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Ordinaryangel Sun Dec 16, 2007	It's not all about the money that I joined a site like this. It is all about meeting like minds. I am successful and I like being around successful men. Men who have achieved a certain amount of success and financial stability are generally not intimidated by a woman who has taken pride in educating herself and achieving her goals. Bottom line is you have things in common...intelligence, self-esteem, and an appreciation of the finer things in life. Men are sex oriented, of course, but at least here, chances are higher of meeting a man who can appreciate a "burner with a brain". So, what's wrong with spoiling her if she knows how to spoil you in return?
Tracee38 Sat Dec 15, 2007	Wow there's a lot of diversity in the response to this topic, but how refreshing is it to air your thoughts on what appears to be a sensitive area? I agree with so many of the sugar babes on this forum. Being a babe does not mean you are purely out for the money, if that was the case, many of the sugar daddies who complain that their mails are not replied to would have plenty of opportunities in selection. Not only that there are many other sites where woman can go and advertise themselves if they really are just out for the cash!! We are women who for one reason or another are seeking security in the partner that they may be fortunate to find on this site. Although I am currently not looking for any commitment, I certainly am not ruling it out. I look at it in the same way that arranged marriages are formed, only I am doing the selecting, with the help of maybe one day my Mr right! Don't be cross when some women are being honest about seeking a man who is financially secure, nature has provided us with many worthwhile qualities that are priceless, look for those qualities instead and you may find your soul mate sooner than you think. Good luck to everyone I hope we all strike lucky and merry Christmas. x
Penelopy999 Fri Dec 14, 2007	Money - titles etc whether married, single - whatever - as long as you know within yourself that you treat that person the way you would like to be treated yourself then to me that's all that really matters and being happy - as happiness and contentment in your life is just priceless - and if you have this then you are the richest person ever whether you have money or not. I do not have or judge anyones comments on the site - as we are all our own people and whatever makes anyone happy the go with it. I see the site as a way to enhance my life with new friends opinions and maybe possibly meet that someone special - who knows but will remain optimistic.
Bazzzz61 Fri Dec 14, 2007	posting again on thos topic mainly because i've read some very interesting and relevant views. I do subscribe to the SD/SB literal interpretation however I do believe that women in particular are attracted to success and successful man without necessarily the need or desire for any 'arrangement' and i'm sure that some would even perhaps be insulted by the suggestion. In reading some of the responses and views from ladies it might be stating the obvious but it would appear that men are not similarly attracted but intimidated? any thoughts?? Bruce
Femmeregal Tue Dec 11, 2007	Hmm, interesting subject and just to add my thoughts if I may be so bold... Firstly when I joined this site a few days ago I considered that the 'sugar daddy' element was a little tongue in cheek, and I was quite honestly intrigued. Now I am a fairly worldly person and I would beg the question that if the by-product of this was to create a platform for a trade of money for obvious 'returns', then why? There are very clear and effective routes for this kind of 'arrangement', without the need for writing profiles and selling character attributes..(subscription fees), which people do on here. Sex is very easily bought there is no mystery there and in many ways its an honest enough arrangement with clear rules. There may be a venue for a level of covert or overt activities of this nature, but I would argue, or at least hope that many people have another agenda. I for one will admit to being economically challenged :-) But, I would not a) insult myself or someone else's intelligence by compromising my own set of standards simply to buy into a better lifestyle, that is not to make judgement on anyone who does, its a trade of priorities.. BUT, it would be wrong to assume that everyone is working on this level. I joined this site because I am looking for someone special, Its the difference on a 'virtual' level between travelling by coach or by air, if I possibly can get the cocktail of attraction, potential love, intelligence, etc then yes, I would like that package. Ahh the idiosyncrasies within the human condition...Aspiring for a better lifestyle does not mean that I / we (some of us) want to sit on our backsides twiddling botox brochures.. we / I / some have standards that we need / want / demand to maintain in the name of self pride and sanity.
LovelyLovely1 Tue Dec 11, 2007	Well......the other day I met a guy on here. We had a long talk about his views of some people he has met on the site. Finally, I asked him to explain to me what a sugar daddie is. He said, "A sugar daddie is a man (usually wealthy) that can no longer attract women because of his age and so he pays for a woman to show him a attention. The woman is usually with him only because of his money." I guess it makes sense to me.That's when I realized that I am not looking for a sugar daddie. I want to be attracted to the man that I am with. Spending money on me is GREAT but the money will not motivate me to spend quality time with him. I need to really enjoy his essence.
Dennine36 Sat Dec 08, 2007	I may catch a lot of flack from this! But I must speak.. I see a lot of men on here saying I don't want a woman that is going out with me only for my pocket or I don't have to pay for sex or not interested in a business arrangement. If so why are here?? Why not be on the other date sites that have nothing to do with how much you make. A sugar daddy is a man that helps out with bills and allowances and gifts. And a sugar baby is a woman that is your companion/lover/friend for these benefits. Not saying nothing meaningful can't develop from these relationships,but let's be realistic on where we are. Not Match.com. I try my best to be upfront and honest when I actually get a man to look at my profile. I am real and not a game player and on this site and others like this one, so many people (Men&Women) play games! Why not be real about what you want and others will be real with you!
MixedEgypt Fri Dec 07, 2007	This topic is slightly frustrating ..... I mean seriously, the name of this site is self explanatory .... I definately don't see a problem with people seeking relationships and/or companionship or whatever it is that you are seeking ... But I think that in order to be honest with others you must first be honest with yourself .... and people can take that however they choose .... I personally think that if you are searching for love you are in the worng place... A sugarbaby may want to love and be loved but her/his ultimate goal is to be taken care of , and so if you are not a nuturer or a giver by nature you probably shouldn't be seeking a sugarbaby ....
FeuLiquide Fri Dec 07, 2007	Further Thoughts to Consider: I have been a member here for 1 week. During this time I have sent out 11 emails, got response from 2, and met 1 lovely lady. Out of 11 emails sent out, 9 of them were never even opened! These remain unopened by members that have been online numerous times over the past week; so from a Male perspective, what kind of message does this send? 1. It begs the question: Why are they even here? 2. If they cannot be considerate enough to even bother to read their emails, how considerate or respectful would they be of my time? 3. Although no woman wants a "player", are they themselves so pre-occupied with THEIR "playing" that they haven't even the time to read their own emails? I cannot think of one redeeming explanation for such behavior, so, although my judgement may be harsh, I would deem them unsuitable candidates for any type of arrangement, and will not bother responding in kind IF they should ever get around to opening their emails. We all have a basis by which we 'sift and sort', so herein is a clue on how I would do so. :)
JoanneCDG Thu Dec 06, 2007	Well for me it is so I can meet a man who is not scared of my life, job, success & children etc. I think to meet a man of a similar age with similar lifestyle would be amazing. I am tired of meeting men who are terrified of my lifesylte or think that I am materialistic when I am not. I work hard to give myself & children the finer things in life so why shouldn't I have them?!?!?!?

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