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Jack4952
Wed Oct 24, 2007
If you are looking for "true love", then I think "SugarDaddie" is the WRONG web site. Try Yahoo Personals or eHarmony - or your local church! A "SugarBabe" is someone looking for a mutually satisfying sexual relationship and interesting companionship with a man ("SugarDaddie") who can afford to treat that lady in a very special manner. In short, a "mistress". If the relationship develops into sometime deeper and more long-term, then both parties are fortunate. Please, ladies, go elsewhere to find a husband...
FunExec4U
Sat Oct 20, 2007
Hey, wait a minute...Sugar Babe, Benifactor, Mistress...it's all relative and everyone has their own understanding of the relationship, hopefully made clear soon after contact. For you young girls out there with older men...If you're smart, you'll use the wisdom and experience of your man to your advantage, emotional, spiritual, physical and financial. We (older rich guys)didn't get to our financial success from being slow learners, most of us are smart, prudent, and fast learners. I believe a good Sugar Daddie should not only take into consideration his babe's financial needs, but also her spiritual, emotional and intellectual needs, sharing his experience and wisdom, teaching and mentoring her. Help her feel confident and intelligent, help her mature to a fantastic woman, help her grow to her potential. Smart younger woman have figured this out. It's more than a monthly direct deposit. Some profiles on this site lean towards "I want to Travel, I want to Shop, I want to eat at nice places...The intellectually matured younger woman's profiles talk about sharing life experiences, learning and growing; development, conversation....smart move... what a turn on...All the financial stuff is taken care of anyway, it should be secondary and the babe doesn't have to feel like an escort. Just my opinion.
Luscioussummer
Fri Oct 19, 2007
I think that it is very obvious what this site is about. It's called Sugardaddie.com for heaven's sake. I don't mind getting to know people and having fun. I am a genuine person so that's fine with me. At the end of the day, however I have something you want and you have something I want. Guys ask so much of women and then when we ask for something i return they act stingy. This site is not for the stingy man it is for the sugardaddie. Granted women should be fulfilling this daddy's every need in every way but that is the agreement of the relationship as in with all relationships: You give me what I want and I'll give you what you want. This site just lets you be honest and to the point.
Kumite-Champ
Mon Oct 15, 2007
Wow, what's wrong with admitting you joined because you prefer younger, sexier, prettier women to hang around & become intimate with and what's wrong with the rest of you who read the name of the website and still paid your money because you prefer men who aren't stingy and want them to lavish you in material items? LOL... when you stop lying to yourself, maybe you'll save your money for a "love" relationships, by joinging "Christiandating.com" but for now, you joined Sugardaddie.com. We all know, (even those who want to pretend their naive) what this site means and the choices we made. Males, if you're disappointed because a woman calls your bluff, then who's fault is that? You shouldn't have chosen this site and pretended you're in a position to accommodate financial needs, but expect quality companionship! Females, you stand a better chance of finding "true love" (if that's what you seek) by getting off your ass & your computer, step outside and live your life! The rest of us, paid money to meet others like ourselves who aren't looking for a love connection, just good old fashion adult fun/comfort when the time permits! I don't know about some of you, but I'm tired of putting in quality time in a relationship to have my holidays, birthdays & just because days, dismissed due to the fact I'm financially secure! Even successful career women enjoy flowers, presents and occasional island excursions! If you can't be honest with yourself, how do you expect others to take you serious? FYI* You're reading this comment on a self-paid website called "Sugardaddie.com" (Daddy made of sweet substance that gives an artificial euphoria!) Not EHarmony.com!
Bader1949
Sun Oct 14, 2007
The "Sugar Daddie/Sugar Babe" relationship can be defined as needed between the parties. I do feel it is more of a relationship between "older men/younger women"."Daddie" needs to take care of her needs across the board Not having the option for more, well, just makes it a sad relationship.I can get all the sex I want, when I want it with no strings attached. But I like strings, and companionship, and laughter and getting to know someone well.But not just for gifts, or money or travel. If you do not click - no matter how hot she is or wealthy he is - and it is all about $$$ and sex..well there is a name for that. Some men, myself included, are just attracted to the vitality, openess, livliness and appeal of younger women. If I said that "innocence" and "willingess" to try new things and be adenturess are not a factor I would be untruthful. I get confused when I see all the profiles you would normally see on a "dating/relationship" site. I appreciate the "class" of the site that keeps it from being another "cybersex" portal. I personally like my sex face to face, errr, well in person at least. Ladies, please, stop being so stuffy. If you are shocked or turned off by a man who is 20 years your senior finding you attractive and wanting to get to know you, please go to another site. At minimum, don't be so snooty when contacted. I can dance circles around any "boys" you might think you want..intellectually, conversationally, financially, in business, on a date and yes in bed as well. With age, if you do it right, comes knowledge, wisdom, appreciation and lots of tricks. I know what I want and have stated it clearly. Be sure of what "you" want and be truthful, or at minimum, be open to exploring new horizons.
jyc25
Sun Oct 14, 2007
I have been on this site for a long time and I have heard and seen it all.First let me say I love this site.The thing that bothers me the most is that the ladies on here for the most part have no idea what a SD/SB relationship.The stories are all different they get insulted when you say you want a typical SD/Sb relationship they say No I am not a hooker or as one lady who weighed close to 250lbs wanted 5000 a mo on the first email.I told her I do not pay by the lb.Get real ladies this is a great site if you are looking for a great thing with a generous man but not a great place to look for a future spouse.I have met and talked with a lot of ladies here and you can find what you are seeking.I am seeking a on going sexual relationship and that is all.What I am trying to say is we are all different try to understand that and when you find someone who is not seeking what you are wish them well and move on. Jay
SurfClaire
Sat Oct 13, 2007
Hi - I was kind of under the impression that the sugar daddy-sugar babe relationship was like being a 'mistress'. I'm looking for man who is affluent and probably married who wants to see me when it suits him for a pleasant diversion from work and domesticity. In return I will look lovely and be fun and light hearted and sexy and his friend in return for being taken care of financially by way of an allowance of some kind. This is how it works in France and it's very civilised for everyone. If I was looking for love or a boyfriend I wouldn't have registered on a site called Sugardaddie but many of the men here appear to be looking for proper boyfriend/girlfriend relationships or have I got the wrong impression?
SimplySweet603
Thu Oct 11, 2007
Hello Everyone, Well for me, a sugardadddie or sugarbabe is someone who understands that nothing is too good for the person he/ she is with. I also believe that this is a two way street. If someone treats you well then you should treat them as well if not better than they treat you. I'm not just talking about giving them money or things. I'm talking about going the extra mile to show someone that you really enjoy and appreciate their company. This could be in the form of a hug or just being there to listen when they want to talk. Life is so short so if you find thing good take care of it and appreciate it.
Carmel169
Thu Oct 11, 2007
I must say I agree with Miss Essence. Get it how you can. I think alot of men on this site are confused this site is called sugardaddie not match maker, if you aren't looking to be that then I think you need to try a different site. Buying a women an outfit so you can take her out to dinner isn't a sugardaddy a regular boyfriend can do that, being a sugardaddy means going that extra mile for your lady because you appreciate the things that she does for you and being proud of it. Be glad you can do more for her than the common man be proud that she is your lady and don't be afraid to compensate her for it.
Beachfeather
Thu Oct 11, 2007
I agree with Tammystoy. From a meta physical perspective, I do know that in life, we only attract what we 'deserve'. Cause & effect etc.. How can anything be one way? A powerful woman needs a powerful man; which should allow for mutual loving, adoration and cherishing in my book. Treating your special other as you would wish to be treated. Remembering that great gentleness can also be powerful. And that mutual respect is 'so now'! Maybe that's The Secret. Anything less is simply not worth settling for, thus I find myself on here, wondering about the mystery of it all, possibly like you! lol ;-) I wish you the love, peace and happiness that you seek and deserve. B x
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