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Janey26 Mon Dec 03, 2007	For me, it’s about attempting to find a different quality of man. My two serious relationships have both ended pretty similar, in the way that its now seems I was used for there financial security. Now I know that a lot of you would simply say silly girl why would you let it happen and the answer is simple, because I have old fashioned values and believed that putting everything I possibly could into making the relationship succeed was the only fair chance of it actually working without having the added stresses of money, well that’s what I believed at the time. Although at last tally the man who apparently loved more than anything has cost me just short of 30k in three years! I am under no false illusion that I will find my perfect match or husband on this site, although I am honest as in my profile that is what I would be looking for eventually. And who said it was impossible, most people go out to bars and night clubs get blind drunk and attempt to meet the man of there dreams now I think that that is more ludicrous than on here. I am just sick of being taken advantage of by certain types and believe that equal respect is the foundations for a successful relationship, and that’s respect in all areas!
Sweety77 Sun Dec 02, 2007	Sugar Daddies are most often married men who are not getting what they want-or think they want-at home. Keep in mind I am not condoning adultery. But I'm also not going to tell you that dating a rich MARRIED man is a thing of great evil and you will be cast down into the the abyss if you follow that path. As long as he truly treats you like a Princess, these sorts of arrangement can be good for both of you. If you are not interested in a traditional realtionship and don't mind the stigma of being a "kept woman", finding a Sugar Daddy may be for you. But when the chuck wagon ended you can found yourself desperate for money, unfulfilled, and lonely. It's just my thoughts and comments on the topic (not my life story): more about me and what I'm looking for in my profile. Good luck.
Brooket7 Sun Dec 02, 2007	I have read a lot of comments about if we are looking for a husband, this is not the place to look. Regardless of the name of this website, I may seem foolish in the eyes of a lot of you, however, I want to remain optimistic because I cannot speak for those like myself who are looking for their future mate on here. If I feel this way, surely there are men who feel this way too. I own a business and love my work and if I do meet Mr. Right who provides stabillity, I will not quit my work just because I don't have to work anymore. There is nothing wrong with having a quality guy to me, that to me means he is stable and not some looser guy who is lazy and won't work. If he is stable financially then most likely he is stable emotionally although you still need to be careful. There could be those guys who don't make an honest living who might be loosers on the inside. Those who want sex and to be lavised wont just find it on this website you can get that anywhere. Match.com is just as slutty if not more. Most Guys on there are looking for sex and not love too. It's every where.
FeuLiquide Sun Dec 02, 2007	This subject has been exhaustively discussed, and al I have to add to this comes from the male persepctive only. Inasmuch that we all uniquely have the right to define our relationships, I have a personal opinion about what a sugarbaby is NOT: 1. She is not some hapless waif, down on her luck, and seeking a relationship solely out of necessity to get her rent paid, or car fixed, or address some other problem in her life. A sugardaddy (it can be assumed) is a man of stature and has the stresses and responsbilities that are attendant with his affluence. He is not seeking to take on another's "problems", but rather, seeks a respite from his own stressful life. 2. She is not an embittered woman taking a path of Theoretical Acceptance coupled with Practical Resignation (i.e., "i have been so hurt by men in the past, what the heck, i might as well get something out of this"), or some such compelling drive. An injured soul will only cause themselves more injury this way. 3. She is not imbued with this grandiose sense of Entitlement. I cannot believe the number of profiles I have read that have the flavor of: "I deserve to be spoiled....etc". It begs the question: "Why"? lol A sugarbaby should be EQUAL in stature to the male counterpart. We may have different attributes to bring to the table, but each bring those qualities. THe man, by nature, might be deemed to be Provider and Protector, but the woman then has her role of being Nurturer and Caretaker. "Mutuality" implies reciprocity, a notion that seems to have escaped many so-called sugarbabies. :) Disclaimer: "I could be wrong" lol
Silentsymphony Thu Nov 29, 2007	Uh oh, please don't be offended. In the past I use to split 50/50, now I simply can't. It won't be forever.I was well off before the divorce-and I didn't do the SoCal thing, I just went my own way. I believe in my art: it's the real thing, and my ambitions are too. Whomever chooses to help me will benefit. I believe in mutually beneficial arrangements. And I am confident that in such circumstances true love and affection may develop, if both parties are willing and attraction is present. Whomever said money can't buy happiness is wrong. It can buy freedom, alleviate mundane headaches, and open a person's focus towards higher, nobler things in life. Besides, whomever said that money can't buy happiness didn't know where to buy a horse.LOL I do. :-) Personally I don't mind if a gentleman bases his success on his earnings: in that case it is my job to help him see where he has more to offer as a person.And to bring out those qualities. Part of the fun is in the discovery. My two cents. Pun Intended. Blessings.
FabulousForties Wed Nov 28, 2007	I have been a member here for only a couple of months now. I really enjoy reading the thoughts and comments in the forums. I have found this site to be very exciting compared to the others. I am very particular and so it is hard for me to meet quality men where I reside. Seems they are all full of themslves, hot air and egos. I don't have time for that nor games. I am a say what you mean, "mean" what you say professional female. I am enjoying my time here for the variety of men that are here, who are honest and let you know what they expect from the get go. Honestly is key! No one should be condemned or judged for speaking the truth. It may not be your truth, but that does not mean it doesn't work for someone else.
NiceGuy1st Sun Nov 25, 2007	I personally am here because I am a frustrated sugardaddy. I enjoy mentoring, entertaining, and otherwise taking care of exceptional young women. It just comes naturally and I do it without even thinking. However I am disappointed and frustrated that I am not receiving the same degree of attention back from the young ladies whose company I currently enjoy. I'm not even talking about sex here – simple focused interest, appreciation and companionship is what I crave most in the short term. Comfort, trust and intimacy develop in time if the partnership continues. Money is just lubricant; it makes a good machine (ie relationship/arrangement) run like silk - but it won't fix a bad machine and I'd rather not waste it. Like most of us here, I am not finding what I need in my own social circles. So I am here to meet quality people and maybe connect with a few in a meaningful way.
NiceGuy1st Sun Nov 25, 2007	I'm new here so I have read this forum from the beginning before posting. I have seen changes in content, mostly for the best. However, one thing has not changed: people keep trying to throw each other off the site because someone disagrees with some detail of what SB/SD is, and what Sugardaddie.com is supposed to do. From a business point of view, I believe we need everybody here that is here. It costs money to run a Web site like this. If the site was as exclusive as some would like to see, members (including SB's) could be paying up to $200 a month for membership instead of $20 or less. I came to this site for the community of successful, intelligent, articulate and thoughtful people whose preferences for intergenerational and otherwise substantial partnerships match my own. No other site I know offers that complete dynamic. I enjoy and benefit from the diversity of people at this site and would hate to see people leave because some individual thinks they don't belong here. If anyone truly doesn't belong they will leave on their own because the site will not serve their purpose.
LRenee07 Sun Nov 25, 2007	When joining the site I didn't take the Sugardaddie and Suggarbabe thing literally. I NEVER truly expected to meet someone to Upgrade Me (smile). I approached it like hanging out in a 24 hour Happy Hour Lounge in Everywhere, USA. No different than getting dressed and heading down on the Vegas Strip having drinks and meeting people, Or sitting in my Teeshirt, in front of my laptop, meeting people. I've met some really great people in my short time as member. Regardless of what type of relationship your looking for....You must establish a Friendship 1st. So just enjoy yourself, make new friends and have fun.
WestEndWench Sat Nov 24, 2007	It's this simple. I joined because I thought the premise was hilarious. I work in finance so I meet lots of boys every day who think money defines them as a success. It doesn't. However, as a hard worker, with a business myself as well as a job, I've found there are men on here I connect to because they have brains, drive and ambition. Not to mention class. I’m pretty intimidating in general so a someone who’s not afraid of the world is probably a good start. I don’t expect someone to pay for me, but it is nice to meet someone who doesn’t expect me to pay just because I have a good job!

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