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Nexotic35 Mon Oct 01, 2007	If some people simply didn't 'get it' and left it at that, I wouldn't have a problem. However, the disdain with which many women say married men should stay away strikes me as somewhere between arrogant and vacuous. Worse yet, and this is what prompted my brief rant, I've had messages from women lecturing and critiquing me for being attached and on this site. Let's see now, once we get past the name of the site, perhaps we can notice that male bio's include income and asset disclosure, and the womens' side does not. Perhaps that's a clue to the site's intent, and these folks might be better served at Lavalife. Relationships are complex things, and it's rarely valid or wise to judge what's going on from the outside, or to take a holier than thou position.
SpoilFelicia Sun Sep 30, 2007	FIRST OF ALL I DON'T LIKE THE WORD SUGARDADDY...I PREFER THE TERM BENEFACTOR..I THINK A BENEFACTOR..IS A GENEROUS GINUINE(REAL) GENTLEMAN WHO TAKES CARE OF ALL HIS SUGARBABY'S NEEDS NO MATTER WHAT.SOMEONE WHO WOULD HELP HER STRIVE FOR THE BEST ..AND HELP HER PERSUE ALL HER GOALS.
1smartcookie Sun Sep 30, 2007	My definitions of a sugardaddie/sugarbabe stem off of my experience of being a sugarbabe, and it's quite simple. A sugardaddie (in my opinion) is an older man who seeks adventure from a younger woman (a sugarbabe). A sugarbabe (i.e., me) is a what I consider a young woman who has a natural attraction to older men. Some trashy sugarbabes try to take advantage of sugardaddies, but I enjoy the company of an older man for many reasons--including conversation, experiences, and the feeling that you as a young woman are making this older man feel like a million bucks while he wears you on his shoulder. But, that's just me.
FabulousForties Sat Sep 29, 2007	After reading many of your comments I thought I'd add my 2 cents to the mix. The basic definition is Black and White. It all depends on what you are looking for. For me, I have a very high level of self respect and do not go into meeting someone with the expectation of recieveing anything other than the gift of getting to know who a person is. I am self sufficient and do not NEED a man to support me. If I want something, I work hard to allow myself the luxury of obtaining it on my own. I have dated men from one end of the financial spectrum to the other and I choose to surround myself with those who are well educated, successful gentlemen. Friendship should be developed first and just have fun getting to know one another. Everything else will fall into place if it is meant to be.
PLATTINUM Wed Sep 26, 2007	IALMO at some of the comments by the woman on this site.Why do some woman settle for less when they can do so much better.As far as the woman that think that being a s/b or s/m come with a whole lot of benefits read the fine print.Because there is a big difference between having a real relationship with someone on this site as opposed to just a beneficial one,here is the difference. A sugar babe/momma that is looking for benefits may get to ride in the benz ,but a woman that is looking for a real relationship may get to the dealer to pick out her own benz,a sugarbabe will get to travel to various places with her with her sugardaddie but if you had a real relationship with him you may take his private jet whenever you want whereever you want.A sugarbabe may get her bills payed when her sugardaddie feels like paying it but when you have a real relationship you get the BLACK CARD with no LIMIT to it .So for the woman that are just looking for short term advantages how long do you think it will last before your back on the market again,because benefits can always get cut off,but the possabilities of a long term relationship is endless.This is my oppinion and i am intitled to it. Good luck to all.
CLCNY20 Mon Sep 24, 2007	Amongst Sugarbabies, there is this complete and total "worship me" type of attitude. Outer beauty is only as good as the extent of your youth--not sayeth I, but sayeth the public, lol). No one's saying to act desperate, but there's a thin line between confidence and conceit. You act like a bitch, you'll attract a bastard. Amongst Sugar Daddies/Mommies, there is this insane desire to find LOVE on this site. This is not a matchmaking site like Lavalife, etc., and if you treat it as such, you are going to get used and hurt very quickly. The site is a classy way to unite two people who each have what the other desires, and seek to work out an arrangement or an all-cards-on-the-table relationship that could make them both happy. Anyone who is using this site for other means will quickly be disappointed.
Fightclubchick Fri Sep 21, 2007	Typo...what i meant to say before and to sum it up in a nutshell is that I think the SD/SB thing is meant to be mutually beneficial at least initially. If it turns out being more than that then great but this isn't a place to find a husband or a wife IMO. But hey, if some lovely gentleman comes and sweeps me off my feet, i'll let you know =)
Fightclubchick Wed Sep 19, 2007	I agree with what Sugar-mag said. It's a relationship far beyond the avg. bf/gf relationship. You should absolutely have a great connection with the person aside from how you're benefitting from the relationship, if you're lookin for love then this definitely isn't the place..
ryan001 Wed Sep 19, 2007	A "Traditional" SD/SB relationship is when the Sugardaddy takes care of all the sugar-babes financial needs (set allowance, help with the bills, or whatever else is decided upon), and she makes herself available for weekly arrangements (dinner, traveling, private functions, and private time), and both parties are held to the highest level of discretion. Also can be descibed as two people who are compatible, friends, travel partners, share uninhibited sex, talk about nothing and enjoy their time together. These two people will get away from reality together and can both relate to each other. The SD will know that his SB needs him and will help her financially. The SB will be his confidante, his getaway from home, his friend, she will be pampered, spoiled. This is also a great site for women who are independent and financially secure on their own who are just tired of dating uninspired, unmotivated slackers, and for men who just simply appreciate the company of a woman that can carry herself with class and dignity and can handle herself in his world at business fuctions or 5 star dinners for example. This is NOT Match.com or EHarmony.com, and although its quite possible that you can find true love here, andI hope everyone finds what they are looking for, anyone here who is offended by members on both sides being upfront and asking for what they want should go to another website.
Poeme Tue Sep 18, 2007	A sugar daddy is a man who is confident, intelligent, successful, and knows how to treat a woman with respect in addition to spoiling her. Now of course, there are those 10% of men that a woman must watch out for...bottom line is you are who you attract. I am new, but so far..the men seem very charming and genuine.

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