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Hotsplashes Fri Mar 30, 2007	I've been on this site since the fall. I went out of the country for a bit and being offline has weeded out the men who contacted me. The weeding tends to do itself. Some of the men/women on here are here for the wrong reasons as discussed in the posts on here. What I don't understand are the men contacting me who don't seem to believe I am everything I say on my profile. The majority seem to think I am going to be something else. THe last first meeting I went on ended up like this: SD: "Wow...you look just like your pictures!" Me: "Yes, why wouldn't I" SD: "Well, I was expecting something different." Me: *Inward sigh* "Well I'm sorry to disappoint you." SD: "Nononono! I'm not disappointed at all! So.. What are you looking for? I am looking for someone to settle down with and share my life. A soulmate, someone to cherish for the rest of my life. And maybe have some kids!" Needless to say, the date ended rather quickly with me wishing him good luck on his search for True Love at SD.COm!! I am at a point in my life where I do not have the time or the inclination to search out on the singles scene what I am looking for. I am not looking to get married, have kids, etc. Just someone to spend some time without the hassles of a traditional, suffocating relationship. Why is it so hard to find?lolol HOpe everyone is successful! Mikki
Pleebo Fri Mar 30, 2007	If I oversimplify the concept of sugardaddie and sugarbabe I apologize..Women(SB) want money, security, a better lifestyle. Men(SD) want companionship with a beautiful younger woman that will provide many different fantasies for him with less commitments at times. Of course most of the time this means a sexual relationship. A girlfriend experience without the drama is another fantasy. How the whole arrangement works out depends on how much chemistry and trust can be developed over time.
SasseyMe Fri Mar 30, 2007	My $$$$ worth... “Opportunities are not found, they are created.” No matter what your reasons are/were for joining SD, it's all about the opportunities. Let’s merely trust everyone is straightforward enough to let their true desires be known.
blakbarbie4u Thu Mar 29, 2007	Well to me the secret of any relatioship is CHEMISTRY..To be a SB you have to possess the qualities to make your mate happy. Being understanding & catering to his wants and needs are Key....No one likes baggage so you should leave them at the check-in counter(LOL).You should always try to keep things fresh and interesting because no one wants to be bored! Life is to short so having a sense of humor wouldn't hurt either. SD/SB relationships should not be about take take take but more like teamwork. If you are making him smile and constantly keeping a smile on his face then the the end result will be your SD will do what it takes to keep you around and satisfied. Last but not least always be yourself and dont mold yourself into a woman you are not to impress him because in the end your true colors will come out. You want someone to like you for who you are: your smile, beauty, strength and your flaws. Nobody is perfect guys!!!
Needudaddy34 Wed Mar 28, 2007	In my opinion being a sd or sb just means grown people who knows what they want and knows how to get it in an honest straight forward no game well that game is fine but no bs and head games drama and complications and interferance where they need not be. I do not think anyone should appoligize for having a need and getting it met. for all those who have a problem with this i think maybe this sight is not for you.Not saying may by sometime you will find someone who you click with more than on a physical level and you want it to be something more. That is fine just as long it is what both parties want.
RareLily Mon Mar 26, 2007	The SUGARBABE: Has obvious class, happy in her own skin and SD knows it. The look can be above average to normal with a special kind of charisma, a combination of elegance and refinement. Not necessarily always the blonde model or the size 6. SD who don’t want arm candy will look for charm. SD wouldn’t be were he is today if he did not have a semblance of commonsense and understanding of what is important. SB will be well spoken, educated, can hold an intelligent conversation in all aspects and situations of life. SB keeps herself well informed and up-to-date with all matters social, political and otherwise. She copes beautifully in a difficult situations and manages others well. A non smoker or drug user who limits drinking to a couple of glasses of sparkling when mingling, to couple of glasses of red at home so she can always please SD. SB has pride in her physical appearance and exudes confidence, which indicates a security in who she is as a person. SB are not promiscuous and prefer a SD’s attention. SB may have an independent life according to type the arrangement with SD. Loyalty and honour she gives her SD will continues long after (should) the relationship with SD end. Her schedule revolves around his schedule; she is there for him. She dotes and satisfies his needs, wants and desires. If required will sacrifices her personal interests for this unique and mutually gratifying relationship. She is very respectful of the time required for his business and personal commitments
RareLily Mon Mar 26, 2007	The SUGARDADDY He is very successful, has wealth beyond most means. He is driven dedicated to his Career. He loves, respects women who are confident, have inner beauty and intelligence. SD prefers the attentions of a SB. He understands the demands he places on his SB, and responds with hugs and kisses of appreciation. He spoils, pampers her and fulfills her desires. SD has unlimited generosity not only emotionally, or physically also financially. Intimacy is very important; SD is a considerate competent and pleasurable lover and expects it to reciprocated in kind. SD’s relationship with his SB is based on mutual desires, needs, wants and complete enjoyment.
DivaSeeker Sun Mar 25, 2007	Thank God for sugarbabies! At least they are honest in their approach. This certianly does not mean that love can not be found simply because we aspire to success or beauty. Being honest is the hardest the part of the equation when we first entertain a new relationship. All too often we over-look or ignore traits in the other person that cause problems later. It was not easy but my profile is from my very heart
Ambitous Thu Mar 22, 2007	I have been on this site now for some months - It seems to me that it is the most missed used site I have come across - this is not a "find true love meeting point" it is what it suggests - We are all adults we all have wants, be honest in those wants and you will find what you seek - You (Men not all but most) stop making us feel guilty for being here and stop trying before you buy (so to speak) and You Woman (again not all but alot)stop apologising for being here or pretending that you are seriously looking for love when you are really here for the money or the affair. Lies and Games are we not all past this point in our lives - if you are married say so - attached say so looking for true love move on - want a friendship, companionship or a playmate then your off to a good start - but please lets all be honest with each other and stop judging and playing THE GAME. Well thats my piece I do Hope you all find your playmates and enjoy the times you have :)
BellaBri83 Tue Mar 20, 2007	I think the word Sugar Daddy currently has a negative connotation attached to it. It shouldn't only be attached to the men who spoil their women with gifts, but also for the men that make priceless sweet gestures, and with those gestures they earn the name "sugar". Yes, some women on here are just looking to use the men and I am sure that many of the men are here to use them back; but I also believe there are true people out there looking for genuine people to share their time with and possibly break away from their busy schedules. This website enables all types of people to make connections with others while still managing their hectic schedules. ----Those are my random thoughts in a nutshell.

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