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Lovelylarie
Sun Jun 17, 2007
A successful man, usually unhappliy married, and an attractive female looking to have some fun and be SPOILED beyond her dreams
Cablegirl69
Sat Jun 16, 2007
Today I received an email from a member I have been speaking to for a few days. This person asked me what I was looking for, when I told him he preceded to call me an escort/prostitute and so on. I ask myself, what the heck do people come on here looking for? Some members are looking for love, dating and that white fence. Why are they coming to this website? Then when they meet someone and that person is honest, they turn around and throw insults around. The traditional SD/SB relationship in my opinion is two people who are compatible, friends, travel partners, share uninhibited sex, talk about nothing and enjoy their time together. These two people will get away from reality together and can both relate to each other. The SD will know that his SB needs him and will help her financially. The SB will be his confidante, his getaway from home, his friend, she will be pampered, spoiled and put on a pedestal. This usually happens between an older man and a younger woman but same age are also popular. If it turns into love then so be it, but it should not be expected to go there from the get go.
Muscles
Tue Jun 12, 2007
Speaking as a male who is into other males...a sugar daddy relationship is very rewarding. It is not about taking and taking...one has to learn to give as well. I found a lot about myself in my previous relationship. I love these reationships and look forward to another one.
Kirie
Thu Jun 07, 2007
I pity this forum for allowing me to express my thoughts.. However, I AM a member *grins*. I know what SugarDaddy means in it's purest sense. But to me, I'd really want someone who has a good grasp of reality, yet is very open to kooky non-reality (seriously, if we cant have fun in life, what the hell is the point?). I dont believe in traditional roles. I believe in brains..and what lies behind the eyes of the individual. It transcends age (numbers..I hate numbers). Sugardaddies have had the smarts and skills it takes to become successful in the world of the mainstream. However, they should also benefit from this hard work. I believe they should be very clear and outline what they want out of life at the moment. Because we cannot possibly predict the future. Anything can change it in a blink of an eye. ..the above proves never to let an artsy fartsy person at a keyboard Dx
Mrbubbles
Mon Jun 04, 2007
My thoughts on a Sugar Daddy and Sugar Babe are generally what the overall conception is - an older man longing to be young and the only way to do that is date a younger woman and the only way to date a younger woman would be to "buy" her because why would a younger woman want to date an older guy unless they had money. My idea of it is not this, yes I am willing to "help out" as any boyfriend or as any mate should do. But just to date a woman on the pretense of having a "paid" date borders on prostitution or in today's language an escort. If you want one of those, pick up any weekly newspaper and you can have your pick. I have several of my friends who date or have dated younger women, some somewhat younger and others that are much younger. Most of the women they date are ones who like the maturity of the older man and it also comes with alot less "drama". The much younger ones are a little hard to handle because of the immaturity so most generally don't work out. The reason I am on this site is after seeing it on the Dr. Phil show (now don't laugh) I thought I would check out how many "supercial" women were here. After perusing it and to my surprize I found some rather intriguing profiles of which I was hoping to get to know. Yes there are many on here that are the superficial type. I would rather love in poverity or be alone than love superficially in wealth. Thus the reason I have never married or intend to until the right person comes along.
Lovie73
Sun Jun 03, 2007
It truly depends on the people involved and what they are looking for, we all truly are so diffrent... Have a great day all! xx ;)
AmyLynn31TX
Sun Jun 03, 2007
I must say that yes I view a SD as someone who is financially successful and enjoys pampering or sharing that success with a woman who will allow him to be generous and to be sensitive, chivalrous and kind without feeling like they are not appreciated, or are being taken advantage of, or that they are less of a man or appear "whipped". I have dated man after man who did not open doors, had no clue how to act appropriately in public, and who would turn down a restaurant because it was a steakhouse and they couldn't afford it, but didn't mind getting steak or lobster if I was paying for dinner. I feel at this time in my life it is perfectly acceptable to seek a man who has the financial means that allow for the exploration and enjoyment of life to the fullest without restraints and who is looking for a woman who would appreciate him for choosing to share that ability with her because making her smile or making her happy makes him smile or makes him happy. That is what I hope to find here, not necessarily a well off man to marry because I am too lazy to work to support myself. I just want to enjoy what the world has to offer without worrying if I will be able to pay the bills and afford to do something extraordinary with that special someone.
PennacoD
Thu May 31, 2007
I have met one classy lady on this site who was a true SB. Because of my business traveling and her moving to another city...we have parted. However, I am again seeking one who complements her. I was fortunate in finding her on this site and am looking for "her" again. Unfortunately, I perceive the SD has become a "dating" site; and that does not match my definition of SD/SB relationship. In the SD/SB relationship, there are mutual benefits--some more and some less, depending on the financial status of the SD. I am not into buying mercedes or new condos; but dont have a problem with helping with the rent or lease etc. I dont consider my self cheap, just practical. My former SB and I still communicate via email, and laugh and sigh over our sensual and passionate relationship. I also have chatted with some on this site who treat it as a "dating" site, or are clearly looking for a "short time" benefactor. To those who seek a date that may lead to marriage...may I suggest Eharmony.com..because you dont have a clue as to what a SD/SB relationship is all about. A SD/SB can be a longtime relationship--and I seek that again--however it is not by definition a path to marriage. And I know I will take some hits for that statement...but honesty in any relationship is most important as is candor in what is being sought.
Christiej
Thu May 31, 2007
The reason I registered on this site, is because talking about the weather bores the hell out of me. My main preferences for a good relationship are trust and respect. You have to respect each other, and if your both confident people who know your together because your perfect together, chances are your going to stay happy.. Too many people settle for second best and endure nagging and possessiveness - NO MORE PLEASE.. Chances are if your doing ok on the money front, you’re a person whose had goals and aims, you can take on a challenge, worked hard, had more life experiences and be a much more interesting person, which is what brought me to this site.
JustJudyRyan
Mon May 28, 2007
Hmmm, I have been on this site for over a month and I came with the hope of meeting a cultured, educated man who knows what life is all about, memorable experiences, sharing with those you love and making the most out of this life. This site has plenty of great men, even thou the name is controversal, this site is by far the best site to meet a potential husband or friend for life. I am hoping to find both in one man. Wish me luck!
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