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Viejorico
Sat Jul 14, 2007
The connection is fairly simple. A man who has created the ability to lead a generous and gracious life wants to do so with a beautiful and vivacious woman. And a beautiful and vivacious woman wants to lead a generous and gracious life.
Lady2Spoil
Thu Jul 12, 2007
For me personally, it ideally has to be a long-term, part-time relationship (I am not looking for a husband or partner)based on mutual respect and fulfilling the other's wants and needs, as well as my own. My preference is for 'naturally' benevolent men who may have a paternalistic side to them (experience has taught me that age has little to do with this - it tends to be a character trait). Someone to spend relaxing, interesting, quality time with. The best of a relationship (it IS a relationship, not a 'deal'!)without the less pleasant aspects of being a traditional couple.
LEILANIsoSweet
Mon Jul 09, 2007
I saw this site and it's title and *POOF* my Einsteinist Thinking kicked in. Just because it appears to be a place for people of lesser means to meat people of greater means does not indicate that there is only ONE aim, ONE goal ONE purpose for this site. It is really just one more avenue in which people who do not move in the same geographic, social or interest circles to meet. Life is so short, if the man I fall in love with is of any means, I would still be in love with him. If he is wealthy, he most likely worked very hard to get where he is. A man of more security with character that was built by his concentrated efforts, success and failures is definitely more appealing. A man I fell in love with many years ago was struggling pay-day to pay-day and I love him just as much as I did when I married my wealthy ex-husband. It is definitely the man more than the means that I fall for.
BeautyNBrainz
Mon Jul 09, 2007
For us women looking for a serious, long term relationship on this website, I'd like to commend you... While marrying for money alone won't lead to a life of wedded bliss, it's time that women in general stop feeling bad about admitting that money matters. We deserve to be challenged, excited and yes, I'll admit it, supported financially and otherwise by the men in our lives. It just makes us aware of what we need from a partner and gets us that much closer to finding Mr. Right and ditching Mr. Are-You-Kidding-Me.
Ebony36
Sat Jul 07, 2007
While all of us have a motive for joining this site we must all be reminded that something drew us to it whether for $ or sex or just to look around and be fascinated by the photos we all have an agenda, just be HONEST. The true thing about attraction is that we will never know when it happen. There are some players and some who are serious on the site and some who just want the oportunity to make some stupid remark. However since it is a place claiming to be the site for the elite, then let us all act accordingly. "looking for a meaningful friendship" best of luck to all.
KimberlieNC
Fri Jul 06, 2007
I think a SD/SB relationship is definately what you want to make of it. To me... it's really just a relationship between 2 people with an understanding; no strings attached. It can be live-in or long distance but either way the company is more than just sex. Most people want more than that anyways. You have a companion, a friend, a lover, a travel partner...whatever you need them to be! Most women do go into with hope for financial help from a man. You just have a rich boyfriend that's willing to take care of your needs.
Debbie822
Fri Jul 06, 2007
Okay... Being a new member I will have to say that the reason I chose this site is because anyone that is successful knows what it is to have a dream, believe in it and achieve it. I would think that they would also have confidence and dedication . I also think that going through lifes challenges one must have to have a sense of humor. I'm sure there are differnt reasons why people join. I am tired of dating men without goals and dreams... Not knowing what and who they want in their life. Like I said, I'm new and always up for a challenge...wish me luck!! ;)
TeenKatie
Thu Jul 05, 2007
I am new to this site and new to the concept of a Sugar Daddy as a partner/friend. I am young and have only had relationships with `boys` to date. My experiences were at best pretty awful.The thought of a mature, secure, experienced guy is therefore extremely appealing. (Although not tried it to date) I think I would find it hard to meet such a guy socially, (I am at College most of the time and when not studying, I am at home skint as most students are) This site overcomes all of those hurdles and hopefully, will bring me the happiness and security I wish for. That doesnt mean I am looking for a Husband. I just want to share a mutually beneficial no strings relationship with an older guy! Who knows where that may lead, the future can worry about that question. This site def gets the thumbs up from me!!! Katie xx
Sulkyone
Thu Jul 05, 2007
Well I put my hand up, I had/have absolutely no concept of the relationship between SD/SB . Other than my few weeks on this site (great site) - I have learned that looks are important to the male and irrelevant to the female, (although I hasten to add there are some seriously gorgeous males and females on here who would make a tremendous coupling!) - My definition of the relationship is each to their own and happiness comes in many mutual packages, and I commend those who are honest with themselves and with others. The upside is you know what you are getting (no nasty wife surprise 6 months down the track!) - the down side is , for me personally its takes all the fun out of getting to know some one, the build up, the size up ,the buzz. And that all important lusty bit. !. - The mails I have seem to be direct to the point in terms of what is expected in return for a meal/ride in a flash car/ hotel room for the night. Which is all great fun, Im sure. – And perhaps this is the essence of SD/SB relationships. all cards on table and no pretences, - I find it a little puzzling that such a clinical approach can lead to anything other than an pre arraranged fixture regardless of attraction/chemistry??! which I personally would struggle with, since I have had no dates, I am no expert, however I do prefer to fancy my intentended date, and desire him upon meeting – get excited about seeing him again, and anticipate whats next…. anything less is just a MacDonald’s takeaway order . - Please don’t take this the wrong way, I am hats off to all those who are able to be true to themselves – really it’s a fantastic site and full of lovely people x
Pixiepaige
Sun Jul 01, 2007
I quite like this site, having used one or two others which pale in comparison. I think a SD/SB relationship is really whatever you make of it. I admire the people on here who have left themselves wide open by stating that they are looking for a life partner - my hat's off to you. So long as you're honest about what you both want, it works! I find myself much more attracted to the hippy/arty types, which I didn't expect to find on here, but I've spoken with a few photographers and gallery owners and was delighted to have been able to do so in this setting. This has been great for me, I tend to attract the wealthy sort even when I'm out with friends, and it's more difficult trying to get what you want from someone you've met in a social setting than here. I like being forward, and I like when people are forward and honest with me, which a site of this nature tends to provide. So that's my piece :) hope you all find what you're looking for xxx
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