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tallhandsome4u
Sun Apr 29, 2007
I have been on this site for a long time and was probably one of the first few posters.I can recommend that this is a great site for sincere,honest people to meet as long as they know the true meaning of SD/SB relationship and do not pretend nor to be hypocritical. I had several pleasant and successful SD/SB relationships from this site ranging from a few months to a few years.Now I'm available again and ready to venture for a new relationship.
Senhor
Sun Apr 29, 2007
Nice new feature this "Relationship" entry in the profiles where each new member can specify whether they are looking for "strictly a SD/SB relationship" or "not limited to a SD/SB relationship." This will be helpful to people who are searching for someone with like-minded goals. It is interesting to notice that the majority of new members so far have chosen the "not limited to a SD/SB relationship" category, which confirms the wide appeal of the site for more than the SD/SB niche. Best wishes to all for finding what they are looking for.
LadyJerzey
Sat Apr 28, 2007
Typically SD are stereotyped as mostly older men who want to spoil a younger attractive female who in turn does what they want and tends to the SD almost at his beck and call. My version of a SD is a sweet person who does well for himself financially, and other important aspects of his life. He can do more then the stereotype because he can spoil a SB's mind, soul and more so in turn the SB is more than willing to return the treatment. I consider myself to be a SB because I'm sweet, caring, indenpendant, appreciative, and can spoil the mind, soul and more Oh a SB like me is not out to use a SD or be used by one. Sugar should always be sweet *smiles*
Micia7
Sat Apr 28, 2007
The name of this site says it all. Which part of the sugar daddy they don't get???? If they are looking for love there are so many other sites!! If we did not want/need money, we would b there to! These men just waste our time. Even the dictionary says that a sugar daddy is a man who spends lavishly on a lady, for goodness sake, you cannot give the meaning you want to a word that already has a specific one! If the dictionary says a telephone is a devise to communicate by voice, would you give it another meaning! It is absurd!!!
Mslilly
Sat Apr 28, 2007
My girlfriend told me of this site and that is was on Dr. Phil. So with that being I was like cool let me check it out. I am busy raising my son, and trying to strive for the finer things in life daily on my own with my goals on the wall literally. In the mean time, I have always attracted men of quality and that is what I am used too, so this site is right up my alley. I do not have time for bars, and some men just think that cause you present yourself in a manner that suggest standards, you think you are better, and the gentlemen I am seeking are not just hanging out at a bar...they own the bar and like a bar owner on this site said, don't won't those drunk bimbos. They understand the bar a tool to make their money, and a woman like me understands that. The SD I like is at an event of some sort, not the bar! So, my conclusion is in life you have to surround yourself around people who are like you and you want have that problem of those little insecurities others try to put in your mind because you like and strive for the gusto. My Dad always told me, you need money in America....it's a tool for the wise and a stumbling block for the simple, you be with a poor man and see how happy you will be. Until I find my sugar daddy, I am better off on my own! You have to really know what you want and desire in life to keep your sugar daddy and make him your Married Big Daddy:-).
Skylar1
Thu Apr 26, 2007
Thanks Lennea !! I guess some people are in denial, and are not willing to admit to themselves what a sugardaddy/sugarbaby arrangement consist of. It's nice to see that someone else actually get's it. The name of this site is exactly what it implies!! For those of you that don't understand the definition.. look below!! (Merriam-Websters online dictionary:::) One entry found for sugar daddy. Main Entry: sugar daddy Function: noun 1 : a well-to-do usually older man who supports or spends lavishly on a mistress, girlfriend, or boyfriend 2 : a generous benefactor of a cause or undertaking
Charlyexcel
Thu Apr 26, 2007
I came across this website after watching a talkshow. I decided to have a look cause it seemed absurd to me that something like this could exist...an online dating site where it is all about money and looks. Then I browsed some of the members profiles and I have noticed that you have the odd person saying, I need a SB who has to look good all the times and I will shower her with gifts but mostly you have very educated, intelligent smart men looking for similar qualities as well as looks. I feel that a Sugar Daddy and Sugar Babe resembles sweetness. The two must have a chemistry and trust for one another at one point. And that is key. When the feeling is there, you'll know, because you'll feel it. And naturally everything will be sweet, more passionate, and strong. A good understanding is always a good thing. How ever honesty and communication is key.I feel like a real SD is an older man who is looking for a younger hottie with a body to do special things for. This older man might be single, but most likely is married. He is looking for a discreet friend that he can find things that are missing in his marriage in exchange for financial assistance. Well thats my thoughts I am just going to see what happens.
Lennea
Mon Apr 23, 2007
to skylar, I just wanted to say congrats for telling it like it is, it's not match.com! Not to say a relationship couldn't develop, but we didn't sign on here looking for love. to flexylexy, why are you asking a man what your worth? If you have to ask someone that question, the problem lies more in yourself!
Tonjalena
Mon Apr 23, 2007
Hi, New at this, but from my point of view I think if you are on tis site you are tired of finding the wrong thing and want to find fun in many different degrees. Hope we all find what we are looking for. Happy week to all! Tonja
Lexus2
Sun Apr 22, 2007
I respect the individual ideas and wishes of all members of this site, and am only writing this posting as my personal opinion as to what SD / SB relationships can be and why some of us men choose to be here. Unless we are so filthy rich (or stupid / unattractive to look at) and need to hand over the wallet just to meet a lady, I submit that some of us choose to be here because we wish to short circuit the bar scenes and get to meet more quality ladies who can appreciate finer things in life and act like they are the sweet ladies we crave. It took me many years to become who I am, in spite of set backs from failed marriage: personally, intellectually and financially. It takes work to keep financial disciplines and to remain fairly decent looking for a lady who want to be one's special angel. Therefore, for those of us men who have achieved this level of self actualization, we choose to use this platform to meet ladies in developing mutually nurturing relationships to love, grow and learn from each other. Other than my main business, I actually have financial interest in a couple of bars / night clubs. Can't tell you how sick I am of all the bimbos that come in, hang around for free drinks from the owners and then act totally stupid, scatter or drunk altogether. So much so, I don't even like to go to my own places any more. A SD is a class man who can provide for things like a gentleman for his lady, in return for the respect, youth and beauty that his ex threw away long time ago while grabbing most of his wallets. No more, now we shall be more careful with who we bestow our generosities to... a sweet, lady like SB who would respect us as the gentlemen we deserve to be.
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