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Devilwithhalo Wed Nov 22, 2006	I have just taken an opportunity to read some of the Forum comments and would like to add some of my own thoughts. Firstly, I too am quite taken aback at the lack of etiquette by Sugardaddies. It only takes a minute or two to offer a polite decline to a sugarbabes interest. I am also taken aback with with the preoccupation with only being interested in the "Covergirl" sugarbabe. To be honest, I do not look like a model (and to be quite honest, neither do some Sugardaddies out there) and I am fascinated with the assumption that looks are the only thing considered by some men. Granted, looks are important, as is a physical attraction ,however, I am really amused by the shallow brush off given by a Sugardaddie who is at best, utilising wealth to obtain the Covergirl image to boost his ego. I honestly thought there was more to the SD/SB relationship than the veneer of beauty. I have been fortunate that I was previously in a wonderful SD/SB relationship with a man that was attracted to me in the first instance by my intelligence, wit and sense of humour, and after exchanging photos two weeks later, he was surprised that I was attractive to him physically as well. I would encourage potential Sugardaddies to use their minds as well as their financial means in deciding on a potential Sugarbabe....perhaps the beholder is not the most visually appealing either. We all have a great deal to offer, I am not just talking about money or sex either. I just think that we have a preoccupation with the "wrong" attributes of what makes a great Sugarbabe.
Bltrader Tue Nov 21, 2006	Hi folks, Thanks for all the nice comments about my last post. Sure am glad it stirred up some positive comments. You know I never realized how much work you must put into this site to get anywhere. There are still lots of people not responding and there are lots whom say no by looks only. I am not sure how to combat that , but I assume that staying the course is the only way. Anyways I thought maybe I missed you, never saw your profile, or for some other reason, so if you are a woman (thanks guys but no thanks) and still breathing between 1 and 99 just remember you can always write i won't bite. It truly is not illegal for the girls to make the first move. I will always respond, actually I believe most men will, maybe not always to the positve but they will respond. Anyways everyone have a good night and don't let the bed bugs bite.
Hotsplashes Mon Nov 20, 2006	It's nice to see a man's POV here BLtrader. I don't think the lack of courtesy is just on this site but out in the world in general. It's like when you hold the door for someone...or just do something polite in public for a stranger and they don't even acknowledge you. It's like they expect it because they are special... TOo bad more people don't take the daily time to be nice..
WarmNBright Mon Nov 20, 2006	*P*L*E*A*S*E* We’re all on a website called Sugardaddie LOL – so pretending money isn’t a big issue is just silly. As my dear old mom used to say “it’s just as easy to love a rich man as a poor man” although I've found finding the right person to love for the span that is our one-and-only-no-dry-runs life is a challenge in itself. I personally worked hard to accomplish what I have in this life and intend to hugely appreciate the accomplishments of the wonderful gentleman I hope will be in my life sometime soon. “Honey, I’m over here... and sure, bring your wallet" LOL.
Angels11 Sun Nov 19, 2006	What does it mean to be a Sugarbabe? First of all, I feel that the term "sugarbabe" casts a shallowness upon our intentions. I realize it is probably just something that they came up with to complement or correspond to the term "sugardaddie." Maybe we should just be "sugars" That aside...I feel that as a partner in a relationship with one who wishes to take care of a lady...the lady should bring joy and fun to the relationship. She should be one who loves to be spoiled and loves to spoil as well. She should know how to listen, love and lift her man up. I think its the least we can do...(smile) A true "sugarbabe" will want to please her man in ways that pleases him...its a reciprocal relationship. We just have different things to offer.
Hotsplashes Sat Nov 18, 2006	Thanks for Posting A Man's POV Bltrader! I have been contacted by some whose first contacts were nice, polite. After reading their profiles and emailing a few times, I found we really don't click as per certain issues. When I have politely said "Thank you for contacting me but I don't think we are a match." I get nasty emails back attacking me and trying to make my feel bad. I have contacted people and some have never responded, or some said "thanks but no"and I have never sent back any scathing remarks, anything derrogatory, spiteful or hateful. I have always said "Thankyou" and gone on my merry way. Have any men ever had this situation? A woman has conacted you..you have said thank you but no...and then they get all freaky? I would like to hear some stories on this to know I am not alone. I have just recently gone through a very disturbing issue with one member who seemed very nice in the first 2 emails in about an hour. The next day he suddenly brought up his religion, tried to litteraly cram it down my throat and tell me how much of a better person I would be if I was of his religion. Politely as I could, I said "I see we are not really what each other is looking for. Thank you for time. Good luck in your search for the woman who will meet your expectations." I was then called all sorts of nasty things, which I don't think a "good christian" should or would be calling anyone. I advised him I would be contacting the site about his abuse and asked him not to contact me again. HE then contacted me the next day spouting apologies etc. I have not returned his emails. Do men ever get this on this sight? Is a polite and honest rejection that hard to take?
Bltrader Thu Nov 16, 2006	I see a lot of women posting comments but the male point of view seams to be lacking. There are successful men whom are not tall dark and you know the rest. We are not out on this site for sex only. Some of us are actually looking for someone to complete us. We are gentlemen, honest, sincere, sensitive and compasionate but it would be really hard for women to realize this, since etiquette on these sites is sorely lacking. Twenty polite notes only two responses. Not even the capacity to say, thanks, but I am not really interested. Believe it or not, I know I appreciate the same thing that women appreciate and that is common decency and politeness, (that means a response when someone has taken the time to say something nice about you). People seam to forget that respect is earned,not demanded or commanded. Anyways for those who do always respond, thank you, for those of you who don't, maybe you can still learn something.
TK4U Wed Nov 15, 2006	This is my first day as a member, and I have to say that this site is not that much different than others in terms of what someone is searching for. I, personally, have a hard time finding a man that is appealing to me, whether it be great looks or someone with a great attitude. Money is not the first thing that comes to my mind when searching for a partner. Yes, this site appears to have more financially secure men, but they are also great to look at, and they do seem to be quite educated and successful. No matter which dating site I visit, I want a man that not only gives 100% to his work (and, thus, makes him wealthy), but also to his relationships. Now, that is a successful man in my book. I think most of us on here want the same thing -- to find someone we can share our lives with... and there's nothing wrong with accessing SD.com to do it. I am not a gold-digger by any means, but I deserve to be treated like a lady for once. Maybe I'll find what I'm looking for here.
Skierbabe Tue Nov 14, 2006	At first I thought the idea of joining this site was shallow, but not after thinking about it more. I am hoping that it actually gives me the opportunity to meet someone that can be my perfect match. I don't need money, but I do need someone who is very driven, motivated, and enterprising, as I am. It has been so difficult for me to be in relationships in the past because I am attracted to very adventurous guys. Sometimes that means that they spend all their time adventuring and then aren't really that successful in other aspects of their lives. This creates a problem between us in everyday life, where I am very successful and always driven to do better and the men in my life have been very content and not driven. The result of this is that the men feel unappreciated by me, because i just can't understand the lack of drive and really don't appreciate that. Of course they feel appreciated by me when they are belaying me while I climb some mountain and I'm totally dependant on them, which I love, but you can't go climb Mt. Everest everyday. So, the adventure part that I really want and love, really needs to take a back seat to the other qualities that match mine. I would love both, but I think it would be smart of me to focus on the other qualities, which hopefuly this site will help me with. I assume that many people who have good incomes got there through hard work and accomplishment. So there. You never know. :)
Hotsplashes Mon Nov 13, 2006	Good MOrning From OKINAWAAAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!! I was just prerusing the last month of forum posts. And there have been alot of good points brought up. I've noticed many things in my life that seem to correlate. Money doesn't make a gentleman. Lack of money doesn't mean he can't be a gentleman. But I find that a good upbringing and a good education goes along way in making a self-confident, self assured, respectful person. Male or Female. But as I said, it takes a combination of things. NOt just money, or just upbringing, or just education, etc. It also takes the inner qualities and drive of the person to WANT to be a better person. However, financial security does seem to make a more confident person. So if a person from a different station in life wants to better themselves by surrounding themselves with the kind of person they want to be...what's wrong with that? Just my two cents worth... what wrong with a successful woman wanting to date someone who is her equal? WHat's wrong with a woman who WANTS to be successful to be with a man who already is. She can always learn from him if she's a smart cookie!

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