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BlondieLikesPin
Tue Apr 22, 2008
I think a SB is someone who is tired of the bar scene, and wants something substantial in order to build the foundation to a great relationship. A SB can be someone who is honest, trustworthy, fun, not into the whole casual sex atmosphere, and a person who is not afraid to put themself out there. Online dating sites can be a bit scary, but I think if you open yourself up to the idea that there really are great people out there looking for people just like you, it can make it all worthwhile. Just be sure to keep yourself in check, and not let negative comments from negative people stop you from finding the person you are meant to be with.
MissLucyFurr
Mon Apr 21, 2008
What is a sd/sb relationship? I really do not know. Having read the forum, the general idea of a rich man treating a lady well seems to be widely excepted. But then, I wonder, really wonder, when it comes to searching for a more conventional relationship, is it possible to find one in such an environment? I respect that for the more mature woman, who is established already, perhaps, yes it is possible. But as a 22 year old university graduate who is still building a career and in the process of establishing one's self it feels somewhat like being on the back foot. I find it most interesting how status seems to dictate the way in which one is viewed, perhaps these are my own preconceptions, i do not know. But What i would be interested in finding out is if the younger women on this site are taken less seriously, perhaps veiwed as "Babies" rather than "babes" or are they one and they same? Are there catagories and sub catagories of sugarbabes? lol
Sexxyblbaby4u
Sat Apr 19, 2008
I had a sugar daddy before and it was awesome.( he got married and moved away after 6years) My definition is usually a guy older than me that is real successful. Or a married successful guy. Its pretty simple. An on-going relationship between a girl and a guy where the guys helps you out and gives you things you can't provide yourself. Meaning, things that I could never provide myself. I love having a sugar daddy. He is the best! It is awesome bcuz I can go to him anytime and he can come to me anytime. I understand he is busy and/or has a wife and family. Its good to be him. He pays the cost to be the boss! xoxo
Palmier
Fri Apr 18, 2008
I read many comments on forum that are condescending and simply highly narcissistic and selfish. They are mostly from men but women at times look selfishly for a respoonse to their own needs leaving little to imagine about the give and take. For me, this site is a chance at finding more sophistication (some of it comes with higher levels of education, some of it comes from being somewhat older and more mature, etc.) Other sites have rarely offered this level in my view.
Sweet-tea83
Thu Apr 17, 2008
I believe the SD/SB relationship is something special between a daddie and babie. The daddie is rich, powerful, overworked, very busy, sometimes in a very unhappy marriage and in need of some much well needed attention from a beautiful babie that turns heads and makes him very proud to have her on his arm and in his bed.. He could also not be married, but still working so many hours that he doesn't have time to go out in search for his babie. He can get on this site and its an open buffet. We can find exactly what we want. He then can relax and stop stressing so much and let his babie take care of him in the way that he desires and needs. They both do spoil each other with lots of attention, affection, and a special friendship and maybe even marriage. Although I don't believe that to many are looking for anything that serious on line but just maybe a few. To me the definition of Sugardaddie/babie relationship is this. An older gentlemen that has money and not much time who wants and desires a very sexy, beautiful playmate to share special time with, travel companion, drama free, who both will get what they want out of the relationship with usually a NSA relationship.
sugadaddy
Sun Apr 13, 2008
Id like to say what a SD/SB relationship "IS NOT" . Its not Ebay were you go with the highest bidder , its not a second "JOB" , its not Welfare "something for nothing" , its not "Rent a FRIEND". and its definitely not "Pay for Play" . I strongly believe everything starts with HONESTY and FRIENDSHIP. So what ever your intentions are on here ,just be honest and upfront , it saves time . Ive had 2 long term arrangements from this site over the past 4yrs , the ones that worked started with Honesty. The ones that didnt , well it never went anywhere,lol.
Melodie1
Sun Apr 13, 2008
I koined this site to have a change in the caliber of people I am meeting elsewhere. I believe that there are some very decent people out there and this website seems to only let people that are honest be a part o f it.
Utahblondie1972
Fri Apr 11, 2008
I think you shoud have fun! Be yourself, be honest and confident. Don't be afraid to laugh and express your sincere thoughts and desires! I considerate ita huge compliment to receive attention from such an aesthetic and intellectual genre of intelligent men who know what they need.
TexasSiren
Mon Apr 07, 2008
I've been on this site for quite some time. I haven't been as active but my experiences have taught me the value of open communication. It is a relationship, first and foremost, no matter how deep or no-strings, the terms and limitations should be expressed up front. There should be a basis of mutual respect as well as chemistry. The financial benefit is just that, a benefit. It is not an entitlement or a tool for leverage on either end. It is NOT "pay for play", "payment for services rendered" or anything of a transactional nature. The Sugardaddy/Sugarbabe dynamic is one of give and take. It is not a business or a service.
Mielle08
Thu Apr 03, 2008
Hi There I think that a Sugar Daddy/ Sugar Babe Relationship can be a very special and fulfilling partnership. I hold this view because of three main reasons. Firstly, although the individuals involved in a Sugar Daddy/Babe Relationship maybe from different backgrounds there is an agreed understanding of respect and discetion that is refreshing. Secondly, this type of relationship has an element of excitement and allure that stimulates me to be adventurous and confident. Thirdly, I enjoy the oportunity that it provides to share my experience with others. There is also an element of trust which leaves little room to be judgemental or critcal. In addition, it is also a fun way to meet new people and more importantly, to learn more about yourself.
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