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LittleMsSub Thu Aug 20, 2009	Well...I have read many posts here and I am going to add my 2 cents. I am sick of meeting people in bars or parties, making plans then having them back out last minute cause they are broke or will be broke if they take time off work...I also struggle sometimes but I TAKE THE TIME WHEN I SAY I WILL. I work 2 jobs...1 my own business and the other a group home part time. I dont WANT MONEY for me, I can pay my own bills thank you...I want the person whom I choose to go out with to be able to AFFORD TO TAKE THE TIME to spend with me...be it a dinner... party... QUIET afternoon or full out getaway. I guess my opinion of a Suggar Daddy is someone who can financially afford the TIME IT REQUIRES to spend with a companion.... no matter the location.
PopsicleToes Thu Aug 20, 2009	A very good friend of mine...(busy CEO type) Met his now wife here...His advice to me was to put myself in a position to meet a guy who has his life in order, and is looking for a woman who will appreciate him for more than the material goods he has gathered. He wanted a real baby and now has a beautiful son. I'm looking for a decent man who already has kids...etc. And wants a sincere woman to share life with.
Spicemama Wed Aug 19, 2009	Thank goodness for the feminist movements for equal opportunity, but what many men may not be aware of, or not want you to know, is that despite all that, it is still very much so a man's world, and most likely always will be. Women can try, but often have to do 10 times or more the work that a man does to get the same payback result, whether it is a position, or pay. There is no such thing as equal opportunity in the business world. Many men even say, and spread about their industries that they would never work with a woman, and even an Alpha Woman is most frequently undermined by and placed in pecking order below even a Beta male, by both Alpha Males, and Beta Males. Debate this all you want, but it is true. I love the generous men who have compassion for women, and feel for the frustrations they must endure when they have the same brains, asperations, try just as hard, and do just as much work, often more (because they have to), but then just don't have the same opportunities or results, and wish to lift these women off the ground by providing a decent financial opportunity.
Luvyezika Tue Aug 18, 2009	I completely agree with everyone who says that a sugar daddie n suggar babe relationship is based on respect. I also think that the relationship that a sugar daddie has is not to completely shower with gifts and trips because then it only becomes a materialistic 'relationship'. The sugar babe should not expect the sugar daddie to give give n give if she n he are looking for something serious.
Extremesweet Mon Aug 17, 2009	Hello!! My girlfriend recommended this site to me from London, I actually living in Sweden. I personnally want a longterm relationship or even some one who want to have long distance relationship. I completely understand the meaning with this site and young women, and thats nothing wrong. I am working hard and can pay my own bills and I have everything I need, but I am tired of man who is not same ambition like me. What I want is to have man who can and want to spoil me with other things, like a gifts, trips, flowers, theatre, restaurant,fine wine and good company:)) I have raised upp two sons( 18 and 14) alone and now is time for mom to get private liv..:)) and fun..:)) So I am available and we will see what happens. And good luck for everyone:)) Br.
Cookies1977 Sat Aug 08, 2009	I completely agree, that it is all about respect. You cannot expect if you do not give it. Being direct, respectful and genunine goes a long way. Nothing should be expected... I think a person should merit what they get. Looks fade and in the end the mind, and personality is what you have ...very invaluable.
Ictangel Thu Aug 06, 2009	I agree with TINMAN... I think that respect is something special and both men and women should repect each other. It is good to see that not all of the people who use this site are just out for what they can get money wise! There are of course some who really do just want a sugar daddie in the full sence of the word. But there is the option to put that accross on your profile without 'selling yourself' with explicit profile pictures. Which I might add are not supposed to be allowed? It did say that in the disclaimer and the profiles are supposed to be screened...
BobbyBoy51 Wed Aug 05, 2009	This is my second posting to this forum. I have had several women write to me about my first posting (all positive comments--thank you) and I wanted to elaborate a bit. This is not loveatfirstsite.com Men on this site are supposed to have discretionary assets, the willingness to spend those assets on a woman, and be interested in a relationship with a woman who appreciates (AND SHOWS her appreciation) of his time, attention and economic stimulus. Women need to keep in mind that from many guy's perspective all "efforts" are created equal. The time he spends flying to meet you at your home town or the money he spends on taking you to theater and dinner, etc. are all equal. Everything we spend is a commitment to a package--to a program--to a relationship. So one weekend it may be spending time together in one of the home towns (a cheap weekend) and the next get together might be a trip to NYC (an expensive weekend). Gents who are on this site need to be real clear as to what they are able to afford. Women can sense a cheap guy miles away. Women need to be real clear (at least in their own heads) as to what they are willing to offer and what they are getting themselves into. The man will arrive at your doorstep with certain expectations. Make sure his expectations are in line with yours. Lastly, I don't understand at all women on this site who Hotlist a man and then don't follow up with either an email or reply to his emails. The guys on this list are supposed to be able to fly to meet you. They are supposed to have assets. If you think they are HOT then why are you not interested in meeting them? It makes me think that you are just playing around. What a waste of time.
Tinman Tue Aug 04, 2009	PART 1 It's been a long time since I posted on here, but I feel it's time to do so again. I've watched this site change over time from a strictly sugardaddie site to that which is mixed with simply affluent men and the women that desire them. Whether anyone is here for a sugardaddie relationship or something more serious, the main point to remember is RESPECT. RESPECT the reasons for why a person is here. The whole point of the site is to be comfortable with the type of relationship you are looking for. No single person is better than anybody else or above anybody else because of the type of relationship they are here for. As for a sugar daddie relationship, I can see why some of the men are mad at some of the women on this site.
Tinman Tue Aug 04, 2009	PART 2 My opinion of a sugardaddie relationship is one in which the man helps the woman. This may be through advice gained by experience, networking or simply helping out with the bills. A sugardaddie relationship also entails spoiling the young lady from time to time with a gift, a trip or simply taking her to a fine dinner, any of which she would not be able to afford on her own. Besides this there is an actual friendship between the two at the very least, many times it may lead to more. What I can't stand to see is women that sell themselves for material objects or have a shopping list of things they want and think that the purpose of a man is to buy them these things simply because they are attractive. These are also the same irresponsible types that have photos of themselves from glamorous photo shoots and claim to live an extravagant lifestyle, yet they can't afford to pay their own phone bill. To me this is irresponsible and they deserve nothing from anyone. It's the woman that is truly trying, going to school or working an extra job, that is the person that deserves the spoiling in my opinion. Ask yourself, which one am I?

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