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SugarNspice30 Tue Jun 26, 2007
| I strongly feel that this site was intended for younger woman to hook up with successful, financially secure and older men who enjoy spoiling their woman 'friends' in a strictly no-strings-attached type of relationship...Alot of men are married, so they need not a soul to find out about this relationship, and some may not be..others' have their own reasoning... I have not been on this site for too long, but I'm irratated(if I may be) to see so many people looking for their "true love", or traditional relationships....Hello everyone..the name of THIS site is called Sugardaddies (?) |
Brownhornet Mon Jun 25, 2007
| Here's the rub...
There has to be more that just $ for companionship else it's a hooker. And also women think that the man should spend rediculously without tasting the fruit of his labor...her. Be Real people.
There has to be some chemistry, then things can fall into place. A sucessful man doesn't want to be alone, however, the older a man gets either he gets dumber or wiser. I'm wise... and I'm fun as hell. |
LornaD Mon Jun 25, 2007
| At 49 I am no sugarbabe, I'm not seeking a sugardaddie nor have I signed up with the 'dating' perception. Why am I here then? Simple, I belive that (most) people who have done well for themselves have done so because they have the ability to apply both brains and hard-work. This makes for interesting conversation and/or company, something I have found increasingly hard to find in day to day life. Lorna |
Goodness1 Fri Jun 22, 2007
| what these terms actually mean is we're all single or cheating on someone or even ourselves and looking for someone hot -another ambiguous term.. |
AbsoluteRachel Fri Jun 22, 2007
| Well, as far as i'm concerned, I have my own money. I'm independent and successful by my own definition. I'm not interested in access to anyone's bank account. I just figure if a man is successful in business, maybe he'd also like to be successful in love....And why should I settle for a night of cow-tipping and playing in mud puddles, when I could actually find someone who wants to treat me like a lady and has the resources to do so. Plus, I don't mind being a trophy girl for a special occasion. I find it flattering. I also don't mind being the girl that a guy calls EVERY day because he can't go a whole 24 hours without me. I say bring it on!!! LOL........rachel |
Lovelylarie Sun Jun 17, 2007
| A successful man, usually unhappliy married, and an attractive female looking to have some fun and be SPOILED beyond her dreams |
Cablegirl69 Sat Jun 16, 2007
| Today I received an email from a member I have been speaking to for a few days. This person asked me what I was looking for, when I told him he preceded to call me an escort/prostitute and so on. I ask myself, what the heck do people come on here looking for? Some members are looking for love, dating and that white fence. Why are they coming to this website? Then when they meet someone and that person is honest, they turn around and throw insults around.
The traditional SD/SB relationship in my opinion is two people who are compatible, friends, travel partners, share uninhibited sex, talk about nothing and enjoy their time together. These two people will get away from reality together and can both relate to each other. The SD will know that his SB needs him and will help her financially. The SB will be his confidante, his getaway from home, his friend, she will be pampered, spoiled and put on a pedestal. This usually happens between an older man and a younger woman but same age are also popular.
If it turns into love then so be it, but it should not be expected to go there from the get go. |
Muscles Tue Jun 12, 2007
| Speaking as a male who is into other males...a sugar daddy relationship is very rewarding. It is not about taking and taking...one has to learn to give as well. I found a lot about myself in my previous relationship. I love these reationships and look forward to another one. |
Kirie Thu Jun 07, 2007
| I pity this forum for allowing me to express my thoughts..
However, I AM a member *grins*. I know what SugarDaddy means in it's purest sense. But to me, I'd really want someone who has a good grasp of reality, yet is very open to kooky non-reality (seriously, if we cant have fun in life, what the hell is the point?). I dont believe in traditional roles. I believe in brains..and what lies behind the eyes of the individual. It transcends age (numbers..I hate numbers). Sugardaddies have had the smarts and skills it takes to become successful in the world of the mainstream. However, they should also benefit from this hard work. I believe they should be very clear and outline what they want out of life at the moment. Because we cannot possibly predict the future. Anything can change it in a blink of an eye.
..the above proves never to let an artsy fartsy person at a keyboard Dx |
Mrbubbles Mon Jun 04, 2007
| My thoughts on a Sugar Daddy and Sugar Babe are generally what the overall conception is - an older man longing to be young and the only way to do that is date a younger woman and the only way to date a younger woman would be to "buy" her because why would a younger woman want to date an older guy unless they had money.
My idea of it is not this, yes I am willing to "help out" as any boyfriend or as any mate should do. But just to date a woman on the pretense of having a "paid" date borders on prostitution or in today's language an escort. If you want one of those, pick up any weekly newspaper and you can have your pick.
I have several of my friends who date or have dated younger women, some somewhat younger and others that are much younger. Most of the women they date are ones who like the maturity of the older man and it also comes with alot less "drama". The much younger ones are a little hard to handle because of the immaturity so most generally don't work out.
The reason I am on this site is after seeing it on the Dr. Phil show (now don't laugh) I thought I would check out how many "supercial" women were here. After perusing it and to my surprize I found some rather intriguing profiles of which I was hoping to get to know. Yes there are many on here that are the superficial type.
I would rather love in poverity or be alone than love superficially in wealth. Thus the reason I have never married or intend to until the right person comes along. |
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