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Cyberminx Sat Aug 04, 2007	I guess the definitions of S/D and S/B have various interpretations thats the point of being an individual, we each have different views. I joined this site specifically because I intend to be a success in my own right and I figured that a man who had already achieved a degree of personal success would feel less threatened by this. No-one has the right to judge someone who's motivations are different. Anyone who said they didn't aspire to finacial security is a liar, how they achieve that is up to them (and doesn't neccessarily make them materialistic!). Any relationship that developes from this site or any other is by mutual agreement. I just know that this site removes the deceptiveness that sometimes occurs in dating, where people have hidden agenda's, at least here you have the oppotunity to be open and upfront. Whether you are seeking material gain, sexual satifaction or looking for a soulmate you can state that openly. People will always make judgements about others with different views but that is human nature. If you can find whatever it is you seek in an honest and open way, that doesn't result in someone being hurt, what is the harm? I believe that there is someone out there for everyone, in whatever form and I wish you all the best in finding them.
MissKatherine04 Mon Jul 30, 2007	I'm a little surprised at all the men and women who are insulted or annoyed by anyone seeking anything other than strict SD/SB relationships here. Why must everything be so black and white? And why would you be annoyed by someone doing no harm, only seeking their happiness? After all, if they're not seeking the same as you, it's less competition. Be thankful. Everyone, no matter what they look for, deserves happiness. Hopefully they will find it.
JustJudyRyan Sat Jul 28, 2007	Hi again, it is my second blog about this topic.. I just wanted to say that it doesnt really matter how people precieve this site.. Who cares! What really matters is that you find what you are looking for? Whether it is money, arm candy, fun, companionship, discretion (dont really agree with that one men!) or LOVE! You may find that you set out for one thing or another and find yourself with the complete opposite. Life surprises us when we least expect it. The main thing is that you get what you were looking for and both parties are happy. We all have opinions and thats what makes the interesting. What a boring world it would be if we all thought alike.. Blahhh. FYI, I am here for Love and happiness.. it still does exist! Judy xo
Sweetchocolates Wed Jul 25, 2007	Being on this site, i've realized that not everone has the same definition of SugarDaddie/SugarBaby relationship. Whatever a person's definition of SD/SB relationship is, they have NO RIGHT to get mad at or insult someone else's interpretation of it. Also MEN: don't get mad if a woman expects material things. (Traditionally a Sugardaddie pays or helps out in some way) -If a woman was JUST looking for true love she'd probally be on Match.com which is probally where you should be if these things offend you.
Gadrius Tue Jul 17, 2007	I totally agree with lovinitsunny. sugardaddie can be interpretted in many different ways depending on who you are and where your roots are. I personnaly came here to find friendships that may someday turn into a more fruitful relationship. I am currently seperated and waiting on my divorce to become final but that doesn't mean I'm a rich man here to grab up the next pamela anderson look a like and marry her. I am not monetarily wealthy but I consider myself the richest man in the world when I look at my kids, mysef and the goals that I've set for myself and achieved them. I offer compassion, loyalty, true friendship and a heart of gold. I may not be the most handsome or richest guy on this site but I make up for all that in the way I treat a lady and my honesty to myself and others. Being a S/D is more than having a 20 year old on your arm and money in your wallet. The thing that bothers me the most when searching through the profiles on this site is when the women say they want to meet the man that will treat them the way they deserve to be treated and lavish them with gifts and trips the way they deserve to be spoiled. My take on that is get a job and you'll appreciate it more, then you can say you deserve those things. You don't deserve them because you have a kitty between your legs. I don't say that to those ladies that have been in unfruitful or abusive scenarios and have had to work to feed your kids or yourself. I can understand you ladies saying "the way you deserve" because you most likely didn't deserve being beat on or abused.
Karmasgood Mon Jul 16, 2007	I've learned these terms are meant for people, looking for people, who can be benificial in anyway they desire, one has what the other lacks, and in the end, middle or beginning, youre searching for satisfaction.
Bonsnoangel Sun Jul 15, 2007	The definition of Sugardaddie... I really never gave it a thought until I was a member here.. just imagined there would be some successful and intelligent men on here who enjoyed the finer things that life had to offer and who possibly had the means and the wit to get them. To be successful in any relationship the following ingredients must apply;- friendship, honesty, trust and a deep longing to share your time with someone who means the world to you. The latter can come in many forms... your mistress.. your lover or your husband/wife. As long as you are both in agreement of what you want and what you are looking for long term then what does it matter? As someone else so rightly stated - I'm sick of dating men who will happily eat lobster as long as I'm paying, but frown at me for the same choice if they are. I want someone who appreciates me - in all my glory, and who isn't afraid to show that, but at the end of the day its a two way street.. Don't be too hard on the people who don't interest you.. or who's values or morals you don't share - just be honest about what you want and what you are prepared to accept. It really doesn't matter what the definition is.. all that matters is that the right partners find each other in the dance.
Ramere Sun Jul 15, 2007	I am fairly new to this site, before I joined I made sure I had a real look to see what I was getting myself into and this site covers all aspects, all ages, all sizes and all backgrounds and scenario's, for me I have my own life set up and am very successful, I have no wish to take from other people's lives but merely add to it, I hope to find a 'better quality' of man who knows how to treat a lady in the correct manner they deserve (I deserve) and feel this site maybe able to provide it as it can come with a better quality gentleman and hell knows it's not where I have been looking ! We all know what a sugar daddie/sugar babe is but this site does not neccesarily mean it's dedicated to just that.
Bonsnoangel Sun Jul 15, 2007	Oh dear... I thought this site was for beautiful people to find one another... whether beautiful inside or out... it seems that so many of us are concentrating on the monetary angle. Yes its nice to have a partner who is financially secure... and it would be lovely to find someone who was not just able... but willing to try to make thier partner feel special and adored - I've always been the one in the past that has done that and it has to be a two way street - spoil him in equal amounts in return, whether that means buying him little gifts, making him breakfast - or just making him feel adored. I can't be in a relationship where there are no feelings... there has to be or I'm just selling myself and my time, and where feelings are involved then exclusivity is paramount for me. I have stated that I'm fiercely independent... that comes with time and experience - but that doesn't mean that I wouldn't say yes if the right man asked me to marry him.
Asianguy2323 Sat Jul 14, 2007	Regardless of what the site was designed for, the site is a great way to open up doors of opportunities that never would have happened without the website of Sugardaddie.com. Hopefully those opportunities are more often good ones than bad ones. I am hoping to use this site as a way to meet new ladies, whether they need pampering or for an actual long term relationship. One thing is for sure, I'm not using this site to start ten different flings. I, myself, prefer an exclusive arrangement, but others may find they actually like the capabilities of seeing different people all at once. Good luck to everybody, males AND females!

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