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ArtByJody Fri Dec 01, 2006	Devilwithhalo :... I agree with your post but disagree... The problem with dating in general is that we all come forward with generalizations and a certain paralysis upon meeting someone. Unfortunately that paralysis is the negative vibe or energy we all have which gets absorbed by others. I know this is true because it is the only explanation for alot of things personal in my life.... So we encounter a new person and all things are great prior to - but that energy is not just yet set. Perhaps it wasn't because someone wasn't attracted to us - alot of times we finally meet someone and we realize we can't live up to what we percieve the expectations are. Or perhaps conversley read body signs that indicated or lead to an assumption that some how the body movements and other physical indicators were not in synch in what THEY percieved the moment should of conveded...
JuliaGoldCoast Fri Dec 01, 2006	It means to have fun! I am in Chicago and loving it. Life is so fun all abundance and good things. Let's all connect to that and enjoy ourselves. Julia
Hotsplashes Wed Nov 29, 2006	I studied introductory philosophy back in school. The one thing I learned in Existential Philosophy was that one person sees as the truth is different than someone else's view of the truth. And it is applicable to all areas of life. In the SB/SD relationship...it is different to how each person perceives even though there is a definite definition of the terms. Let's just hope that everyone finds a good version of their own perception of what the SD/SB relationship they are looking for.
JamaicanGrl Mon Nov 27, 2006	In response to DrCambridge that site would be called he fell in love with my words, and then dumped me after we met. In any situation you must be attracted to a person in several different ways, intellectually, mentally, and physically, sure a relationship can survive with out the "beauty" but then someone would always have a stray eye out for that "prize" beauty, on this site many are looking for that "10" lady....Ah go figure, to each his own. I think most of us like the "idea" of the total package, and some just settle, or fall for the pieces they do have. Just my opinion......
cambridgedoctor Sun Nov 26, 2006	to devilwithhalo: Men judge by appearance and so do women; Brad Pitt is with Angelina Jolie. Perhaps it would be interesting to have a site that does not have posted descriptions of their appearnce or pictures. Then the contacts can decide whether they like each other before proceding further. In the real world, the process proceeds from the other direction. It would be an interesting site. What should we call it?
JamaicanGrl Sat Nov 25, 2006	I agree wih Devilwithalo, and would like to add, this is a "specialty site", although I believe other "match" sites people are looking for he same type "arrangement", but just are coy about saying it. I appreciate the level of truth here, and also am put off by the crass comments of others. To each his own, live and let live, we are all on a search for something, key is to find a mate that is looking for the same as you....
Jewels902 Sat Nov 25, 2006	I think being a sugarbabie or sugardaddie is all about finding someone special. We can create all these titles but in the end, I'm looking for a wonderful person to get to know and hopefully love. Some people might be on this site looking for someone to simply spoil them with money. I want someone who will appreciate me for who I am. What more can you ask for? I think though that a sugardaddie should be nurturing and take care of his sugarbabie in all ways. However, everything should be taken one step at a time.
Caramel71 Sat Nov 25, 2006	(continued) For those who seek more, there is "hope". One's bank account can only get you so far. As I write, I find myself thinking of a song called "A house is not a home" by Luther Vandross. If you don't know who he is, you DEFINITELY need to ask someone (LOL). It's about a person who has everything. Yet, it means nothing without a special person to share it with. There are gentlemen of substance with beautiful hearts and sincere personalities who appreciate internal beauty. SD.com serves as a venue for shy or busy men of this caliber to meet women. However, it does take patience. As we all know, we must shuffle through the dirt before we find a "our" diamond which makes the journey even sweeter. After all, diamonds are forever!(wink) Regarding the rudeness on the site, please treat others the way you like to be treated! Just my opinion! :)
Caramel71 Sat Nov 25, 2006	This is very controversial. It's interesting to see how diverse the panel is about this issue. First, the true definition of a sugar daddy is an established man providing a younger woman with a lifestyle she may not otherwise experience. In exchange, a sugar daddy expects various perks such as (but not limited to) companionship, sex, or a human trophy. Many have expressed negative views about this type of arrangement. However, it is what it is. As long as it's mutual between two consenting adults, we should not judge. It's called preference. We all have them. If you disagree, think again. :) You made the decision when you joined the site preferring an accomplish man with financial security vs a man without. To a degree, I am guilty as well. You can serve my crow on a silver platter with a glass of champagne. If you still disagree, you better ask somebody!:) We are all adults. In any relationship, there is a give and take. SD.com is a meeting place for men with exquisite taste and their admirers. A man is man whether he is wealthy or poor. He has needs. If a SD/SM only wanted to shower you with gifts expecting nothing in return, it would be a charity site!(LOL) This type of relationship is ok for those who seek it. It is an individual preference. This is nothing new. Men are visual creatures. If you read the profiles, many wealthy men want the finer things in life even in physical beauty. If it's not your preference, move on. It's the society in which we live that defines the rules. Don't hate the player hate the game!(LOL)
jjb5461 Wed Nov 22, 2006	The great thing about the internet is that it is a raw, unregulated frontier of commerce, ideas, entrepreneurial enterprise, and in the case of SD.com and many other sites, a meeting place for like minded people. I view this site as a means of finding someone who is offering what I seek and vice versa. One needs to invest some time and effort in finding the match they seek. They will need to review many profiles of others who do not offer what they seek. That doesn't mean there is anything wrong with those profiles that are rejected, but that they simply don't match with what is desired. I am rather annoyed with the amount of judgementalism that exists here. If a profile states a desire for a love based relationship and you are seeking a mutually beneficial/no strings arrangement, simply move on and don't judge why they are on this site. I love the variety of women and their desires that are on this site. I have started some great relationships with women from here who are seeking vastly different things. Best of luck to all in your search and try not to criticize...

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