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Sugardaddym45
Sat Nov 24, 2007
We all need something. It could be a loving partner, a career, travel, kids or just fun in our lives. For me I dont have a partner, or kids, i do travel and have a career, one thats been bulit on hard work - so now its time for fun. Being a sugar daddy to a sugar babe is the fun I seek and the fun I need. lets face it life is too short and it needs to be enjoyed and kept in balance. To be a sugar daddy to a sugarbabe meens being able to give and to share, to have intimate, spontanious moments which are mutually rewarding and brings life into balance with hard work and responsibilities. If a sugardaddy/sugarbabe relationship is mutually rewarding then we each enjoy otherwise "drab" moments.
Respond911
Wed Nov 21, 2007
i have been on this site for a short time but have met more people and received more interesting e-mails than anywhere else i have tried. for me this site has been a treat. this set me to wondering and to make some observations. please bear with me: - my approach here has been the same as elsewhere, except for the financial information this site depicts on my profile. i wonder if this has lead more ladies to reach out and reply when i contact them? - the premise of this site is right there in the name..perhaps that leads to fewer games and more serious replies. - there are still those who are offended when approached by an older, married man...the world continues to spin. - american woman are more forward in that i have had more of them make initial contact with me...only 2 canadian women have taken the first step while i have been contacted by 15 american women..many who have placed me on their hot list, sight unseen. what does this tell us about the differences a border makes.....i must confess a lot of the american woman have no idea of how large canada is..lol
Mocha27
Fri Nov 16, 2007
A sugar daddy is an older gentlemen who is established and has a wealth of knowledge to share with a younger lady, not a potential husband lets be real and maby every one on this site will come out a winner, first of all men, dont say on your profile that you are not limited to SD/SB relationship, really what does that mean if your married what your going to fall in love with me leave your wife and we will sail away in the sunset.....NO of course not so put strictly SD/SB on your profile, i know some of you try and trick yourselves that your not paying for affection by saying relationship instead of arrangement so really lets be honest with ourselves and no one gets hurt and for the so-called christian women on this site......are you foreal?? Dont answer that......Happy hunting folks
Bazzzz61
Fri Nov 16, 2007
I joined this site because of the name, it really described the relationship i was looking for. A friendship built on the pre-defined boundries the the term SD/SB implies. That however does not mean that I seek a relationship without a degree of warmth or companionship or compatability. A mutually enjoyable friendship without emotional baggage , the more cynical of you might suggest, but maybe that is not too far from reality. I fail to see why members looking for a long term/deep and loving relationship would be attracted to site named sugardaddies and all that the name implies however that might just prove that i'm one of the cynics after all!"!
KirRoyale
Fri Nov 16, 2007
I'm looking for an equal, and that means someone adventurous, successful, fun and willing to give life a shot, it's not about the money - it's an attitude to life. Thats why this site attracts slightly more ambitious alpha males, ambitious in work, expectations of women ,life , everything. I think half of the men on the site would be bored rigid if they had to seriously fulfil the stereotypical role of a sugar daddie! That's why this site is also attracting hardworking, strong, fun women, who are alpha females with a philosophy of not settling for second best!
Sweety77
Fri Nov 09, 2007
For sure, as we enter the new millennium, it’s a good opportunity to realize changes you need to make and adapt to a new century. This doesn’t just mean updating your computer, but yourself. I think, Sugardaddie/sugarbabe a New Millennium relationship and forming bonds based on TEMPORARY NEEDS. Show up, pay attention, tell the truth, and don’t be attached. That means either giving the relationship some breathing room or ending it- especially if their needs are not being met. A woman should not be desperate, but should love herself; expect to be treated well; and not settle for anything less than being respected, adored, and pursued. Turn off: man who thinks that he has some upper hand because he has MONEY. Sex is not about power, or about a guy owning you. Sex is about two people sharing their bodies and souls with each other, but maintaining their own integrity of self. Turn off: woman was only pretending to like you, or liked you because she thought a relationship with you could be beneficial. Doing good makes you feel good. Carry a sign of confidence, of comfort, of GOOD INTENT-and you will be remarkably alluring to the people around you. Happy hunting!
CandyPie
Wed Nov 07, 2007
As a OK looking woman I understand that no matter how beautiful you are there are always others out there who are more so. So I would hope that as a sugar baby I would rely on something more than my looks to attract a man. I also know that if sex is what I am planning to use to keep a man attention then that is not going to be enough. If there is no connection then there is no relationship. Now the connection may not be as deep and moving as say a 50 year marriage but it can be as shallow as a one night fling. I think sugar daddies and sugar babies are a special friendship. The limitations are recognized and accepted. The time together is enjoyed without the pressures of pushing it to the next level. Men (or women) who seek a marriage relationship on a site called SUGARDADDIES.COM is a little desperate. Or maybe a lot. This is the place to find a friendships that may not live up the the pressure of marriage. That is OK. Not every friendship can survive the pressures of marriage or hell a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. The limits are there for a reason. I have never had a SD/SB relationship where I wasn't friends with the man. It would be HARD to be with a man whom you arent attracted to. I do look good in a black dress. I try very hard to look good in all my clothes. I do like to travel but I dont expect a man fly me first class because of that. I would expect him to want me to accompany him because he know I will make the trip much more memorable. But if a man thinks that his success is not one of the things that makes him attractive then he needs to think why he is not more open to the plain fat housewife type of woman. Give and take Give and take.
Njbeauty73
Mon Nov 05, 2007
If you look up the term "sugar daddy" you will find many variations with one theme. We use the term liberally, in jest, and even endearment. The true essence of the word however does not change. It is a wealthy man usually older, who showers her with attention and gift, often mentoring her with care, in return for companionship. If you are on this site seeking true love over companionship, you should try match or yahoo. If you are on here looking for a rent check, go find a corner. 100-200k is something many girls can achieve alone and simply today. Many of us are educated, funny, charming and genuinely sincere, therefore a sugar daddy needs to increase the quality of life via lifestyle. We increase the quality of life with attention, laughs, etc... I personaly find it impossible to be with someone who you are not attracted to and can't have conversations with on many levels. We all know the excitement you get when you want to be with someone, we also know the despair. There is no lifestyle that can compensate for your soul. There is however a conversation enhanced by a better atmosphere, a better bottle of wine, a better... you get the point. If you are looking for a girl to meet for a drink and a quicky, you are not a sugar daddy. Gentlemen, step it up and put your best foot forward. Show your baby that you will go to extremes for her right up front and I can assure you she will return the indulgence several times over. And who knows, if you are as lucky as I have been a few times. You both fall in love and have an amazing lifetime of memories. Good luck to all who seek happiness however you define it.
Bader1949
Mon Nov 05, 2007
I am not sure how cleavage, inuendo, or "promises" go together with paltonic? I have been very direct in what I want. Not a pay for play relationship and not in return for dinner or a trip or a gift. Why would a dinner companion, or a travel companion without intimacy (sex), expect an allowance or rent or a car or.... If someone wants to jump my bones because I have money and not because I turn them on or touch them somehow, I pass. I am not flying anyone first class to Paris because they are "independent, look good in a black dress and love to travel". I also, would not expect them to go until they have met me, gotten to know me and want to be with me. "Want" being the operative term. This is a two way street. I get and you get! I want and you want. I need and you need! You may be the best thing since "sliced bread", but until I know or feel the chemistry, nothing happens on my end. I do not ask for nude pictures, and yet get them unsolicited all the time. But the want to go slow? I do not send nude pictures as I could not handle the mail. LOL. If this site was not about "attraction" then it would be without pictures. If it was not about sex at a healthy level then there would not be so many "seductive" photos. Ladies, if you want to be seen for "yourself" and to "get to know" me or any of the men on the site. Be realistic about what this site is called and refers to. If you want a "Sugar Daddie", then a "little sugar" and "spice" would be in order. I will respect you, care for you and even "keep" you if that is how it goes. But lets not play too many games about what it is that will or will not happen. And yes I do want to know about you. ALL about you. Hate to sound harsh, but it is frustrating sometimes.
Brasilian4ever
Fri Nov 02, 2007
As a single woman,I believe many women are gravitating to sites such as sugardaddie.com because of what seems to be the plight of "stingy-ness" amongst many of the men out there in the dating world.To further expound,the lack of appreciation and consideration of what we women go through to prepare for an evening or day out. Some of us spend considerable time & expense readying ourselves only be disappointed with the plans made(not impressive,inventive or orginal)& the expectations that follow. I look at it this way;if you are a man who enjoys being in the company of a beautiful woman. Well groomed.Beautifully dressed. Well composed.Well, believe it or not,she does not wake up that way.True, some are naturally beautiful,but at the end of the day when the time to see her happens, she is very well put together and someone whom you are (or should be)delighted to have on your arm and money should not be an issue.Do what is within your realm of reality, but do show your appreciation! Sometimes,it is not even the point of expense(on your part),but the time you put into deciding where you would like to go; what you would like to share with her and what more you want to find out about her. Is this not the adult world?
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