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Debutant
Tue Jan 01, 2008
What does it matter if someone is sugardaddie or sugarbabe as long as they in a mutal fullfilling relationship which is not harming other people. HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE HOPE 2008 BRINGS YOU ALL THAT YOU WISH FOR :)
LovelyLovely1
Mon Dec 31, 2007
I am confused about the sd/sb relationship because the few guys I have spoken with over the telephone seem to be looking for very serious relationships that lead to marriage eventually. I feel pressured. I got on this site hoping to find a guy that I am attracted to who wants to take care of me financially.
TekNik
Sun Dec 30, 2007
I don't understand what all the hoop ha is about when it comes to the definition of a s/d s/b relationship..A sugar daddy's sole mission is to look out for his babe and to make sure that all of her needs are being met financially and mentally.He wants to make her life easy being he enjoys providing for her in a way that she can't provide for herself.A sugar daddy want his babe to be debt free so that she has time to spend with him without feeling that she has to worry about her job.When he want to go out of town on trips he wants to be able to call het and in a moment notice she is packed and headed for the airport.A sugar babe knows what a s/d like and she smothers her s/d with affection and compliments regularly. She makes him feell that he is the most impotant person in her world. She keeps her self looking beautiful and polished because she is his eye candy.A sugar babe job is to make sure that her s/d is happy mentally and physically...
Ashanty786
Sun Dec 23, 2007
This topic is interesting and it sure is not universal as to why one has joined this stie. My reason is that, I am not a gold digger nor am I seeking a gold digger, but only wishing to meet people who are like minded. Someone who has worked hard in life to enjoy life. I sure need to be attracted to the person and feel I can offer a true and sincere relationship and money can't buy this, but gifts in good time would not be bad as I feel gifts are part and parcel of being in a good relationship. This can be reciprical and a sign of appreaciation of a friendship that may last a life time. I think in some cases when a woman or a man does not want committment or true romance, then there is no harm in being upfront on what this so called arrangement is about, eg is it going for a meal once in a while, is it going to theatre, is it for companionship as a couple or being part of a circle of female sugar babes list - like in the Hue Hefner guy in usa lol. If that is what he is seeking, I sure am not the one. lol Happy New Year to all, and I wish you all the best and hope cupid strikes lucky for some!
KiloNite
Fri Dec 21, 2007
Lets keep it real. The days have come and gone for what use to be called a Sugardaddy. Today those men would be called fools, by both men and women. Todays Sugardaddy is a man that takes better then average care of his Sugarbaby. This means YES she get MORE then she even wants. Again lets be real ...she earns this level of respect and truely deserves it. If you think a man should pay you for your time or should by you things to get some of your attention then we all know what your really are. So lets stop and think are YOU a sugarbaby? Should you be on this site or the corner? I have taken great care of my ladies and they are still very happy but they brought emotions out in me that drove me to want to do more and more. No Gentalman is going to put a price on you no matter how many zeros are attached. If a MAN respect and cares for you then you wont get rewarded for good performances you will be given the key to his world.
JonDallasLawyer
Fri Dec 21, 2007
I just joined a few weeks ago. Two things kind of jump out at me. One is many of the girls' profiles read like a personals ad you might find on m*tch.com or a similar site -- you know, "I like long walks on the beach" and "I'm looking for my soul mate." Excuse me, but isn't this a SD-SB site? I thought many girls are here looking for financial security, not sandy toes and true love -- in fact, they may have had that but it didn't help with their stack of bills. The other thing that's striking is how many of the girls say, "I deserve to be spoiled." Well, if the shoe were on the other foot and I said the same thing, I don't think many girls would agree THEY are required to gratuitously spoil me. I don't think either SB or SD deserves to be spoiled until they meet in the middle by giving the other what he or she wants. Just my 2¢.
Gr8bigeyez
Tue Dec 18, 2007
Honestly, answer all of the emails ladies. Lighten up. Tell the guy thanks for hotlisting me but you aren't what I'm looking for and best wishes. Being on this site... best case scenario is actually finding what you're looking for. Worst case scenario is you've put out good energy. Remember you get back what you put out... right? Sounds win win to me.
Sugrbab4u
Mon Dec 17, 2007
Isn't the beauty of this site that people from many different walks of life can come together and meet each others needs? Hopefully find compatibility and chemistry? I have been on here a couple of times and each time am struck by the number of lonely people on here. I hesitate to use the word desperate because no one wants to consider themselves as such. Enough of my raving. I wish all the Sugars on here a wonderful holiday season. May you all find what you are truly looking for.
PerfectArmCandy
Sun Dec 16, 2007
To the man that said his emails go unopened... speaking personally, if I read a man's profile and it is WAY off from what I am seeking (for example if they don't want a "golddigger" or if they just want a relationship without someone wanting them for their money)... I won't open it. Why open it if you know they aren't a match? I have had 2 sugardaddy relationships. The way they began was with mutual honesty concerning a monthly allowance, meeting/travel expectations, etc. I refuse to meet a man that says love must come first, because this site is simply not about LOVE... it's about timely arrangements. Out of my 2 relationships, love did happen in 1 of them. In the other it did not, but I still remain good friends with that gentleman and we respect each other. To me, I have to LIKE someone in order to have a successful arrangement with him, however... I also have to like the allowance and terms, so they need to be discussed before meeting, otherwise, why waste each other's time? Even if a man is wickedly gorgeous, if his net worth is lower than mine, why bother? Love by itself does not make a couple happy (been there, done that, didn't work out). They need other things to sustain them and enrich their lives. My annoyance with this site is men's sensitivity to the discussion of allowance. I think pride gets in the way of what could be great arrangements. Get over it... we as women know what you want... you want us because we are beautiful, sexy, charming, sensual, intelligent, etc... so why can't we want you for your wallet? It's unfair to expect more from us than from yourselves, gentlemen. Tit for Tat. If I was ugly, I know I wouldn't get the 20 emails per day that I get. I'm a realist.
2000man
Sun Dec 16, 2007
This isn't a regulare dating site. I'm seeing more profiles and speaking to more women that don't get what the "spirit" of this site is.
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