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Mon Mar 12, 2007
My definition is also what most of the other beautiful woman have written. With the exception of a few who seem to think the s.d/s.b relationship is more of a lifetime or long term one on one dating thing...No...I believe Being a sugar babie mean's first and foremost, there are no game's its all right up front and out in the open, there is no reason to hide the fact that the man is possibly married or dating other's. Then, once the man and woman have both proven to the other they are who and what they say they are financially on the daddie side and beautiful vivacious sexy young and ready to fullfill their desire's from the babe's side. Then all the technicallities so to speak are out of the way. So what's wrong after the hard part's done and if your up front then go for it, have fun, be the other woman or the mistress, that is what it's all about. Filling a void for the man who has either no one or a wife who no longer appreciate's the finer thing's on his body..:) If he take's care of me and provide's the better life that we all obviously hope for, then take care of him, the way every man deserve's to be cared for. The way that they themselves can not do alone. Men are spectacular being's who not only want their cake but want the cake the icing and the cream in the center!
Mzsilky
Mon Mar 12, 2007
Put it like this... We are mature adults and should act accordingly, like the site implies, its exactly what it is, fun sensual attitude, presentation, and enjoyment is what we all are looking for, so lets move forward and relax and play and be happy.... I know I will..
Queenkee
Mon Mar 12, 2007
I can honestly say that I never thought I would become a memeber of this site. When I was told about it by a friend, I thought "that's obsurd". I have always been so independent that the tought of someone taking care of my every need never entered my mind. Then I realized the reason why I was so unhappy in my relationships was because I was always "GIVING" more into the relationship than the other person...including financially. I have always been spoiled in my life but it's been by family members or by myself. I think I am well over due for that knight in shinning armour to sweep me off my feet. I already know how to cater to every single one of his desires (because I've been doing that all along), and if he has the means to spoil me with every single one of my pleasures, than the relationship is mutually beneficial. I like the sound of that and I guess I'm "obsurd" too.
Anjyll
Mon Mar 12, 2007
Its simple. Due to other commitments, either at work or home, it has become harder for people to find ways to make themselves happy. A site like this brings like minded people together in hopes of finding that happiness. For me, I'm sick of the dating scene and at the same time I get lonely and miss being treated like a lady. Being in a SD relationship has it's benefits to both parties. It allows me to connect with and get to know a person on a more personal level and I get to have a life of my own. At the same time, He shows his appreciation for finding someone that he can connect with and not worry about it spilling over in to his personal life. When he finds himself wanting a travel partner or just a night out he has someone he can call that he is already comfy with. ~anjyll~
Allan
Sun Mar 11, 2007
What is a Sugardaddy? A sugardaddy is something like a rich uncle that you really like. Except that you're not related by blood so you have to "adopt" him and then you become his pet. Bingo - an ad hoc inter-generational relationship. It's nice if you live close but it's not essential. (My SB lives more than 8000 miles away yet we communicate almost every day.) The only necessary thing is love. Not bling or sex, as some would tell you, but a love that nurtures and respects its object. Happy is the one who finds a genuine sugardaddy relationship!
Sassieclo
Fri Mar 09, 2007
I guess I was looking for love in all of the wrong places. I value myself as a woman and was hoping that a man would find that as an asset. I do want to find a wonderful man to share with, in all ways, not just my body. I believe and feel I am worth more than a dinner and show, when did we get so shallow or so belittled. I love sex and have a high drive, but I would like to get to know someone first to see if we do connect, I dont need a man to get me off, I can do that myself, but I want a man that wants to really be with me. I want to enjoy a true loving relationship where you take care of each other. Isnt that what "Sugar" is all about? Its supposed to be sweet, not bittersweet.
Candicemonique
Tue Mar 06, 2007
hey sugadaddie's and babe's...i just wanted to say that the whole thing about an opinion is the fact that it is never really wrong, it's just what a person is feeling. i do have a question though...why is it that back in the day, a man was required to take care of his woman no matter what his social status, and nobody had anything to say about it? now they have added a name to it and all the sudden there is a problem?????????? get real people. first of all, not all sugadaddies/babes are in it for just the benefits. feelings are definitely something that can't be helped, and while some people go into this for one reason, they end up falling in love in the meantime. i know i am a type of person that doesn't ever plan my relationships...do plans tend to go "as planned"-not in my world, but there is nothing wrong with giving your nonplan a head start!! some of you may be lost, but it is my opinion that an upgrade beats a downgrade anyday. you are upgrading eachother. my real daddy always told me what i'm giving is worth just as much as what i'm getting. so the sugadaddies job is to handle the $$$, but the sugababe definitely has a job to do too. we have to keep this hard working, stressed out man happy while looking way above average most of the time. that can be damn hard ladies!! and living in high heels is pretty much the same thing as working a 9 to 5 and i'm sure i can get some agreements on that! so, daddies and babes, do what you do, but like who and what you do because there is nothing worse than smiling in a man's face who you really can't stand-compatiblity really does play a major part in this game!
Squasher1962
Mon Mar 05, 2007
I would like to think that the quality and honesty of the men and women on this site exceeds those on other sites... if nothing more because the name implies an openess to the idea of an older, more mature man who simply enjoys the feeling of dating and sharing time with a woman who may rely more heavily on his ability to provide. I like to provide for a woman who thinks of me affectionately and tenderly... not as an object for use and abuse. Of course that is a two way street and I would never consider treating a woman as a commodity. Yet, I do like to take care of a woman... I guess it makes me feel more secure and valuable as a man.
Maryshappy
Sat Mar 03, 2007
Hmmmm.... doesnt matter what u call urself... it is what is inside u that counts. have fun and dont worry about who has what role. women have very good ideas and so do men... put those together and walllahhhh....Mary
Solallurenyc
Sat Mar 03, 2007
I am of the opinion that if both parties are up front and honest about their agendas the possibilities are endless.
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