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Zodiacgirl35 Sun Feb 18, 2007	I have really enjoyed going through this forum. I have only recently found this site and it certainly seems to have a higher level of intelligence than a lot of other sites. Coolbreeze (check his profile) wrote: "It can be as simple as an older man seeking the spark of a younger woman, and a younger woman who values the maturity of an older man." It can also be an older woman seeking the maturity and spark of a younger male:-) I do agree with most of the other comments, interestingly enough by men, that it is what both of you want to get out of it. For me a Sugardaddie/mommie is someone who wants to share their hardearned resources with someone who knows how to enjoy life, provide companionship and the rest is for the Sugarbabe to determine. Where's my Sugardaddie?????? ;-)
Mgraham Sat Feb 17, 2007	my thoughts are this male/female has registered on this site to meet some ambitious at a certain level in life and not a dead beat. I joined because I was sick of being told that I was setting my sites to high wanting a man who is decent honest and hardworking. When my friends say come to a club or bar you don't meet decent men I like the finer things in life as do most of the men on the site
Errandgirl Fri Feb 16, 2007	Ms. Testarosa and Mr. Lawstudent40 Ms. Testa......that is one of the first times I have EVER heard a woman voice what I feel as a woman. What is wrong in being the very creatures that God created us to be. I revel in being a woman and so long to take care of my mate without supporting him. Why should we feel shame or less of a woman for feeling that way? I take great offense to our own gender turning on me regarding my feelings for I support their decisions to live as they feel they should. I do not think that I am any less important, intellegent or have less integrity for choosing the traditional role. In fact, I feel it takes a more well rounded, educated and fully complete woman within herself to find the joy within is what makes her who she is. It is not the position she holds in a career, the money she makes, the degrees she acquires, the prestige of a title ....but rather how she feels about her ownself. Whether a career oriented woman or the home based, family oriented woman, molding future well-balanced society members, there is beauty. I agree with you 100% and thank you for your viewpoint. Mr. Lawstudent40......HEAR HEAR HEAR.....very well said....why do people join a site and then criticize those other members? I do feel she has probably run into those men who may be looking for more of a token, I don't know....and if that is what they want, go for it....that is why there are more flavors of ice cream than just vanilla...I have confidence there is someone that will be just what I want and just what he wants.....if you don't fit the bill of another....just say..........NEXT!!!! Thank you for your time! Erin
Baphmotet Fri Feb 16, 2007	Well I joined SD last night and havent had so much fun on the web in ages! If you take the site with a pinch of salt then its great. I have already spoken to several interesting sounding men whom I wouldnt have met sitting at home with my children... apart from that Im not quite sure what is wrong with women wanting to find solvent and talented partners. Or the other way round.
Smilingsuz Thu Feb 15, 2007	I have had a fabulous time on this site and I am off the market and so is he .... We are very glad for SD.com, we are both single and we stimulate each other in and out of the bedroom..I am also a single mom with a little one.Good luck to all!!!!!
Lawstudent40 Thu Feb 15, 2007	Testarossa- You're exactly right. But here's the problem. A lot of American women have priced themselves out of the market. They make as good or better money than some men, but still expect the guy to pay for everything. On one hand some women are saying "look st us, we can be successful and take care of ourselves"...in the next breath they're saying "but I'm still a vulnerable female and you should pay for everything"...... As a sugardaddie, I want a woman who knows how to be a woman. I guess I'm old fashioned, but I love to take care of the lady I'm with. I don't mind if she has a career, but if she's with me she doesn't have to work. I'd rather have her available so we can jet off somewhere on a moment's notice. Women need to embrace their femininity, and men need to be the caretakers we're meant to be. Most of the ladies on this site are GREAT, and I've made some great friends.
Angeleyes0918 Wed Feb 14, 2007	IMHO, the modern day counterpart to the original definition of a sugar daddy/babe is more about attitude. At least for me. I have a great life! Therefore I want to meet like minded people who enjoy all that this world has to offer. I am independent. I am emotionally secure. I am motivated. I have drive and focus. I want to do it all! And I want to meet people who see that glass as half full! I want to soar with the eagles rather than hang with the turkeys!
Mostwantedsb Wed Feb 14, 2007	I think it's funny that men seem to get so upset when it seems the woman is after his money but then when you discuss what you are both looking for, your decision to keep the relationship at a non-sexual basis is completely out of the question. Hello? If you don't want a golddigger, don't advertise your income on the internet. I don't think a sd/sb relationship should be exclusive. That would be a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. I realize the possibility of love does exist with this and I am not closed to that by any means. To me though, this kind of dating is based more on mutual benefits rather than personality compatibility and chemistry which I would look for maybe in someone I would meet on match.com. Sugarbabies tend to be young and extremely attractive. Sugardaddies tend to be older, successful men. Therefore, it is going to be harder to find a lot in common when your ages are so far apart and you've both lived very different experiences. It's just harder to relate to that.
DivaSeeker Tue Feb 13, 2007	Thank God for sugarbabies! At least they are honest in their approach. This certianly does not mean that love can not be found simply because we aspire to success or beauty. Being honest is the hardest the part of the equation when we first entertain a new relationship. All too often we over-look or ignore traits in the other person that cuase problems later. It was not easy but my profile is from my very heart
MissTestarossa Sun Feb 11, 2007	The nature of femininity is to feel attracted to a man who can provide for them. The fact that we bear children make us vulnerable. The need for security is hard wired into us. Even though our culture and society has changed to the point that women can really do it all for themselves today, we still have the desire for a 'knight in shining armour' deep down inside. We are now expected by society to bear babies, support ourselves and our children and look fabulous all the time! No wonder women have such a high rate of depression today! If we could stop working so hard, give in to our nature and allow men to take care of us, we could blossom into the relaxed, loving, joyous and nurturing creatures we are meant to be. Although I, myself feel I have these qualities most of the time, the pressure of survival makes it difficult to live this way all the time. Wouldn't it be wonderful and freeing to be all that we can be as women?? To be giving and loving and happy all the time?

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