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Nomad-Traveler Sat Jan 12, 2008	Perhaps the thing that bothers me most about the traditional SB/SD relationship is the aspect of choice. Many of us want to share time with people who feel the same way about that time. However, when a woman requires money or other considerations external to the relationship in order to choose to spend time with a man, then the choice is colored. Sometimes the consideration offered to induce the choice is not money, but the prospect of marriage. Either way, the woman is receiving something apart from the time spent together. The compensation can ultimately reach the level of an offer that cannot be refused. If the man has the magnitude of money to compel the woman to spend time with him, there always has to be the question if she is simply doing it as her "job" and not something she enjoys. And I have no doubt that some guys actually want and need the SD/SB thing, since they like the SD role and control. But if you care to read the profiles of some of the ladies, you will find a few who are financially secure, and are here for something else. They are often looking for someone to enjoy time with who is not calling the shots, like a traditional SD, nor seeking their SO/Soul-mate. They are looking for an equal person to enjoy time and common interests. Now the man should obviously pay the expenses - we are not talking about a sugarmommie thing - but they should both freely choose to share the time because it is enjoyable, not because of the consideration they take away. I have found a few ladies of this character, and knowing that they see the time itself as the reward, and not a means to additional revenues, makes all the difference.
Jack4952 Fri Jan 11, 2008	Why are almost all American women FAT ??? First, I TOTALLY AGREE about the definition of SD/SB relationship being about a mutually beneficial exchange. It is a LOT of work for a woman to look truly beautiful: exercise, diet, hair, make-up, nice attire. If a man wishes to pay for the company of such women, then let the "free market" decide! Forget this "inner beauty" crap!! Of course, personality counts for a LOT !! But if a woman (or man!!) MAKES THE DECISION to weigh 250 pounds and dress like a sewer-worker. then don't expect someone of the opposite sex to be attracted to you!! So, STOP WHINING !!!! Now, as to my question. If you travel to Europe (especially Eastern Europe!!), you will see that MOST women are thin/slender. If 5'6" tall, about 110 pounds is about right. Plus they always dress very well, are not afraid to look sexy, and know make-up and hair styles as well as most professional models here!! So, what is the deal with AMERICAN women?????? Just curious!
SexxiFantasy Fri Jan 11, 2008	OMG! I am overwhelmed with the posts and the range of thinking. I completely agree that this site is fairly specific in what it is about. I am not sure why I get so much grief about what I want and believe me, I can articulate that very well. JUST READ MY PROFILE. If you don't find it alluring or we have different desires.... PASS ME BY! I am intelligent, beautiful, not afraid to communicate my needs, have an excellent sense of humor and am educated. If you want a date or a wife or just sexual satisfaction, get real! I wouldn't be attracted to you if you were not wealthy, attractive, interesting and generous and you definately wouldn't be interested in me if I were ignorant, unattractive and boring. If you can't afford to drive and maintain a Bently...don't shop for one. Welcome to the real world. You may not like it and it may not be fair but it is what it is. It's frustrating to just want to have an excellent mutually beneficial time without the drama. Life's too short. If I met every guy who wanted to meet me for dinner, it would be a 24/7 thing (and NO, I don't think I am all that BUT!!!! I know my worth) Just the same as if the men on here gave every girl who wanted money at the first meeting....you'd all be broke. Is there no happy medium?
PerfectArmCandy Thu Jan 10, 2008	This site is becoming thoroughly saturated, or should I say POLLUTED with people that have no understanding of what a sugar daddy is. We have people on here discussing this as though it is a normal relationship of love/marriage, and "oh let's discount outer beauty", etc. Now, you know better than that! We all love to see the beautiful people. You cannot say that we should put away our shallow (human) instincts and disregard or discount beauty. Women that work to make themselves attractive for the viewing pleasure of others SHOULD be rewarded! It's a lot of work! This is a site that is built around two things: beauty and money. Men want to be with a beautiful woman, and women want to be with a rich man that is going to GENEROUSLY take care of her. I personally LOVE the benefits of my beauty...SO... Get on with it folks.
Onetomeet Tue Jan 08, 2008	I will have to agree with Lovely and Nicole. This is still a sugardaddie site. If we do happen to fall in love -- perfect. Right now lets fall into a mutually beneficial relationship.When all cards are on the table in a respectful way,from what I have heard and experienced both parties get WAY MORE than they were expecting.I was with my ex-boyfriend(who I found by definition was a sugardaddie)through illness, temporarily frozen assets, and even a move to Switzerland.We were both clear from the beginning.Doesn't everyone appreciate honesty?
Nikole2007 Sun Jan 06, 2008	Hi Everyone, I understand what PerfectArmCandy says below...and I see what a lot of us girls are expressing in our profiles: we all hope to fall in love(love is amazing)...but let us first establish an arrangement that benefits all parties- so no one is confused...let's not forget the beauty of this site.... xox
Sorniyeh Sun Jan 06, 2008	I have been rather amused at some of the comments on this forum,I have read only a few before I was overwhelmed by prediction and boredom. My observation regarding some of the members is as follows: beautiful girls and beautiful guys manipulate their outward beauty to take advantage of the opposite sex. Why should one deserve more (gifts,allowances, trips to Paris, etc)due to their outer beauty.This is not a site for prostatution anyhow. Folk have arrangements between themselves, thats up to them to discuss that beforehand. Remember this.....its not how one looks, dresses, financial revenue status.It is not what one says, what car they drive. Its all about how that person makes you FEEL that counts. Get it. I do.
Ladydija Sat Jan 05, 2008	I must confess that the word "Sugardaddie" has always had a negative connotation for me throughout my life. It has the idea that there was some sort of 'handicap' or limitation to the man who called himself "sugardaddie' and so he had to be taking care of a woman, ie paying her rent, etc, in order to get her attention and this didnt seem right to me. I am surprised that I am now part of a site that goes by such a name...lol. The sugardaddie concept gives the impression of a dishonest relationhip but in another sense, it rings through of honesty and openness,even more honest than some marriages as parties are open to each other. Its not easy to find a friend or companion out there as many of us do not know where to loook in our neighbourhoods and we do not all have friends to make introductions so that you can start something off so the Internet is a good meeting place as long as it is used properly by all. This is a NEW YEAR, the year 2008, so let us do things differently; this is our happiness that we are playing with. Take the time and energies to open our mail, read our mail, write back and EXPLORE a bit instead of jumping to hasty generalized conclusions about persons who are at our disposal. We are ALL GREAT WONDERFUL human beings who are alive and kicking and ready and rearing to claim some happiness and excitement and enjoyment with a real person. HAPPY 2008 To YOU ALL and GOOD LUCK!!!!! Dianne
Cafemoche34 Wed Jan 02, 2008	Well, honestly I will not comment that a sugar daddy is only noted for catering to his sugar babe, he is more sophisticated, affluent, intelligent and strong. He knows that money can not buy you happiness, but can please those who do not have. Sugar daddies are rare and their charm comes in waves. I feel a sugar daddy needs love and affection all rolled into one. And not only that, but a woman who can satisfy the one thing they can not buy, love….
SoSweetJasmine Tue Jan 01, 2008	I just joined this website because a girlfriend told me about it, I never knew it existed before! I've been in Sugardaddy/Babe relationships before (and 99% of the time they were GREAT!!) but i never knew there was such an organized way of meeting each other! I think this website is a really good idea but (for me) it can only work if people are very direct and upfront from the start and don't want to waste time... the reason i say this is because i have WAY too many mails (i can't even read them all they are so many) and a lot of them are 'hotlists' which i can't even think about opening because i don't even have time to read all the actual emails! It's a shame because maybe there is the perfect SugarDaddy for me in there somewhere... so to all u gentlemen out there i have a suggestion: instead of writing generic captions or hotlisting us babes why not write us a mail with a really good caption that says something about yourself and what u r looking for right away to get our attention? Also everybody is asking if they can fly me to where they r for a first meeting... what about coming to meet me? I'm a working model so i travel a lot as it is... like from the 3rd to the 9th I have shoots in Montreal Canada so why can't someone be a real gentleman and fly up north for a first meeting? Even if its just for lunch or dinner it could be the first step in what could turn out to be a really fantastic Sugardaddy/Babe relationship!!! I'm not at all used to meeting people on line so I think the right SugarDaddy for me is the type of guy who really knows what he wants and is willing to take the first step to get it!!! KISSES xxxooo

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