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Gemzexoticagirl Fri Feb 09, 2007
| KNOWING OFF THE GET GO YOUR POSITION....AND YOUR IDEALS...MOST WOMEN DON'T WANT TO BE WITH A DEAD BEAT..... AND MOST MEN DON'T WANT THERE WOMEN UGLY....THE BREAK DOWN...THE MEN(DADDY'S)ARE MEN THE WOMAN(BABES).. OK ..ARE HOTTIES ..OR SHOULD BE....THERE ARE EXEPTIONS....BUT EVEN THOSE ARE SPELLED OUT ... ..ITS DEFINITION...ADD SOME SUGAR (THAT IS UP FOR INTERPRETATION)....AND THERE YOU HAVE IT ... |
Cliffe Fri Feb 09, 2007
| Well Im just seeking a younger lady to add zest to life and in turn I expect to take care of her in a monogamous relationship.Seems to me any relationship can work well if peeps are honest and titles dont mean a lot really ;) |
Sugadaddy Thu Feb 08, 2007
| Well in reality its all about " what can you do for me ". That is the first question most women ask me , they basically write a letter of demands and say how they dont have any free time . So is this the new SD/SB relationship of today? I dont mean to offend anyone here but it seems some are un realistic or misinformed of what its all about . Some on here think this is a form of income or worse a social program were they collect a monthly welfare check . Im not saying all are like that but there is alot that do act that way . I guess im old fashion , nothing in life is free and you only get back what you put into it . |
SSValentine Thu Feb 08, 2007
| It’s pretty cool to debate an oldie like novelty - adding fresh paint to a historical house built few centuries ago? The SD/B concept is deeply-rooted in Europe and Asia where it almost expected that a wealthy man would have a mistress or two to take care of. Google Stanley Ho, the poster boy of polygamy, he lives openly with four concubines in a society that resembles New York but minus phalanx of matrimonial lawyers. Happily ever after? Only he knows. A relationship needs work, finding your match is only half the battle. Is SD/B relationship suitable to everyone on this site? I doubt it very much. But that doesn’t mean they won’t find what they’re looking for here. There are always unexpected surprises in life, combined with probability and possibility - you just have to make decision wisely. |
Lawstudent40 Thu Feb 08, 2007
| To flexy lexy. You're such a hypocrite. If you think this site is demeaning to women and misogynistic why are you on it? You ask if all women are worth is their looks? Are all men just human ATM's?
This is a site where beautiful women come to meet well to do men. If that's not your cup of tea, fine. But don't act holier than thou when your motives for being here could just as easily be questioned. |
JamaicanGrl Wed Feb 07, 2007
| I wouldn't get caught up in the name, what ever you want to call it. It is basically a relationship where a man takes care of his lady. I have come across more than a few that just have spare time on this site. I think that eventually the jokers will fade and the real men will step forward. In any event if this is not the type of situation you seek, perhaps you are searching in the wrong venue? |
Skylar1 Wed Feb 07, 2007
| Response to JEWELS092 FEB 4th about my post on Feb 1st: this forum does ask for our different views on what a sugardaddie/sugarbaby relationship is, so i stated my views as i have a right to my own opinion, just as you have a right to yours. Implying that i'm shallow because i know what i want at this particular time in my life goes to show the difference in levels of maturity. Name-calling is just a sign of ones own insecurities. My statement was in depth and to the point. After all this site is named SUGARDADDIE.COM and i also did mention that it might possibly turn into something more than a sugardaddie/ sugarbaby relationship for some as not to leave anyone out.. My opinions come not from a shallow mind but instead come from the mind of a person of very deep thoughts.
Skylar |
Yourknightagain Wed Feb 07, 2007
| yes the term SUGARDADDIE does mean that a well off gentelman takes care of a lady in need financialy and the lady friend supplies company for the gentelman, as to what kind of company she offers or he asks for in return is up to the two of them. Do some ladies hope to make more of the arrangement, YES, do some hope to just get more out of their lives from him YES, is it wrong, NO. You both know what your walking into so dont have any expectations, just hope it works out the way you hope it does or make sure your BOTH aware of what each of you will be offering the other. |
Senhor Tue Feb 06, 2007
| Here is my take on "what does it mean to be a sugar daddy?" I read the different opinions here with great interest. Some see it as a prospective rich husband. Some see it as having a mistress. Some see it as regular dating, but with a more sophisticated man. Some see it as glamorous social companionship or arm candy. I noticed that most men argue that it has to follow the dictionary definition, and most women argue that the opening page of this site sets the standard. Let me tell you how I see it. Even if we don't all agree on the same definition, we will be fine as long as we can identify those who do agree with OUR definition. When people are honest and clear in their profiles about what they are looking for, others can sort out potential matches and mismatches. You think a SD is someone who throws money at you for the heck of it? No problem. Just say so, and you have my best wishes for finding him. You think a SB is a sex machine who just wants to be with an older man? No problem. Best of luck finding her. You believe a SD/SB should be the love of your life? I can understand. You think a SD/SB relationship should be platonic? Thank you for sharing your opinion. When all is said and done, the question is "Can I identify those who are a potential match for me?" If I can, it's all good. I don't mind that others have different definitions, different goals, or even different morality. As long as I can identify who is a match and who is not, I have all the definition that I need. |
1Wildcard Tue Feb 06, 2007
| I agree with most of the posts here. I HAVE found better quality individuals here in this venue. Truly a breath of fresh air...I do know that a true man, can share the maturity of a good relationship, with a woman who knows what she is looking for. For me, I have been blessed with meeting a few good people within this venue, where I have not had this opportunity on other sites. Oh,I am over the club scene, I just go to look now, if I go.
No matter what, a Sugar Daddy should be CAPABLE of bringing something to the table, and not a taker. He should have the ability to give a financial, as well as an emotional stability where there may be a need. It should not be and entitlement to a woman, but a willingness by the man to give or share. Or, if the guy is insanely wealthy, heck, let hime spend it well and share with these brave female souls...guys(or gal) you made it, you can spend it....After all, it is Sugardaddie.com! Duh.. |
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