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Rass Tue Dec 26, 2006	Cambridgedoctor...you are on point: It puzzles me that so many on this site say they are looking for a real gentleman but will not take the time to read your mail/profile/get to know you, unless you post a picture of a handsome stud. Since when is this the qualification for a REAL gentleman? Funny, I have lived long enough to see many women give up the prime of their lives chasing the male alpha. After years of neglect, use and abuse, then cast their eyes on the not so alphas...keep walking!!! ADVICE..."distinguish your NEEDS from your WANTS. Take what you need, keep it a safe distance from what you want, its the WANTS that get you into TROUBLE!!!"
JamaicanGrl Mon Dec 25, 2006	I also agree with decent, you should be real in your profiles men and women. The truth will always find it's way to light. I disagree in sending notes, I have sent e-mails just to say your profile was nice, and I enjoyed it, whats wrong with being friendly. I do believe there are many on-lookers and forget that this is Sugar Daddie and not find your soul mate.com. I am not saying you can't get lucky and find both, but let's be honest with ourselves people!
Greeneyes1221 Sat Dec 23, 2006	I must say that when my friend told me about this site I thought, "What? Just a bunch of people looking for a free ticket." I guess I must agree with some of the other posts I read in that all people have their own reasons for being here: some intentions are good, some not so good. All I can say is that I am not looking for a guy who will just pay my way, not ask my opinion, engage me in conversation or think I have things to offer other than some physical intimacy. I guess I am looking for the whole package. What is that? Who knows. I think as I have gotten older I have come to know more what I DONT want than what I DO. I usually can tell right away if it is a no-go. There has to be some chemistry, obviously, but that is not all of it. I guess I decided to put a profile up when I thought to myself, "why not look for a guy who has a career, makes a decent living and is successful in life." I would hope that the person I end up with wants the same because I see a relationship as a two way street. I am not a loafer or a free-loader. I can support myself, thanks, but do enjoy occasional surprises and things to let me know I am special and thought of by my partner. So....we shall see where this road leads me.
Fabuloussuz Tue Dec 19, 2006	I agree decent, but if I see an attractive gentleman on the site and I know I do not meet his requirements...I can still send an email and tell him how attractive he is. I have also sent emails to non photo profiles and told them I enjoyed reading their profile and applaud them on being honest and publishing what they are truly looking for.
Screenwriter Mon Dec 18, 2006	part one: cambridgedoctor, I have great admiration for the thoughts expressed in your posts. I often wonder how a woman can be secure in a relationship based exclusively on a man’s attraction to her looks. I have to then wonder why a woman would “market” herself to men based only on her looks. (Yes, ladies, in a way this is a “market place” in which we place out “best goods” in the window to attract men to us.) Deep down, we women all know the truth; looks are, with certainty, one thing that will fade with time. Sure, there are things we can do to hold back the clock as best we can but time WILL change us … and, if we aren’t women of depth and substance and match with men of depth and substance some woman 20 years our junior is most likely looking pretty darned good to our man just when we need him the most and just when he needs his woman the most.
Screenwriter Mon Dec 18, 2006	part two (to cambridgedoc): That said, I think the quote you were looking for was by Rita Hayworth who said “Every man I knew went to bed with Gilda... and woke up with me”. This fits perfectly with what I call internet illusions … it is all too easy to make someone into a fantasy of what it is that you wish them to be … thinking them “perfect” before there is even a first meeting …a fantasy that most – even the most honest and upfront person – can’t live up to. Feelings are hurt … then, these disappoints cloud the perceptions of subsequent encounters for both parties. I’ll leave with a quote that is attributed to Catherine Deneuve … I find it quite appropriate to Sugardaddie.com: “This is a place full of seduction and coquetry, rich in eroticism”. This site is indeed all that … for me, I’ll embrace the seduction and eroticism … because to seduce a man one time is an easy thing … but to seduce your husband time and again is an art form … sadly, almost a lost art (look at the number of married men here looking for that missing piece … these men are missing that eroticism in their lives … ). I’ll leave the trifling of emotions and bodies to the coquettes who are here … they pick up the slack and profit from it because we, as women, forget the needs of a man.
1decentguy Sun Dec 17, 2006	The best advice that I can give to members of this site is to be "real". I have read profiles that would astound the most ardent reader of science fiction. Eventually the truth will come out anyway, and it is so much easier to remember the truth then what lie was told to whom. Also, I agree with those who say, let's get real on our requirements. Some profiles are so specific in whom they seek that there probably are not more than 12 people in the entire world who would qualify! Also this does discourage some good people from ever sending a message. The dishonerable ones on this site will send one anyway! However, it is also true, that if you in no way meet the expectations of the persons profile, you should not send a message, and waste their time. The above statements are of course applicable to both men and women.
cambridgedoctor Sat Dec 16, 2006	a beautiful mind also requires training just like a beautiful body. education, work, life experience count just as going to the gym and eating right do. Catherine Deneuve once said, that her problem was that men go to bed with Catherine Deneuve and wake up with her. why not try to determine whether a person is worth waking up with before moving the relationship forward. there are so many relationships that are based primarily on physical attraction, and it is easy to confuse lust with love. should we not be trying to sort these two things out.
Redandblack Fri Dec 15, 2006	To Cambridgedoctor: I agree with you regarding the necessity of both physical attraction and mind attraction. I often found virtual world is too illusive. It only works best if you treat it as an avene of MEETING a variety of people, not the pure way of communications. SO move to real life as soon as you can, and find out whether the attraction is real or not.
Hotsplashes Fri Dec 15, 2006	A Kudo's to ArtbyJody!!! I enjoyed the post! Here's my $.02 worth!: If people only realize that in Creating something, you have designed it to 'your specifications' and in doing so, (as you clearly pointed out but I doubt many people will get) you have set unlimited limitations instead of unleashing unlimited possibilities.

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