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Bazzzz61
Sun Jan 20, 2008
I've been reading a few of the comments posted since my last post and it does seem to be becoming obvious that maybe the site is evolving from a purely SD/SB contact site, as implied by Freespirit and reading others her thoughts seems fairly valid and accurate and maybe thats the issue, if indeed it is an issue, for there is no doubt that (in my mind anyway) that a strong thread of purely SD/SB relationships runs through the site, despite the number of 'non limited to Sd/sb' profiles we see, if you checked out some of the ladies pictures you will see what sort of area they are targeting, however as Freespirit and A beautiful mind have commented on, there is also a growing number of ladies seeking more or a more 'normal' relationship (for want of a better description!)maybe evolving from a SD initial attraction or right from the start, and why not!!! Its just can be a wee bit confusing for us mere men!!(well this one!!) Bruce x
SteelHorseRider
Fri Jan 18, 2008
It amazes me how one is so quick to judge another. Yes, sugardaddie in the traditional sense is a negative word in my book. I read in someone else's comments about the other dating sites and how bad they were, this is so true. I have been on several and at least this one has some class. Not everyone on this site has class either, have met some doozies, but to each his own. As long as two people agree between themselves what is acceptable, then that is for no one else to judge. It also amazes me how many women will pose practically nude in their pics to get attention. The young, naive ones that don't even know yet what being a woman is about and have no idea what it really means to keep your body in shape, let alone get it back into shape after 40 or 50 years and bearing children, battling cancer and abusive marriages. I think in todays world, most people are looking for love, someone to grow old with, someone to make you laugh, someone to have coffee with and watch the sun rise, someone to cry with, someone to say I love you unconditionally. Yes, there are those exceptions where it's all about sex, lies and cheating. Maybe someone should start a site called just that...sexliescheating.com Hhhmmm, there's a thought.
Steph0965
Fri Jan 18, 2008
I didn't get on this website because I see dollar signs. I see the men on this website as mature and having their lives figured out for the most part. I think with some of the careers the people on this website have, they deserve to be spoiled too, they deserve to be treated like royalty, they work hard for what they have. IF they choose to share that with someone from this site, that's their choice. I won't ever ask someone for money, I'm on this site to find someone level headed who knows what he wants. I think, personally, it's more about being spoiled emotionally instead of with material things. Material things don't matter, the little things do. A "Sugardaddie" is someone who is generous, not just financially, but emotionally as well. That's how I think of it.
Pateddybear
Thu Jan 17, 2008
I agree with several of the previous postings about the nature of this site. I have been a member for months and am a true sugardaddie looking for my Sugar Babe. I am amazed at the number of postings of women who take offense to men who are on this site for that reason. I respect a person's ad, but don't be offended when you have married sugardaddie's posting and responding to certain ad's that may be vague. If you want a pure "dating site" there are plenty out there. My other comment concerns the women who are offended by a man paying them a compliment in a kind and respectful manner. I just received a nasty, rude, immature reply from a woman in California. I had seen her ad and even though she was not for me, I sent her a nice response with a compliment of her beauty and wishing her much luck and success in her search. Her reply to me about wasting her time was rude and ignorant. Are we not allowed to write two sentences to compliment someone?
Vayda
Wed Jan 16, 2008
Everyone has a differnt idea, me personally, I think sd/sb relationship is where we both fulfill eachothers needs. Dont get me wrong there are differnt ideas, some women on here are use to the lifestyle and just want to find a wealty man to share this life with, and thats all fine to me. Then there are the men who want a girl they can take around and show off, thats cool to. thats why its important to find out eachothers goals first before meeting. Hopefully everyone finds what their looking for!
InChicagoMn
Tue Jan 15, 2008
I am very impressed with this site and the fact that there are a lot of quality women members. I am more interested in a real relationship that a staight Sugardabbie one and have found many women who are looking for the same thing. On the other hand, I have met some really high quality women looking for a true Sugardaddie relationship and it has opened me up to the possibility. My only wish is that you would be more direct in what you're looking for and what relationshis you're open too. I think we can cut to the chase much faster that way......Bob
Sugadaddy
Mon Jan 14, 2008
wow. I think some Sugarbabes are not understanding the idea and that you have to be giving as well of yourself . I dont think anyone likes a selfish person , im finding more often that women are only concerned how they are going to benefit financially . When i see profiles of SB's saying "spoil me" , "no sex " and " i dont have time" its seems like most are just looking for a free hand out . Ive also been asked for a exact dollar amount im willing to give monthly to a SB .Is this EBAY , are we now bidding for a SB ? Also if i was just wanting friendship only why would i want to be a SD ? A SD wants to be spoiled too !
ABeautifulMind3
Mon Jan 14, 2008
Every opinion is valid as we are all entitled to search for what we believe to be right for us as an individual. Personally, I have been surprised. I came onto the site because I am attracted to the CHARACTER traits that I was hoping the men might possess. Anything else would be a bonus but certainly not a prerequisite. There is a general lack of courtesy though. To not reply to an email is rude. I read that as a common complaint from the men but I experience that too, often enough to make me consider giving up. That's to do with common courtesy not gender. I took the sugar daddy/ sugar babe thing to be an all encompassing tongue-in-cheek title that would encourage a whole array of different personalities. Keep smiling....I hope you all find what you personally desire :0)
Freespirit77
Sun Jan 13, 2008
Well, we all know what a traditional Sugar Daddy/Sugar Babe relationship is, but this site is evolving into a dating agency for long term, genuine relationships too. And why not? As long as people are honest and state their expectations from the start then no harm done. It's a great site to meet classy, educated and affluent people. Has anyone criticising the motives of people wanting serious long term relationships ever studied other dating agency sites?? Oh my God, you wouldn't want to be going there! So this site, for the time being is for me too.
Bazzzz61
Sun Jan 13, 2008
Must agree with some of the last few comments and I must admit that as a guy on this site its getting very confusing. I've had and am having a couple of very very good friendships from this site, realistic and as I mentioned very enjoyable relationships because I state quite simply that I seek a STRICTLY sugar daddie relationship, so I'm up front however very few ladies state the same aim, so i'm never sure what they seek!! I've met a total of 3 ladies from this site, as I said two perfect and dare I say honest sd/sb relationships. I tend to shy away from 'not strictly' because of one bad experience of a lady who was obviously looking for a love affair, hearts and flowers, leave her hubby. Of course if shes not happy then go for it, but I find it confusing why she would look for those things on a site called SUGARDADDIE.COM. It might just be me but lets be honest, its usually the first casualty of contact sites anyway, but surely a touch of realism has got to be there!! Bruce x
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