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CandyPie Wed Nov 07, 2007	As a OK looking woman I understand that no matter how beautiful you are there are always others out there who are more so. So I would hope that as a sugar baby I would rely on something more than my looks to attract a man. I also know that if sex is what I am planning to use to keep a man attention then that is not going to be enough. If there is no connection then there is no relationship. Now the connection may not be as deep and moving as say a 50 year marriage but it can be as shallow as a one night fling. I think sugar daddies and sugar babies are a special friendship. The limitations are recognized and accepted. The time together is enjoyed without the pressures of pushing it to the next level. Men (or women) who seek a marriage relationship on a site called SUGARDADDIES.COM is a little desperate. Or maybe a lot. This is the place to find a friendships that may not live up the the pressure of marriage. That is OK. Not every friendship can survive the pressures of marriage or hell a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. The limits are there for a reason. I have never had a SD/SB relationship where I wasn't friends with the man. It would be HARD to be with a man whom you arent attracted to. I do look good in a black dress. I try very hard to look good in all my clothes. I do like to travel but I dont expect a man fly me first class because of that. I would expect him to want me to accompany him because he know I will make the trip much more memorable. But if a man thinks that his success is not one of the things that makes him attractive then he needs to think why he is not more open to the plain fat housewife type of woman. Give and take Give and take.
Njbeauty73 Mon Nov 05, 2007	If you look up the term "sugar daddy" you will find many variations with one theme. We use the term liberally, in jest, and even endearment. The true essence of the word however does not change. It is a wealthy man usually older, who showers her with attention and gift, often mentoring her with care, in return for companionship. If you are on this site seeking true love over companionship, you should try match or yahoo. If you are on here looking for a rent check, go find a corner. 100-200k is something many girls can achieve alone and simply today. Many of us are educated, funny, charming and genuinely sincere, therefore a sugar daddy needs to increase the quality of life via lifestyle. We increase the quality of life with attention, laughs, etc... I personaly find it impossible to be with someone who you are not attracted to and can't have conversations with on many levels. We all know the excitement you get when you want to be with someone, we also know the despair. There is no lifestyle that can compensate for your soul. There is however a conversation enhanced by a better atmosphere, a better bottle of wine, a better... you get the point. If you are looking for a girl to meet for a drink and a quicky, you are not a sugar daddy. Gentlemen, step it up and put your best foot forward. Show your baby that you will go to extremes for her right up front and I can assure you she will return the indulgence several times over. And who knows, if you are as lucky as I have been a few times. You both fall in love and have an amazing lifetime of memories. Good luck to all who seek happiness however you define it.
Bader1949 Mon Nov 05, 2007	I am not sure how cleavage, inuendo, or "promises" go together with paltonic? I have been very direct in what I want. Not a pay for play relationship and not in return for dinner or a trip or a gift. Why would a dinner companion, or a travel companion without intimacy (sex), expect an allowance or rent or a car or.... If someone wants to jump my bones because I have money and not because I turn them on or touch them somehow, I pass. I am not flying anyone first class to Paris because they are "independent, look good in a black dress and love to travel". I also, would not expect them to go until they have met me, gotten to know me and want to be with me. "Want" being the operative term. This is a two way street. I get and you get! I want and you want. I need and you need! You may be the best thing since "sliced bread", but until I know or feel the chemistry, nothing happens on my end. I do not ask for nude pictures, and yet get them unsolicited all the time. But the want to go slow? I do not send nude pictures as I could not handle the mail. LOL. If this site was not about "attraction" then it would be without pictures. If it was not about sex at a healthy level then there would not be so many "seductive" photos. Ladies, if you want to be seen for "yourself" and to "get to know" me or any of the men on the site. Be realistic about what this site is called and refers to. If you want a "Sugar Daddie", then a "little sugar" and "spice" would be in order. I will respect you, care for you and even "keep" you if that is how it goes. But lets not play too many games about what it is that will or will not happen. And yes I do want to know about you. ALL about you. Hate to sound harsh, but it is frustrating sometimes.
Brasilian4ever Fri Nov 02, 2007	As a single woman,I believe many women are gravitating to sites such as sugardaddie.com because of what seems to be the plight of "stingy-ness" amongst many of the men out there in the dating world.To further expound,the lack of appreciation and consideration of what we women go through to prepare for an evening or day out. Some of us spend considerable time & expense readying ourselves only be disappointed with the plans made(not impressive,inventive or orginal)& the expectations that follow. I look at it this way;if you are a man who enjoys being in the company of a beautiful woman. Well groomed.Beautifully dressed. Well composed.Well, believe it or not,she does not wake up that way.True, some are naturally beautiful,but at the end of the day when the time to see her happens, she is very well put together and someone whom you are (or should be)delighted to have on your arm and money should not be an issue.Do what is within your realm of reality, but do show your appreciation! Sometimes,it is not even the point of expense(on your part),but the time you put into deciding where you would like to go; what you would like to share with her and what more you want to find out about her. Is this not the adult world?
Pixiepaige Fri Nov 02, 2007	A lot of the contributions made by men who use this site I feel are more than a touch unfair. Success is attractive. Whether this is initial attraction for a short term fling, or a deeper attraction leading to something more, I would like to believe one may find both here. I wish to be treated like a Queen because I am attractive, talented and excellent company - not because I am deluded in thinking that looks are the only thing that matters to a potential mate.
lVlasterBates Fri Nov 02, 2007	Hmmmmmmm......I've been away for awhile nd I see nothing has changed. We still don't have an answer to the centuries old question, do we. I have noticed a big change in profiles. It seems that since Dr.Phil there are more women wanting more money for their roles. I also like some of the newer usernames. Is it confidence, conceit or dreaming that some of the names imply? I see names that imply sex, but the profile says "non sexual relationship" I see names that imply they are looking for a lifes partner, but the profile says "no long term or commitment". My favorites are the ones that say "no married men".....Psst...the name Sugardaddie(sugardaddy) itself implies that men are usually married. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm......
Tonichka Wed Oct 31, 2007	It's taken me a year since uploading my profile to actually subscribe, simply because I was very wary of a site in which the men appear to pay for affection and the women have dubious motives. Of course, that a simplistic generalisation, and I've now joined because I've seen several female profiles in which love, rather than money, is the object. The reality is that many women are attracted to wealthy men because wealth denotes success, and success comes from talent, strength and determination. My female friends tell me that those qualities are as attractive to an intelligent woman as are slim legs and pert breasts to a discerning man. I just wish there was a better name than sugardaddie...... 'Beauty and the Beast/Man of Substance/Geek...'? Any better ideas?
Tinman Tue Oct 30, 2007	The two individuals do care for eachother, dine together, take trips together, generally the woman is assisted with things such as rent and utilities, food etc.. the same as any other relationship, but because of the age, there will always be the understanding that the relationship may never go beyond that of intimate friends. The sugar daddy generally does care for his babe and his sugar babe does care for him. This relationship may include sex or it may not, but there should always be the aspects of caring, friendshp and respect for eachother. Unlike the opinion of some younger woman and men, this is not a pay by date or pay by hour relationship. We all know what that is describing and if this is you and you do not think of this as being prostitution then you are in denial and on the wrong site. This is about a caring and nurturing relationship with the understanding that it most likely will be temporary because of the different stages in life that the two participants are in. The sugar aspect of the relationship for either party should come as a result of the relationship, not the relationship is the result of how much sugar someone shows upfront.
Tinman Tue Oct 30, 2007	It's been awhile since I have contributed to the forums, but I feel some things need to be pointed out. I believe some of the men and younger women of this site have a misconception of what a sugar daddy/babe relationship is, especially some of the younger women. I know I'm going to sound like a former President by saying this, but I feel it fits. Ask not, what a sugar daddy or sugar babe can do for you, but what can you do for your sugar daddy or sugar babe. A sugardaddy/babe relationship is where the two parties truly do care for eachother and want to please eachother. It is NOT what can you do for me and what can you offer. It is not, let's make a deal and prove your are worthy upfront. A sugardaddy/babe relationship is very much like any other relationship with one of the main differenes being age.
Sweeetcakes Sun Oct 28, 2007	I have just been having a quick look at this forum at some of the comments about what 'sugardaddie' is - well I believe that a 'online site' like this can develop and it is obviously doing so in the fact that there are so many different people with different desires on here. Surely as long as the individuals make it clear as to what they are looking for - being totally honest of course - then there is no problem with anyone looking for a life partner - like myself - or indeed a relationship or agreement of another kind. I am hoping to meet someone who is a gentleman, educated and can hold a decent coversation, is successful, a man of the world, sophisticated and knows how to treat a lady with respect and from what I see on this site there are gentlemen on here that are acceptable to me as they are stating facts about themselves which I do not believe always happens on some 'other sites!' This is only my own personal belief and not from any other stated fact of course! So ...

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