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Bader1949
Sun Oct 14, 2007
The "Sugar Daddie/Sugar Babe" relationship can be defined as needed between the parties. I do feel it is more of a relationship between "older men/younger women"."Daddie" needs to take care of her needs across the board Not having the option for more, well, just makes it a sad relationship.I can get all the sex I want, when I want it with no strings attached. But I like strings, and companionship, and laughter and getting to know someone well.But not just for gifts, or money or travel. If you do not click - no matter how hot she is or wealthy he is - and it is all about $$$ and sex..well there is a name for that. Some men, myself included, are just attracted to the vitality, openess, livliness and appeal of younger women. If I said that "innocence" and "willingess" to try new things and be adenturess are not a factor I would be untruthful. I get confused when I see all the profiles you would normally see on a "dating/relationship" site. I appreciate the "class" of the site that keeps it from being another "cybersex" portal. I personally like my sex face to face, errr, well in person at least. Ladies, please, stop being so stuffy. If you are shocked or turned off by a man who is 20 years your senior finding you attractive and wanting to get to know you, please go to another site. At minimum, don't be so snooty when contacted. I can dance circles around any "boys" you might think you want..intellectually, conversationally, financially, in business, on a date and yes in bed as well. With age, if you do it right, comes knowledge, wisdom, appreciation and lots of tricks. I know what I want and have stated it clearly. Be sure of what "you" want and be truthful, or at minimum, be open to exploring new horizons.
jyc25
Sun Oct 14, 2007
I have been on this site for a long time and I have heard and seen it all.First let me say I love this site.The thing that bothers me the most is that the ladies on here for the most part have no idea what a SD/SB relationship.The stories are all different they get insulted when you say you want a typical SD/Sb relationship they say No I am not a hooker or as one lady who weighed close to 250lbs wanted 5000 a mo on the first email.I told her I do not pay by the lb.Get real ladies this is a great site if you are looking for a great thing with a generous man but not a great place to look for a future spouse.I have met and talked with a lot of ladies here and you can find what you are seeking.I am seeking a on going sexual relationship and that is all.What I am trying to say is we are all different try to understand that and when you find someone who is not seeking what you are wish them well and move on. Jay
SurfClaire
Sat Oct 13, 2007
Hi - I was kind of under the impression that the sugar daddy-sugar babe relationship was like being a 'mistress'. I'm looking for man who is affluent and probably married who wants to see me when it suits him for a pleasant diversion from work and domesticity. In return I will look lovely and be fun and light hearted and sexy and his friend in return for being taken care of financially by way of an allowance of some kind. This is how it works in France and it's very civilised for everyone. If I was looking for love or a boyfriend I wouldn't have registered on a site called Sugardaddie but many of the men here appear to be looking for proper boyfriend/girlfriend relationships or have I got the wrong impression?
SimplySweet603
Thu Oct 11, 2007
Hello Everyone, Well for me, a sugardadddie or sugarbabe is someone who understands that nothing is too good for the person he/ she is with. I also believe that this is a two way street. If someone treats you well then you should treat them as well if not better than they treat you. I'm not just talking about giving them money or things. I'm talking about going the extra mile to show someone that you really enjoy and appreciate their company. This could be in the form of a hug or just being there to listen when they want to talk. Life is so short so if you find thing good take care of it and appreciate it.
Carmel169
Thu Oct 11, 2007
I must say I agree with Miss Essence. Get it how you can. I think alot of men on this site are confused this site is called sugardaddie not match maker, if you aren't looking to be that then I think you need to try a different site. Buying a women an outfit so you can take her out to dinner isn't a sugardaddy a regular boyfriend can do that, being a sugardaddy means going that extra mile for your lady because you appreciate the things that she does for you and being proud of it. Be glad you can do more for her than the common man be proud that she is your lady and don't be afraid to compensate her for it.
Beachfeather
Thu Oct 11, 2007
I agree with Tammystoy. From a meta physical perspective, I do know that in life, we only attract what we 'deserve'. Cause & effect etc.. How can anything be one way? A powerful woman needs a powerful man; which should allow for mutual loving, adoration and cherishing in my book. Treating your special other as you would wish to be treated. Remembering that great gentleness can also be powerful. And that mutual respect is 'so now'! Maybe that's The Secret. Anything less is simply not worth settling for, thus I find myself on here, wondering about the mystery of it all, possibly like you! lol ;-) I wish you the love, peace and happiness that you seek and deserve. B x
Alex91361
Wed Oct 10, 2007
Hi I have received and sent 100's of emails and met some very nice women here. my word of advice is be sincere and upfront, helps lots also, just becuase a woman is young and maybe pretty and a man is older dosent mean he is lame and needy and she is GOD's gift to mankind. also, asking someone for support online like its a standard business negotiation is to me a huge turnoff, i want to talk and then meet, whats wrong with that? its normal and I like normal people. Ladies: if you're that hot why arent u with someone now? and why are u on this site? take ur time you might be pleasantly surprised. be well alex
Respond911
Wed Oct 10, 2007
i have only been here a short time but here are some of my observations: - there are a lot of very wise, mature, sensible, sexy, open women on here - no lady has gotten back to me to lecture me for being married. all contacts have been to get more info or to let me know there is not enough interest to meet. - i have made a lot of interesting connections with some great women - i believe the name says it all...sugar daddy...if we all start with the same notion of what that entails we will all be happier here. - none of the women who have contacted me have given me stories about money needed. the majority of the women have been financially sound professionals who are looking for company, some appreciation, an ear, affection, and that feeling of being attractive again or to someone special again overall a great site.
Phoxxy
Tue Oct 09, 2007
Several different comments on this topic. Lets start with I have been rich and I have been not and frankly rich is much more fun. But they say that God only gives you as much as He thinks that you can suffer through and to that I say Okay God Enough Already. If you work hard, things should get better but just sometimes a little warmth, a cuddle, and a gentle arm to lean on is best. A place to lay your head and sleep and trust your partner to be there when you get up. A friendly voice on the other end of the phone no matter what time of day. They say it is as nice to give as it is to receive. Life is for the living and that is what we are all doing in here we are living it to its fullest hoping to find and keep happiness. Hug and Kiss.
Tammystoy
Sun Oct 07, 2007
To me a sugar daddie or momma is a person who loves and wants to care for the woman or man of their life. Who is to them like the air they breath and they treats that person as sweet as their own precious baby. Its not some depraved idea about a cheater or some rude person trying to get their mack on
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