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Jodie29 Tue Apr 03, 2007	Well, I can't speak for everyone but my reasons for joing this site are these and these alone: I work hard and earn a perfectly decent living. I have been subject to certain standards throughout my life and I will make no apologies for the fact that I wish to maintain the standard and lifestyle that I have always been accustom to. I believe whole heartedly in love, respect and marriage and hope that I will have all three when the time is right. I would not be with someone for money alone (this I can answer with all honesty as the situation has arisen)I won't lie that I haven't been in a position where I considered it but the answer was I want more than that...I'm an all or nothing girl....Chemistry, ease, comfort, laughter are all of huge importance to me. So whatever your reason is for being on this site...go for it enjoy it but be honest and upfront, we're all adults and noone gets hurt if they know what they are getting into....and lets face it are any of us on some kind of moral highground from which we can judge others???
blakbarbie4u Tue Apr 03, 2007	The key to any relationship is CHEMISTRY. To be a SB you have to be understanding and cater to your mates wants and needs. Everyone is in search of something different so never pretend to be something you are not to please someone else because in the end you will not truly be happy.Sd's seek excitement & passion because most work very hard so they look for you to be their vacation. No one wants to be bored so always being creative to keep him interested is always a plus so is having a sense of humor. These relationships should not be a bout take, take, take but more of what can we do for each other to keep each other happy. The most important thing is both parties should be upfront about their expectations so that there are no disappoinments.
supermodel3 Sat Mar 31, 2007	I think an SD is a man who is in his mid 40's who may or may not be married, but usually is, who seeks excitement outside of his marriage with a younger woman in exchange for companionship. Perhaps the romance is gone from his marriage, but he doesn't seek to leave the marriage, just find a companion someone with whom he can have stimulating conversations (other than kids, diapers), passionate sex with, and assist financially. It is understood that the SD is to provide financially for the sugar baby whether it be assistance with her utilities, rent, or clothes shopping.
Jaelea Sat Mar 31, 2007	I don't think that being a sugarbabe or sugardaddie is too complex.I think to actually be one, it is about exploring, expierencing, meeting people that are on the same level as you are, and expecially taking chances with people that you thought you never would.
Hotsplashes Fri Mar 30, 2007	I've been on this site since the fall. I went out of the country for a bit and being offline has weeded out the men who contacted me. The weeding tends to do itself. Some of the men/women on here are here for the wrong reasons as discussed in the posts on here. What I don't understand are the men contacting me who don't seem to believe I am everything I say on my profile. The majority seem to think I am going to be something else. THe last first meeting I went on ended up like this: SD: "Wow...you look just like your pictures!" Me: "Yes, why wouldn't I" SD: "Well, I was expecting something different." Me: *Inward sigh* "Well I'm sorry to disappoint you." SD: "Nononono! I'm not disappointed at all! So.. What are you looking for? I am looking for someone to settle down with and share my life. A soulmate, someone to cherish for the rest of my life. And maybe have some kids!" Needless to say, the date ended rather quickly with me wishing him good luck on his search for True Love at SD.COm!! I am at a point in my life where I do not have the time or the inclination to search out on the singles scene what I am looking for. I am not looking to get married, have kids, etc. Just someone to spend some time without the hassles of a traditional, suffocating relationship. Why is it so hard to find?lolol HOpe everyone is successful! Mikki
Pleebo Fri Mar 30, 2007	If I oversimplify the concept of sugardaddie and sugarbabe I apologize..Women(SB) want money, security, a better lifestyle. Men(SD) want companionship with a beautiful younger woman that will provide many different fantasies for him with less commitments at times. Of course most of the time this means a sexual relationship. A girlfriend experience without the drama is another fantasy. How the whole arrangement works out depends on how much chemistry and trust can be developed over time.
SasseyMe Fri Mar 30, 2007	My $$$$ worth... “Opportunities are not found, they are created.” No matter what your reasons are/were for joining SD, it's all about the opportunities. Let’s merely trust everyone is straightforward enough to let their true desires be known.
blakbarbie4u Thu Mar 29, 2007	Well to me the secret of any relatioship is CHEMISTRY..To be a SB you have to possess the qualities to make your mate happy. Being understanding & catering to his wants and needs are Key....No one likes baggage so you should leave them at the check-in counter(LOL).You should always try to keep things fresh and interesting because no one wants to be bored! Life is to short so having a sense of humor wouldn't hurt either. SD/SB relationships should not be about take take take but more like teamwork. If you are making him smile and constantly keeping a smile on his face then the the end result will be your SD will do what it takes to keep you around and satisfied. Last but not least always be yourself and dont mold yourself into a woman you are not to impress him because in the end your true colors will come out. You want someone to like you for who you are: your smile, beauty, strength and your flaws. Nobody is perfect guys!!!
Needudaddy34 Wed Mar 28, 2007	In my opinion being a sd or sb just means grown people who knows what they want and knows how to get it in an honest straight forward no game well that game is fine but no bs and head games drama and complications and interferance where they need not be. I do not think anyone should appoligize for having a need and getting it met. for all those who have a problem with this i think maybe this sight is not for you.Not saying may by sometime you will find someone who you click with more than on a physical level and you want it to be something more. That is fine just as long it is what both parties want.
RareLily Mon Mar 26, 2007	The SUGARBABE: Has obvious class, happy in her own skin and SD knows it. The look can be above average to normal with a special kind of charisma, a combination of elegance and refinement. Not necessarily always the blonde model or the size 6. SD who don’t want arm candy will look for charm. SD wouldn’t be were he is today if he did not have a semblance of commonsense and understanding of what is important. SB will be well spoken, educated, can hold an intelligent conversation in all aspects and situations of life. SB keeps herself well informed and up-to-date with all matters social, political and otherwise. She copes beautifully in a difficult situations and manages others well. A non smoker or drug user who limits drinking to a couple of glasses of sparkling when mingling, to couple of glasses of red at home so she can always please SD. SB has pride in her physical appearance and exudes confidence, which indicates a security in who she is as a person. SB are not promiscuous and prefer a SD’s attention. SB may have an independent life according to type the arrangement with SD. Loyalty and honour she gives her SD will continues long after (should) the relationship with SD end. Her schedule revolves around his schedule; she is there for him. She dotes and satisfies his needs, wants and desires. If required will sacrifices her personal interests for this unique and mutually gratifying relationship. She is very respectful of the time required for his business and personal commitments

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