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Mslilly Sat Apr 28, 2007	My girlfriend told me of this site and that is was on Dr. Phil. So with that being I was like cool let me check it out. I am busy raising my son, and trying to strive for the finer things in life daily on my own with my goals on the wall literally. In the mean time, I have always attracted men of quality and that is what I am used too, so this site is right up my alley. I do not have time for bars, and some men just think that cause you present yourself in a manner that suggest standards, you think you are better, and the gentlemen I am seeking are not just hanging out at a bar...they own the bar and like a bar owner on this site said, don't won't those drunk bimbos. They understand the bar a tool to make their money, and a woman like me understands that. The SD I like is at an event of some sort, not the bar! So, my conclusion is in life you have to surround yourself around people who are like you and you want have that problem of those little insecurities others try to put in your mind because you like and strive for the gusto. My Dad always told me, you need money in America....it's a tool for the wise and a stumbling block for the simple, you be with a poor man and see how happy you will be. Until I find my sugar daddy, I am better off on my own! You have to really know what you want and desire in life to keep your sugar daddy and make him your Married Big Daddy:-).
Skylar1 Thu Apr 26, 2007	Thanks Lennea !! I guess some people are in denial, and are not willing to admit to themselves what a sugardaddy/sugarbaby arrangement consist of. It's nice to see that someone else actually get's it. The name of this site is exactly what it implies!! For those of you that don't understand the definition.. look below!! (Merriam-Websters online dictionary:::) One entry found for sugar daddy. Main Entry: sugar daddy Function: noun 1 : a well-to-do usually older man who supports or spends lavishly on a mistress, girlfriend, or boyfriend 2 : a generous benefactor of a cause or undertaking
Charlyexcel Thu Apr 26, 2007	I came across this website after watching a talkshow. I decided to have a look cause it seemed absurd to me that something like this could exist...an online dating site where it is all about money and looks. Then I browsed some of the members profiles and I have noticed that you have the odd person saying, I need a SB who has to look good all the times and I will shower her with gifts but mostly you have very educated, intelligent smart men looking for similar qualities as well as looks. I feel that a Sugar Daddy and Sugar Babe resembles sweetness. The two must have a chemistry and trust for one another at one point. And that is key. When the feeling is there, you'll know, because you'll feel it. And naturally everything will be sweet, more passionate, and strong. A good understanding is always a good thing. How ever honesty and communication is key.I feel like a real SD is an older man who is looking for a younger hottie with a body to do special things for. This older man might be single, but most likely is married. He is looking for a discreet friend that he can find things that are missing in his marriage in exchange for financial assistance. Well thats my thoughts I am just going to see what happens.
Lennea Mon Apr 23, 2007	to skylar, I just wanted to say congrats for telling it like it is, it's not match.com! Not to say a relationship couldn't develop, but we didn't sign on here looking for love. to flexylexy, why are you asking a man what your worth? If you have to ask someone that question, the problem lies more in yourself!
Tonjalena Mon Apr 23, 2007	Hi, New at this, but from my point of view I think if you are on tis site you are tired of finding the wrong thing and want to find fun in many different degrees. Hope we all find what we are looking for. Happy week to all! Tonja
Lexus2 Sun Apr 22, 2007	I respect the individual ideas and wishes of all members of this site, and am only writing this posting as my personal opinion as to what SD / SB relationships can be and why some of us men choose to be here. Unless we are so filthy rich (or stupid / unattractive to look at) and need to hand over the wallet just to meet a lady, I submit that some of us choose to be here because we wish to short circuit the bar scenes and get to meet more quality ladies who can appreciate finer things in life and act like they are the sweet ladies we crave. It took me many years to become who I am, in spite of set backs from failed marriage: personally, intellectually and financially. It takes work to keep financial disciplines and to remain fairly decent looking for a lady who want to be one's special angel. Therefore, for those of us men who have achieved this level of self actualization, we choose to use this platform to meet ladies in developing mutually nurturing relationships to love, grow and learn from each other. Other than my main business, I actually have financial interest in a couple of bars / night clubs. Can't tell you how sick I am of all the bimbos that come in, hang around for free drinks from the owners and then act totally stupid, scatter or drunk altogether. So much so, I don't even like to go to my own places any more. A SD is a class man who can provide for things like a gentleman for his lady, in return for the respect, youth and beauty that his ex threw away long time ago while grabbing most of his wallets. No more, now we shall be more careful with who we bestow our generosities to... a sweet, lady like SB who would respect us as the gentlemen we deserve to be.
SuchAgoodgirl1 Sat Apr 21, 2007	I was reading these posts and they are a bit scary. I would hope that any relationship will continue to define itself--throughout the process--for as long as it lasts. I expect nothing specific: Eacp person being unique in his or her needs, expectations, and offerings. What I do hope for is a man that respects and appreciates women.
Hellokittyme Thu Apr 19, 2007	I have this one thought for you...Melania Trump was asked if she would be with Donald Trump if he had no money, she responded by saying that he would not be with me if I was not beautiful.
Litlmisselectro Tue Apr 17, 2007	Well, i think it's great that this website exists, and as long as we're all real on here, and it stays as classy as it is, then I guess it's all good... BUT I have to admit I'm not that proud of myself looking on here for someone to share life with, with that fore thought it's because they have money. Quite frankly, the money doesn't matter....and never should. I'm not a gold digger and kind of feel like one on here. And...yes yes, don't get me wrong, I agree money never hurts, but it's not everything OR even the most important. I think the most important part of being a sugardaddie or sugarbabe is that it all comes from the right place with the right intent. Honesty, integrity, class, loyalty, commitment, genuine, full of zest and just generally want to share life's journey with someone special. I personally would rather fall in love with someone knowing they didn't have that much money so it was legit that it was all about that person and not their assets.. and that's all I'm asking for in return. (and that would work for me because I'm not making millions here, let me tell ya!!) :) happy searching.
Jadxia Sun Apr 15, 2007	A SD/SB relationship can be as varied as the two partners themselves. The key is that both parties find the relationship to be mutually satisfying. As a SugarBabe, and less developed in my career, I don't have the financial stability to experience all that life has to offer. I also prefer the emotional stability of an older, wiser male. That said, one must always be on the lookout for cynicism or an overbearing attitude and avoid it like the plague! What a SugarBabe has to offer is generally a fresh and playful view of life. A SugarDaddie gains the ego-boost of having a young and vibrant girl on his arm, certainly, but of more importance is the chance to experience everything he missed while he was busy making money! Having a fresh perspective can recapture all the joys of life, from riding in a convertible with the top down to dancing in the streets of Ibiza. The money isn't any good if you don't know how to spend it! Both parties, of course, gain the benefit of any good relationship, which is the ability to share with another like-minded individual.

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