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Luvlygal Wed Sep 02, 2009	personall,I have always been attracted to older men.To me, a sd/sb rel isnt just about funding for things one cant afford but building a true fiendship with a physical, mental and emotional connection with someone you can always call a friend.I am educated and have always taken care of others.Hopefully, its a sweet thing to be taken care of.lol.
AshesAngel Wed Sep 02, 2009	As to what a sugardaddy/sugarbabe is I think it is relative to what you perceive yourself as. As for me, I'm hoping to make friends and acquaintances and hopefully possibly by some twist of fate or divine miracle find someone that I can connect with on an intellectual, spiritual, and physical level. To me it isn't about money it is about stability. I admire a man that is successful and goes after what he wants, not the boys that sit waiting for it to happen and whine when it doesn't.
Cafegirl78 Mon Aug 31, 2009	There are no "perfect" relationships... It's not about give and take, but give and give rather... hopefully from both ends. It isn't the simplest thing in the world to find someone who is like minded, but the reality is that if we don't exhaust every possibility, we have only ourselves to blame. The idea of the sugarbabe/daddie arrangement is novel at best, but in truth most of us want the ideal, that solid, stable companionship that is found through trust and a balance in lives well led. While I myself am not interested in the traditional Sugardaddie, I have found there to be a number of men here just looking for women who are no-nonsense and have well-adjusted attitudes and interests. To each their own here and good luck to all finding what it is you seek. :)
IMAQT4EVR Mon Aug 31, 2009	I have to comment on this. I realize it is rare but SOME women, myself included, earn a very nice living and simply find it difficult to meet men in their age group who are equally driven, successful, while not in the same professional circle. I have been on the 'love' sites and get matched with teachers, firemen and IT guys, all are very honorable professions, but these men will never keep me mentally stimulated or contribute to/grow the lifestyle I have built for myself. I am taking a big risk in believing that there might be a man on here, CLOSE TO MY AGE, who I click with. I want to be a partner not a taker. I have been fortunate enough to be in situations where men are chivalrous. ABOVE ALL SD.com is for women who want chivalry and men who are happy to give it. The difference comes down to individual expectations and what you are willing to negotiate. I am an honest women and do not give out sexual favors for dinners, trip or gifts. I am only physical with men who I am attracted to, once I feel that we have something I am secure with, period. This diesn't mean I need a ring for a kiss :) I am not a prude or uptight at all but all things come in time and growing into a sexual relationship I am comfortable with, comes with time. I keep these things on my terms and for the most part good men appreciate this. I just happen to relate to and have more in common with 'good' entreprenurial men. This site has some negative associations, and I am not naive, but if I happen to meet someone with the same intention as me and we end up having a future, it sure will be a fun secret and 'game' to keep things fresh in the bedroom as the years go by...right daddy?
EffieB Fri Aug 28, 2009	I have read quite a bit of the postings and one thing is quite obvious, we all have different opinions about what an SD is, what's important is that we respect everyones opinion. Frankly I think it's a bit naïve to come on a sight like this and not expect the women to have a list of demands. As a single mother struggling financially and working to build my own success, it's much more than just money, it's about finding a true friend, a mentor (who better to help you suceed than someone who already has, you'll take his advice more seriously than someone who's accomplished nothing),someone who can see your potential and believe in you. It's also about, connecting with someone on a deeper level mutual respect. Oh and personally...I find mature men much more exciting in bed, LOL. There's sex and then there's GREAT sex.
ITGirl40 Fri Aug 28, 2009	I am single after a long relationship and the bar is the last place I want to meet someone. Sugardaddie to me means a sweet guy who put most of his time into building a good life for himself instead of chasing women. Now these men here are looking for good honest and sweet woman to spend time with. Someone with similar goals and values. Well thats what I am hoping anyways ;)
Chirpyfunster Fri Aug 28, 2009	I'm not here for a Sugardaddie/babe relationship in the traditional sense whatever that is). I'm just a regular, successful guy looking to meet like-minded women. So what does it mean to be a "Sugardaddie"? well from my experience on this site, not much quite frankly. Those looking for "arrangements" are generally quite shallow, empty individuals who think money is the answer to happiness. Wrong! Of course it helps, but chemistry, fun/laughter and spiritual union are far more important aspects of a relationship. Just my two-penneth...
Blondiem45 Fri Aug 28, 2009	Alot of men think throwing money in a girls face is attractive well rich or poor the personality is what counts
TAMPACHIC72 Thu Aug 27, 2009	Someone recently told me that the difference between a sugar baby and a gold digger is that a sugar baby is someone a sugar daddy wants to take care of; a gold digger is just looking to take advantage of those same men. I'm new to this site and I'm really enjoying the forum posts. Cheers!
Zia21 Tue Aug 25, 2009	Everybody likes a winner. The men on this site are attractive in my eyes for their personal qualities. These man have shown themselves to be successful in their chosen field. Perhaps they have made mistakes in the past or had bad fortune strike them but instead of ruining them they have shown courage and fortitude to rebuild and make stronger. I admire these qualities, success has shown itself in monetary terms as a reward for their endeavours and skillful calculation but the underlying factor is these men are survivors and make the best of all opportunities. This deserves high praise. The results of their entrepreneurial skills have given livelihoods to many others in the work force. They are a credit to this country. It would be a pleasure to meet and share time with one such an exceptional man.

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