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Pixiepaige
Fri Nov 02, 2007
A lot of the contributions made by men who use this site I feel are more than a touch unfair. Success is attractive. Whether this is initial attraction for a short term fling, or a deeper attraction leading to something more, I would like to believe one may find both here. I wish to be treated like a Queen because I am attractive, talented and excellent company - not because I am deluded in thinking that looks are the only thing that matters to a potential mate.
lVlasterBates
Fri Nov 02, 2007
Hmmmmmmm......I've been away for awhile nd I see nothing has changed. We still don't have an answer to the centuries old question, do we. I have noticed a big change in profiles. It seems that since Dr.Phil there are more women wanting more money for their roles. I also like some of the newer usernames. Is it confidence, conceit or dreaming that some of the names imply? I see names that imply sex, but the profile says "non sexual relationship" I see names that imply they are looking for a lifes partner, but the profile says "no long term or commitment". My favorites are the ones that say "no married men".....Psst...the name Sugardaddie(sugardaddy) itself implies that men are usually married. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm......
Tonichka
Wed Oct 31, 2007
It's taken me a year since uploading my profile to actually subscribe, simply because I was very wary of a site in which the men appear to pay for affection and the women have dubious motives. Of course, that a simplistic generalisation, and I've now joined because I've seen several female profiles in which love, rather than money, is the object. The reality is that many women are attracted to wealthy men because wealth denotes success, and success comes from talent, strength and determination. My female friends tell me that those qualities are as attractive to an intelligent woman as are slim legs and pert breasts to a discerning man. I just wish there was a better name than sugardaddie...... 'Beauty and the Beast/Man of Substance/Geek...'? Any better ideas?
Tinman
Tue Oct 30, 2007
The two individuals do care for eachother, dine together, take trips together, generally the woman is assisted with things such as rent and utilities, food etc.. the same as any other relationship, but because of the age, there will always be the understanding that the relationship may never go beyond that of intimate friends. The sugar daddy generally does care for his babe and his sugar babe does care for him. This relationship may include sex or it may not, but there should always be the aspects of caring, friendshp and respect for eachother. Unlike the opinion of some younger woman and men, this is not a pay by date or pay by hour relationship. We all know what that is describing and if this is you and you do not think of this as being prostitution then you are in denial and on the wrong site. This is about a caring and nurturing relationship with the understanding that it most likely will be temporary because of the different stages in life that the two participants are in. The sugar aspect of the relationship for either party should come as a result of the relationship, not the relationship is the result of how much sugar someone shows upfront.
Tinman
Tue Oct 30, 2007
It's been awhile since I have contributed to the forums, but I feel some things need to be pointed out. I believe some of the men and younger women of this site have a misconception of what a sugar daddy/babe relationship is, especially some of the younger women. I know I'm going to sound like a former President by saying this, but I feel it fits. Ask not, what a sugar daddy or sugar babe can do for you, but what can you do for your sugar daddy or sugar babe. A sugardaddy/babe relationship is where the two parties truly do care for eachother and want to please eachother. It is NOT what can you do for me and what can you offer. It is not, let's make a deal and prove your are worthy upfront. A sugardaddy/babe relationship is very much like any other relationship with one of the main differenes being age.
Sweeetcakes
Sun Oct 28, 2007
I have just been having a quick look at this forum at some of the comments about what 'sugardaddie' is - well I believe that a 'online site' like this can develop and it is obviously doing so in the fact that there are so many different people with different desires on here. Surely as long as the individuals make it clear as to what they are looking for - being totally honest of course - then there is no problem with anyone looking for a life partner - like myself - or indeed a relationship or agreement of another kind. I am hoping to meet someone who is a gentleman, educated and can hold a decent coversation, is successful, a man of the world, sophisticated and knows how to treat a lady with respect and from what I see on this site there are gentlemen on here that are acceptable to me as they are stating facts about themselves which I do not believe always happens on some 'other sites!' This is only my own personal belief and not from any other stated fact of course! So ...
Jack4952
Wed Oct 24, 2007
If you are looking for "true love", then I think "SugarDaddie" is the WRONG web site. Try Yahoo Personals or eHarmony - or your local church! A "SugarBabe" is someone looking for a mutually satisfying sexual relationship and interesting companionship with a man ("SugarDaddie") who can afford to treat that lady in a very special manner. In short, a "mistress". If the relationship develops into sometime deeper and more long-term, then both parties are fortunate. Please, ladies, go elsewhere to find a husband...
FunExec4U
Sat Oct 20, 2007
Hey, wait a minute...Sugar Babe, Benifactor, Mistress...it's all relative and everyone has their own understanding of the relationship, hopefully made clear soon after contact. For you young girls out there with older men...If you're smart, you'll use the wisdom and experience of your man to your advantage, emotional, spiritual, physical and financial. We (older rich guys)didn't get to our financial success from being slow learners, most of us are smart, prudent, and fast learners. I believe a good Sugar Daddie should not only take into consideration his babe's financial needs, but also her spiritual, emotional and intellectual needs, sharing his experience and wisdom, teaching and mentoring her. Help her feel confident and intelligent, help her mature to a fantastic woman, help her grow to her potential. Smart younger woman have figured this out. It's more than a monthly direct deposit. Some profiles on this site lean towards "I want to Travel, I want to Shop, I want to eat at nice places...The intellectually matured younger woman's profiles talk about sharing life experiences, learning and growing; development, conversation....smart move... what a turn on...All the financial stuff is taken care of anyway, it should be secondary and the babe doesn't have to feel like an escort. Just my opinion.
Luscioussummer
Fri Oct 19, 2007
I think that it is very obvious what this site is about. It's called Sugardaddie.com for heaven's sake. I don't mind getting to know people and having fun. I am a genuine person so that's fine with me. At the end of the day, however I have something you want and you have something I want. Guys ask so much of women and then when we ask for something i return they act stingy. This site is not for the stingy man it is for the sugardaddie. Granted women should be fulfilling this daddy's every need in every way but that is the agreement of the relationship as in with all relationships: You give me what I want and I'll give you what you want. This site just lets you be honest and to the point.
Kumite-Champ
Mon Oct 15, 2007
Wow, what's wrong with admitting you joined because you prefer younger, sexier, prettier women to hang around & become intimate with and what's wrong with the rest of you who read the name of the website and still paid your money because you prefer men who aren't stingy and want them to lavish you in material items? LOL... when you stop lying to yourself, maybe you'll save your money for a "love" relationships, by joinging "Christiandating.com" but for now, you joined Sugardaddie.com. We all know, (even those who want to pretend their naive) what this site means and the choices we made. Males, if you're disappointed because a woman calls your bluff, then who's fault is that? You shouldn't have chosen this site and pretended you're in a position to accommodate financial needs, but expect quality companionship! Females, you stand a better chance of finding "true love" (if that's what you seek) by getting off your ass & your computer, step outside and live your life! The rest of us, paid money to meet others like ourselves who aren't looking for a love connection, just good old fashion adult fun/comfort when the time permits! I don't know about some of you, but I'm tired of putting in quality time in a relationship to have my holidays, birthdays & just because days, dismissed due to the fact I'm financially secure! Even successful career women enjoy flowers, presents and occasional island excursions! If you can't be honest with yourself, how do you expect others to take you serious? FYI* You're reading this comment on a self-paid website called "Sugardaddie.com" (Daddy made of sweet substance that gives an artificial euphoria!) Not EHarmony.com!
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