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Chante25 Mon Jan 22, 2007	I think people literally take the meaning of a sugar daddy in a wrong way, and it can also be an offensive way. To me a sugar daddy is a person who is content in all aspects of his life, he is someone who can act as a positive influence and has a positive impact on the life of someone who may need his guidence and support
CoolBreeze Sun Jan 21, 2007	It can be as simple as an older man seeking the spark of a younger woman, and a younger woman who values the maturity of an older man.
Joiedvivre Sat Jan 20, 2007	I honestly thought it was just another regular dating site when a friend recommended it (the way these things work is that unless you sign up and hjoin, you really don't get to have a look under the covers...scuse the pun!) Having discovered that its really is about "discreet relationships" more than anything else, I have to say...so what? I don't actively pursue it, but I am way past being judgemental or close-minded about people's needs and that includes their need for play. If the notion of "play" leaves a marriage....as it so often does and I am afraid, women are most guilty of losing interest, but there are many dull men too...it spells DISASTER! Men or women married to successful entrepreneurial high-achieving people should know that they have active minds and a correlating high libido...and if "playfulness" in all its guises evaporates, they WILL seek it elsewhere! This site is much classier than any other means of seeking it.
Sixfeetandsexy Thu Jan 18, 2007	If I was looking for my prince charming or night in shining armour I would be on eHarmony or Match.com. I think a lot of the new users are not getting what this site is all about. We all know what Sugar Daddy stands for, so why are we fronting or trying to over analyze the concept. "It is what it is" and if you are looking for that Mr. Right I think you should try one of the other sites. Stop scaring away the true SD's by looking for your future husband or baby daddy!!
LipstickKisses Mon Jan 15, 2007	I believe there are two classes: People of a certain class who are looking for love, just like anyone else on this planet, myself included. People who are looking for someone of a particular financial status to enhance their life. And I think you can see the difference when reading a profile.
BlackCinderella Sat Jan 13, 2007	For me personally, a SD is someone I can confide in, turn to, and build a real relationship with. Yes, I want to meet someone that I like. Yes, I want to meet someone that I am going to be affectionate with and care for. But yes, I also expect to be cared for as well in everyway a real man would. He will get to know me and anticipate my needs, just as I would do for him. I really feel that it is a two way street here. Now that I am a member, I hope to meet someone who is truly experienced and ready to treat me in the way I deserve to be treated and respected as a strong woman.
Palbar Wed Jan 10, 2007	Part II Regarding wealth. Wealth can bring pleasure but not happiness. Happiness ultimately depends on wisdom and wisdom derives from self knowledge. To know oneself doesn't mean to just know what ones momentary whims are, it means to understand the long term and subtle consequences of ones actions. On this score we all fall short and over the long run time lends itself to this lesson. Save yourself the trouble, and be true to your deepest sense of what is right and your long term goals will more than likely come to fruition. However, sometimes everything goes against one e.g. Job. When the fun ends, the pleasure dies and circumstances change, immature sugar babes and dads will be driven to dispair, but wisdom asthetes will have prepared. That's the hedge. In a bear or bull market wisdom wins the day. Wealthy people, not new wealth, but wealth preserved over generations, knows this. As above so below. Good luck to you all. Sincerely, DB
Palbar Wed Jan 10, 2007	Part I It seems to me there is a direct correlation between intelligence and authenticity; after all if you're inauthentic that's not very smart, given the brevity of life (people here use as their mottos) because if life is short than deep encounters would take priority. If life is short than quality counts if you want to have lived a quality life. Anyone worth their salt (and it was poor soldiers who were paid in salt) should know that quality is directionally proportionate to depth of connection. For the guy who wants to fulfill his ultimate sexual fantasies with a young women, be reminded there are younger women into older guys interested in an authentic connection. Young women who want to hide behind their looks and not authentically engage, loose out on one of the most beautiful experiences this life can offer: love. I think many sugar addicted people may not understand the meaning of this word. Love has three aspects (so goes the classic Platonic explanation), physical, psychological, and spiritual. Those three are rarely experienced together with one person and when they are that person is rightly called a soul mate. I'm fine with people seeking out whatever they desire but they shouldn't fool themselves with arguments from life brevity to superficial encounters; that doesn't add up.
MeMe87 Tue Jan 09, 2007	I just joined this site and what I believe a Sugardaddie is: someone that can provide all the things that a woman wants in her life. Someone that a lady can turn to in her time of need. I believe he provides mental; emotional; physical and finanical support. They both meet each others needs and that could be whatever they decide. I'm personally looking for the total package. This is what everyone wants but...alot of people are afraid to admit it or feel they don't deserve the best. I deserve the best and will not settle for less. Everyone should have the mind set of wanting the best for themselves. It doesn't have to mean he has to be a hunk..because a hunk can be only into himself and beauty diminishes/fade away. True beauty is within and it's rare to find both. I joined this site to see if there is really someone out there that wealth hasn't tainted to the point reality isn't real to him. To see if a Real Man can handle a Real Woman. I wish everyone the best and remember to always be true to yourself and who you are chatting with. Peace
ClasssyOne Sun Jan 07, 2007	Wow, what a loaded question I find this to be. First of all, in my own humble opinion, I personally don't want to be considered a SB. Depending on who you are, it might be considered sexual, cute, being a gold digger, or just another name for someone who doesn't know who they are. Everyone has their own perception to what this may be, and I don't know if there is a right answer. Everyone on here has a right to attach whatever definition they wish to it based on what their own thoughts are. Maybe I find it to be entertaining on this particular site that we are referred to as a SB. That is all it is to me; it is a name that exudes entertainment, if anything. Personally, I have a name, an identity, and I know who I am and what I want in life. I have gone on acouple of dating sites in the past, have gotten bored with them and decided to try another. This site is simply one that supposedly encompasses a different type of man on a particular financial plane. Other dating sites have very successful men on them as well but that is not the primary focus of their profile, and this site simply capitalizes on the financial worth of those who have a profile and refers to a girl like me as a SB. It's a marketing tool. It's all good, or I wouldn't be on here ... call me what you want, but I don't percieve myself as a SB because I am looking for something that I have been patiently waiting for .. and that is simply something that money can't buy. The financial status of a man is simply a bonus, if anything at all.

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