They are looking for a long term companion. I think that if you are clear with what you want, whatever that is, you can find it on this site. I am looking for a friend. Someone who isn't looking for just intimacy. Please don't misunderstand, sex will be apart of the relationship, just not the only part. I want someone who can help me further my career. Words of wisdom, introductions to the right people, help comes in many forms. Of course I wouldn't be truthful if I didn't state that a gift is always nice. I love flowers. What I offer in return is a lovely face and body to enjoy. I offer a sound mind with just enough craziness to have a load of fun. I am capable of intelligent conversations. I want to be the person that he thinks of when he has big news. Good or bad. I offer a hand to hold without expectations of marriage. I will be a jewel on his arm. I will, once we are comfortable, be exclusively his to enjoy. I will not make demands of his time. Although, I might ask for more;). I fully understand the demands of an executive. I offer myself as a companion without the headaches of love in the traditional sense. So, what I want and what some of the women have asked for is different. However, we are the same. The women here want a successful man that can help them. The type of help just varies. The men are looking for companions. For the night? For once a week when he's in town? Or for a long term relationship. Here's a toast to everyone... Good luck at finding whatever it is that you are seeking.
DihO
Tue Jul 14, 2009
I joined this dating site because for me its not about dating someone who can spend all their money on me. It's about finding someone who is solvent, strong,intelligent, mature and can hold their own on all counts. I seem to be flypaper for insolvent, unintelligent, insecure letches which could say something about me lol, so am hoping to have a fresh insight on here! :)
Listensoftly
Tue Jul 14, 2009
I joined this site to find a man that can afford to treat me as I deserve and hopefully find love am I asking for too much?
Justdyl
Sun Jul 12, 2009
After reading some of the posts on here I have to say WOW! I am on this site to maybe meet someone who is educated, who has knowledge of world and current events and who has some class and etiquette. Not a "joe the plummer" type that you would meet in the bar scene. Some of these ladies the way they talk about using these men as ATM's to lavish this and that on them etc. well I am sorry but I think that is pretty distasteful and shows a lack of class on their part. And I would not blame the guys for running in the opposite direction! but hey to each his own.
sliver246340
Sun Jul 12, 2009
I may be the most skeptical man on this site, but one young lady from Western Washington state (she knows who she is - I made sure of that!) has recently redeemed your entire gender. I've had my share of nutty chicks contact me, and even meet me in person, from this site. So I'm not talking about "in theory" stuff......mine is all real-world, "meet you for dinner or drinks" kind of situations. I recently flew her out to Chicago with the usual low expectations - which should be easy to meet, right? Well, many haven't even risen to those mediocre levels. Not this young lady. She left me with my mouth hanging open. Beautiful, HUMBLE, fun, up-for-anything, sexy, flirty, intelligent, entertaining, and one of the funniest conversationalists I've run into in years. She seemed to loathe talking about stuff most sugarbabies love talking about : shopping, themselves, Britney Spears (etc.!), clothes, spending YOUR money, and the things YOU need to do to make THEIR lives easier. I think I speak for a lot of guys on here when I say to all you sugarbabies : stop being so damn selfish! Think of what your man needs, and you will get whatever you want in return. Give and you shall receive. All you potential sugarbabies would be wise to learn from her.
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