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Smokebeforefire Thu Dec 14, 2006	I don't think we can discount the fact that looks say a lot about a person, about who they are. Your looks are the outside representation of who you are on the inside. In this day and age, looks can be easilly changed, or faked, especially among women. If I have a beautiful body, it is because I have worked hard for it. If I dress a certain way, I ascribe to a certain culture. We can not just say that looks are looks and that they are unchangeable, or that they mean nothing. Looks are everything, they are the face you show the world. My word on the subject: be beautiful, but never boring.
AlabamaAngel Thu Dec 07, 2006	I have been on this site for quite some time now.... I met what I thought was my "True Love" and that ended last year.... I made so many friends on here that I kept coming back to talk to them.... I personally think everyone here has a different view of what a SD/SB thing is.... A lot aren't here for the right reasons but what is the right reason to be here?? Any way you look at it we are all just lonely looking for someone to feel that void in any way possible.... I gave up a year ago on finding that "One" for me but as I am told, When you give up is when you find it.... It finds you.... Just my .02 Tami
Wheresmydaddy Thu Dec 07, 2006	I agree with vercoolgirl. A real sugardaddy knows exactly what it means and a real sugarbabe knows exactly what it means, and anyone who is offended or upset at the mention of things and ideas that have to do with being a SD/SB, should not be on a website named "sugardaddie.com".
Cambridgedoctor Tue Dec 05, 2006	thank you for the replies to my earlier post: in the real world and even here, appearance seems to be emphasized. certainly, i agree that there has to be some chemistry for a relationship to exist, but i wonder if trying to determine whether our minds match before deciding about externals would not be a better approach. i do not mean that appearance means nothing, but in the long run, we have to get like one another and not merely be attracted to appearance to have a shot at a relationship.
cambridgedoctor Tue Dec 05, 2006	to Jamaica Girl: There has to be some passion to make a relationship, I grant that. But in the non-cyber world, relationships all begin with the physical, and here is a chance to start with an examination mind rather than first examining the body. Does this approach seem less likely to be successful than one where we approach each other deciding how hot we appear? Of course, if there is no passion, then the best one can hope for is friendship.
vercoolgal89898 Sun Dec 03, 2006	Being a real sugardaddy does not mean lie about having money. Being a real sugardaddy does not mean you go on this site to meet women but do not like the idea of being a sugardaddy. this site is for sugardaddies, not guys who want to only get laid. If you are on this site you have no right to get mad as a woman because she wants money.
Sunshine50 Sat Dec 02, 2006	At first I wasn't sure about this site and I am still not. It seems that no matter what site you are on it is mostly about the visual as we are visual beings. I am looking to connect all on levels and I want a man of quality, sophistication and who is in touch with who he is and is willing to grow as a person, so I am trying every means I can to find real people It is the same everywhere,weare all searching& like the lottery sometimes you win and sometimes you don't. I have learnt the hard way, that to expect nothing is best and if you luck out then enjoy enjoy! The harsh reality is that there are too many people playing games and hurting others and not being real in all of this.Lifeis a game of chance if you don't play and risk then you can't win if you don't try.
LizzieB Sat Dec 02, 2006	Basically, I have no idea what it means. I tend to accept things as they are. I found this site quite by accident when researching something (I'm a writer). I then looked through it and found some really nice people I thought I'd like to get to know. In my experience, having lived in many cultures, people of like values tend to gravitate towareds each other, and so long as it's sustainable, workable, everybody is happy.
cambridgedoctor Sat Dec 02, 2006	To all: I did not deny the need for some physical passion in a relationship. The internet allows us to interact initially purely on a mental level; something different from our usual encounters where the physical immediately comes to our attention. You do not find it interesting to approach these matters in a different way? If you beieve that things should start with the physical, why bother with the internet at all?
ArtByJody Fri Dec 01, 2006	(continued) Always hard to tell and which why online dating - even when promptly followed by phone calls etc... Without a actual true cohersion of body movements, seeing the eyes, the words all convey ideas instead of what we actually see as actions. In the real world - we judge everything immeditaely by how someone responds to hello and the conversation that ensues.... In the digital we have not that luxury and both parties self pre-empt the vision of what to expect... in most cases... Its not that we settle for pieces or parts its just we do not give enough time to find the positive vibes - instead we focus more on the negative because both men and women are taught either how to reject or to fear the rejection... Its a lesson that we all need to learn how to deal with as our vibes tend to attract that which we fear... A good book to read on this is "Secrets"... anyways - your not alone on it and its easy to see the negative aspect - you either portrayed or reacted to... communication is a science that I fear with all the mediums present - will be impossible to master... Find the positive - making the right choices sometimes does involve compromise but never should comprimise be in the form as settling - as those two words are self exclusive...

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