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ryan001
Wed Sep 19, 2007
A "Traditional" SD/SB relationship is when the Sugardaddy takes care of all the sugar-babes financial needs (set allowance, help with the bills, or whatever else is decided upon), and she makes herself available for weekly arrangements (dinner, traveling, private functions, and private time), and both parties are held to the highest level of discretion. Also can be descibed as two people who are compatible, friends, travel partners, share uninhibited sex, talk about nothing and enjoy their time together. These two people will get away from reality together and can both relate to each other. The SD will know that his SB needs him and will help her financially. The SB will be his confidante, his getaway from home, his friend, she will be pampered, spoiled. This is also a great site for women who are independent and financially secure on their own who are just tired of dating uninspired, unmotivated slackers, and for men who just simply appreciate the company of a woman that can carry herself with class and dignity and can handle herself in his world at business fuctions or 5 star dinners for example. This is NOT Match.com or EHarmony.com, and although its quite possible that you can find true love here, andI hope everyone finds what they are looking for, anyone here who is offended by members on both sides being upfront and asking for what they want should go to another website.
Poeme
Tue Sep 18, 2007
A sugar daddy is a man who is confident, intelligent, successful, and knows how to treat a woman with respect in addition to spoiling her. Now of course, there are those 10% of men that a woman must watch out for...bottom line is you are who you attract. I am new, but so far..the men seem very charming and genuine.
Respond911
Tue Sep 18, 2007
for me this site is just perfect..everything is out in the open without the head games of other dating sites. no need to pretend here. yes some are here for life partners but perhaps they do not share my idea of what a sugar daddie site entails..perhaps they will convert. at the risk of offending the ladies here and limiting my future options i will give my opinion. yes a sugar daddie is usually married..as i am..and yes he is cheating here, looking for a younger, sexy, willing, open minded, experimental, lady to share time with. most of us are alpha males and we are not into single partners for life. yes our wives are soul mates, but we love competition and where better than to compete for younger women using our skills as business men and go getters. hopefully the ladies here are onto us and are willing to indulge us in our fantasies. if not, their loss, we are not desperate, just competitive. a no strings, friend with benefits relationship is what this is about. we want your company and you want our favours. please do not tell me you want to see the world, rather tell me you want to share mine. i love the feel, smell, touch, and sound of a sexy young lady. indulge me and i will give you your due...but please do not look on me as a life partner. i am mister here and now, enjoy, indulge, be honest, and lets have fun. and yes this means i want to enjoy every aspect of you not just shower you with gifts. yes that means that...no ifs ands or buts. if you cannot deal with that you are not a real partner for a sugar daddy.
Kiata
Mon Sep 17, 2007
And to the responses. The men I have encountered with have these qualities and if anyone chooses to accept gifts, ects, that is a choice. But you can't judge anyone comments just because of their opinions. Yes, I am aware of what a sugar daddie is. and vise versa. It's an opinion, and just a comment, if you don't agree, that's fine, don't try to make someone feel as if there comments are wrong just because the way you choose to feel about a subject. Sugardaddie is what it is to whomever is on this site. And if you get what you want, and others get what they want, who cares what it is. And yes, wisdome is a gift..to thoes who appreciate it. And perhaps you should get stocks and cd's learn how to invest the money your given as I did..(oh, but that might be wisdom, I don't think you need that) Kiata
islandjoy
Mon Sep 17, 2007
My take on the A SD/SB relationship is this basic honesty, respect and loyalty. A person will treat you how you wan to be treated be treated, before getting into this lifestyle because it is and a choice for whomever is getting into it. I want this type of arrangement because it is easier to deal with than a traditional relationship. I am a student i dont want to be a sugar baby forever just until it is needed. What is a Sugar daddy? he is a man who is respectable, Gentleman, well off financially and is able to spoil that pretty arm candy of his, making her happy is one of his duties, now ladies please do remember not to take this situation foe granted as it well bite you in the.. a...s. I am just an honest loving person, it helps to be sensual and possess knowledge of all areas in life... and a high libido... he may like that afterall he is a man... We are men and women so let's act like it... I am still seeking my Daddy...
Sugar-mag
Thu Sep 13, 2007
Well a "Traditional" SD/SB relationship is when the Sugardaddy takes care of all the sugar-babes financial needs (set allowance, housing, car), and she makes herself available for weekly arrangements (dinner, traveling, private functions, and private time), and both parties are held to the highest level of discretion. I do believe that if that's not what you are looking for you shouldn't be on a "sugardaddie" website, maybe you need to check out one of the millionaire websites, or match.com. This website is about give and take, and I dont mean buying, dinners, or gifts, being a sugardaddy means doing for "her" what she can't do for herself, in return you benefit from the no-drama a traditional relationship brings. So, a majority of members on this site is here for the wrong reasons-think twice about the term "Sugar Daddie," let not keep watering it down.
Off2Rio
Mon Sep 10, 2007
Amen! I simply know where I am going, and where I will be in 5 years. Likely South or Central America or Europe... I don't think a man with adventure, sailing experience, hard work or great investments should be thought of otherwise, even though many women do... a shame for them. But so many SB's simply message for a 'weekend' for a stipend that I hesitate sometimes to answer mail, even though I prefer honest and outspoken, I don't like to 'pay' up front so to speak, that will come in time. With a freindship, mentoring, good times, and adventure... I am open minded, and understand that an SB may have other relationships, and if in Atlanta, or living here, may simply want simply a decent companion for fine dining, great conversation over wine and occasional shopping and pampering (It comes in so many forms!)Say it in your profile please. Much luck to ALL the SB's - I prefer outspoken, honest and 'to the point' and I agree with so many other SD's - ADD your age specifications, who you "really' want and your preferences...sheesh, not hard, and I certainly won't mail if we don't mesh, but otherwise, please expect it if you're here? I also expect that you'll have the courtesy and upbringing to answer an email, even with a polite 'no thanks' (I have answered each and every email up to this point with a polite reply, even when not interested, which is quite often, as it takes a special woman to take my attention) - otherwise I assume what most do, that you aren't what you appear, don't have any upbringing, and well, I'd have to agree with most, if not all, even you're old beaus, that you aren't worth my time.
RobinHC
Mon Sep 10, 2007
Just responding to a comment. The option is their to list limited to only 'sd' type or not limited to. I am here to meet established people, I like what Bob said about the yellow pages. I would also, say, given the name of the site and what some people are looking for it is import to clarify your not interested that prior to meeting anyone. Male or female. Especially females.
Chinxila
Mon Sep 10, 2007
I agree with what most people here are saying. What I strongly disagree with is that the reason for a sugardad/mon relationship is to seek wisdom. Come on guys, if I want wisdom, I read extensively thereby broadening my knowledge. I certainly don't go looking for a sugardad/mom. Surely, just because one is older doesn't mean they are wiser. I know from experience, and am sure it's not an exception, that there are older/elerly people out there who think with the mindset of a teenager, while there are teenagers who reason far beyond their ages. So, what do I want from a sugardaddy, ofcourse I want the financial security. And I don't care if they are 100 yrs old or 20yrs. If they describe themselves using that prefix "sugar", then I expect the traditional meaning of the word. A man (usually older man) who lavishes a woman with money and gifts. Just because I like the gifts doesn't mean I won't fall in love with him. And just because he has the money to buy the gifts doesn't make him irresistible either. Whether it's material things or the heart that is involved, there's got to be a connection that EVEN £££££££ CAN'T buy.
Beauty999
Sun Sep 09, 2007
Hang on a minute.... this site may be provoking certain women but its also provoking certain men too, it works both ways so lets stop putting down women only. Lets face it, these days women are also capable of earning enough to afford their own jimmy choos and prada handbags, the world has advanced.... hello.. so wake up. If there are men on here who are looking for young and beautiful ladies who have no money then they only have themselves to blame if they get no love in return... at the end of the day you provoked the superficiality into your own life.. we all make our own choices and can only blame ourselves. Marilyn Manroe once said in her famous film 'Gentlemen prefer Blondes' 'Don't you see, a woman being beautiful is the same as a man being rich' so in actual fact you can say they are equal to each other as they are contributing in their own ways.. It is up to the individual if they believe love is more important then it should not start off by physical beauty alone, the same as it should not be sparked off by money alone..... Lastly I would like to say that for me this site is only a search for a suitable life partner, it is class that I am looking for, that doesn't come with money, but money can buy you education and knowledge and the freedom to travel and seek the knowledge. I noticed there are people on here who can hardly spell, one person wrote sophisticated as soffisticated... Pleaseeee... I think Im going to suffocate!!!
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