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Treasureme1
Sun Jan 07, 2007
Life IS really what we make it to be. This site included! All of us will walk away with a different perception of some sort as to what the true expectation IS and or WAS from the get go. Lets face it thats how it is with this site or with life. Lets keep things simple, enjoy and LIVE LIFE to the fullest!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The BEST to everyone on here!
Jewels092
Sat Jan 06, 2007
To me, being a sugarbabe means that I like to be taken care of in a relationship. Just because I want to be taken care of doesn't mean I want to give up on everything a real relationship is made of (trust, honesty, passion and friendship). I believe that I can have both with the right guy. I don't want a man to only give me financial support because to me that would be a very empty relationship. Relationships must go deeper than that because I am not a shallow person. My goal is to find an attractive man, both inside and out, who will take care of me emotionally, physically and financially. The first two are the most important while the third is merely a perk.
Tinman
Fri Jan 05, 2007
It's been awhile since I've voiced my views or opinions on here, but hey, I think it's time to hear from me again. I think a lot of you are missing the beauty of this site. It was created so that all of us can have somewhere to go and not be judged because of the special type of relationship this caters to. Exactly what is this special type of relationship? I think the name of the site pretty much says it all, but to what degree it does or doesn't suit us is entirely up to each individual. The important thing here is to repect what the other person is looking for, even if it is not what you want. Respect that person and move on if things are not right. I have been very fortunate and because of this site I had the opportunity to meet many different types of wonderful women. I am a very successful man, but in truth I did feel some of the women had their heads in the clouds as to what they were expecting out of a relationship. But I was still polite and had respect for what they wanted. I moved on and simply stated I felt we weren't a match. In return most of these women had the same respect for me. There was one or two that thought I was cheap or a phony, only because I did not meet their particular high expectations. Then they try to spread the word that me or someone similar to myself is a waste of time. These types of people are never happy unless they bring everyone else down with them or get everyone else to agree with them. They will never be happy. My point being there is someone for everyone out there. If I'm not that person, move on to the next, he or she may be the one. Go out there and find someone and don't judge others if they do not meet your expectations. Use this site as it was intended, to enjoy and not be judged.
Poppy52
Fri Jan 05, 2007
well theres a lot of interesting comments here,,,,,,,,I think we all like to flirt and meet new people,,,,,,doing it online has a real mystical feel and can be addictive. When somebody likes you it gives you a buzz and it starts a fun ride, sometimes it may work out mostly is does,nt due to locations e.t.c. I just fancy chatting to people from all over the world and who knows, we may click and meet up. the only trouble is you cant feel that chemistry online which is an important factor when you fall in love, people can be attractive due their personality and that cannot be seen online,,,,,,,,,,,,never mind fingers crossed I wait in anticipation,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,good luck everyone.
JC1234
Thu Jan 04, 2007
Wow, I can see everyone's thoughts on this subject. However, I have a few things to add. When I think of "Sugardaddie" I think of a distinguished gentleman financially secure. A man that knows he needs a woman by his side to compliment, not only his entry into a room, but also compliment all aspects of his life. I think the term "Sugardaddie" is old-fashioned. Women have come a long way in their education and in their self-respect. They are in need of a man to compliment them in their social circles as well.
Niceguy451
Fri Dec 29, 2006
First, I have always been open and honest in my profile. I know who I am and what I am about. In my life, I have come closer to the woman I want when I dated younger women and decided to look for my future miss here. This site has a higher concentration of younger women who apprciate older men (I am 40, not 80 lol). Now as for the sugardaddy thing, I have always been a person that likes nice things, and I can't see what is wrong with a woman liking nice things. As for sex, though one cannot hang a relationship on it for long, I like sex. I like it a lot. My deal is that I do want to commit to a woman who likes it as LEAST as much as me.I have been in the relationship where you SLEEP next to the beautiful woman...but that is it...S L E E P. Not me anymore. While I would never be casual with sex, I do find it can product honesty and openness from a woman if your focus is taking care of her needs. I am goal oriented and I have relationship goals as well. This place seems like a good place to start.
15daddyo15
Fri Dec 29, 2006
Rass...very well said. I too have seen too many wonderful ladies waste away their life trying to turn their "want" into their "need". It never works. As for my thoughts on being a SD, I'm not sure I can put it into words very well. I think deep down, I would like to be in a committed relationship, but I also realize that I am not emotionally or physically available to do that being a business owner and working the hours I do. So the SD relationship currently suits me well. I think the key, as in any relationship, is communication. I try to make perfectly clear that I am who I am right now, and that things will not change anytime soon. I am more than happy to spoil any SB who might want to take the time to get to know me. As it has been said here recently....just be real.
Tezzainoz
Thu Dec 28, 2006
My second relationship went along similar lines just a lady looking for a different future, and I have made many good friends in the 3 years i have been a Sugar Daddy While we where together I held a ladder for her to climb and she used the time to climb it, now she works for a very up market law office in Texas, and every Xmas sends me a card to say THANK YOU for giving me the chance I have the Financial mean to help what she needs and she has the physical needs that I need Seems this is why every one get married in the first place, a woman wants her man t look after her and he wants constant affection What happened to that great Movie “Pretty Woman” hey I’m no Richard Geer” but I know that $1000 a week does not go far if your living a Sugar daddy life relationship, some guys on this site would be flat out spending 10% of this Again I apoligise if I offend any one, but at the moment this has become nothing but a dateless and desperatae site and in the words of Tina Turner “Whats Love Got to do with it” Love can not pay a hotel bill, a nice bottle of bubbly, a nice meal or a nice evening dress Sugar = Sweet Delicious Babe = Young attractive Sugar = To be Sweet and give nice things Daddy = some one twice your age, old enough to be your father
Tezzainoz
Thu Dec 28, 2006
Ha ha ha Sorry but some of the profiles on this site are utter rubbish, and nothing to do with a Sugar Daddy - Sugar babe relationship. Sorry if I call a spade a spade, I have nothing against what is said on this site, only the name, is just appears as a joke Over 3 years ago I was seperated for the 2nd time in my life, guess not a good traffic record but taught me the pressures of marrige today are just to hard,, I met young lady studing at university, and for the next 12 months, paid for her education and living expenses, bought her nice things, now this was no one sided arrangement with her on my arm I was able to sign off on many important business deals, as I soon learnt the real things in life that count (whether I agree with them or now are) 1) the clothes you wear 2) the car you drive 3) the lady on your arm Put them all together and you appear to be sucessful, and everyone whats to be part of success As I said I may not like the system but have learnt to follow
BrilliantNYBabe
Thu Dec 28, 2006
People should just relax and have fun on here! Isn't that what it's really all about? I am sure there are many nice-male and female-people on here. You just have to take the time to look!
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