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ElegantParamore
Wed May 07, 2008
Part 1 and 2 First I must say that I loath the term Sugar daddy and Sugar baby. Personally I prefer Mistress or courtesan, which while many people confuse courtesan with that of a high priced escort, it is in true definition the term for an adulterous women of a highly regarded gentlemen, who is not only his lover, but also kept by him. Normally these women were the women behind some of the greatest power houses of men in time. And these women were completely monogamous to these men often for decades, sharing the most intimate, many times even more intimate relations with their lovers, then their lovers First I must say that I loath the term Sugar daddy and Sugar baby. I myself love being a mistress. While some of those out there can cry out, “Whore “ Home Wrecker” and so forth, I honestly do not believe myself to be any of those. Being a Mistress to my lover to me means being more than his toy, which is what brings to mind within the term Sugar baby. I am not a baby, I am a woman capable of great depths of love, understanding, sensual passion and intelligence. A mistress should not bring undue complications to her lover with constant demands for his time, his devotion, and other issues to his plate. He is not there to fill an emotional void within herself, that only she can fill, but rather be there to bring him the passion that he is lacking in other areas of his life. Yes, of course, they should become the best of friends and confidants, him being able to turn to her when storms are brewing in his world, bringing him shelter of peace, joy and unconditional love. As he should also be bringing to her the same peace, joy and unconditional love
DestinyP
Tue May 06, 2008
I think a sugardaddie/sugarbabe relationship is completely up to the two peole having the relationship. I personally think it is hot that a well established older gentlemen would find me attractive and want to spend time with me. On the same hand I believe that some people need a break from there every day life and I want to be that fun carefree person that they can spend time with. I don't think allowance defines it. It is not good or bad it is up to who is in the relationship. How they define it is up to them.
PCSparklepants
Fri May 02, 2008
OK here are my thoughts... I'm not a materialistic type person at all, but what I can offer to that special man is someone who has standards, who knows how to act like a lady when she needs to, who can look the part at high class functions, who can provide the stability, and a wonderful home. In return all I would like is for someone to love and cherish me, make me feel a million dollars without spending the money.
LUSHBABE
Fri May 02, 2008
I joined this site in the hope of finding a Sugar-Daddie/Sugar-Babe relationship which to me is a relationship of friendship where the Sugardaddie is looking for a special person to spend time with and treat/spoil rotten/pamper etc because he is in a position to and more importantly he wants to. If this gives a man pleasure - what is wrong with this? Equally, in return as far as I am concerned from my point of view you would get to know and like I hope what a true friend/loyal Sugarbabe/companion is. Where the relationship goes and how it develops is down to each others circumstances, time, chemistry and honesty! Certainly I think if someone advertises themself as wanting a Sugardaddie/Sugarbabe relationship then that is what is expected, on the other hand if someone advertises that they are not limited to a SD/SB relationship then of course, it is natural that other things are going to come in to play. I am a SB wanting to meet a genuine SD, and I do mean GENUINE, with no strings, no demands, no expectations!!! Not every SB is out there to be bought designer labels by the rail full, or cars or whatever, there are some of us who simply are at a a stage in our lives where for what ever reason it would be nice to be took shopping and treated to an outfit, but it doesn't have to cost the earth! Yes, I am rare and easily pleased, samll things mean a lot ... so if there is a genuine SD out there I would love to hear from you. More importanlty I would like you to get to know me, what makes me tick - on the other hand, I would love to be there for you in what ever way makes your day! xxx lushbabe xxx
fiveft2qt
Thu May 01, 2008
I feel that a sudardaddie/sugarbabe relationship is based on the daddie wanting 1 woman to spoil,spend time with,and basically share the fruits of his world with.The sugarbabe is the reciever of things that she is not normally accustomed to,and basically the sugardaddie makes these things accessible and takes away a few stressors from the sugarbabe.IE..trips,money,gifts,help with bilss,rent..etc..just a good time without the usual stresses of her life.That is my opionion.
Greengolden
Wed Apr 30, 2008
ADVICE FROM A FATHER FIGURE: Dom Perignon, Beluga caviar, Manolo Blahnik, Bora Bora -- forget it. We are entering an economic recession, one that, according to Warren Buffett, the world's richest man ($62 billion) and also one of the smartest, that will be longer and deeper than expected. Young ladies, forget about being spoiled, trotted around to fancy restaurants, etc. Instead, seek security, stability, economic and emotional shelter from your sugar daddies. Sugar daddies, do the right thing. Encourage your sugarbabes to skip the bling-bling and save their money instead.
Porius
Wed Apr 30, 2008
Ive read a few posts here and feel some people are missing the point.This objectively is a classy dating site, where people with half a brain can perhaps meet and make something happen together. Sure, sex is important but it an't the be all and end all! From my perpective as an older member of the site I'd like to say that interesting, attractive women in their 40's or thereabouts are hard to meet, particularly those who may just fit into my lifestyle and have the inclination to undertake a perilous journey. Life and relationships are like that! I'm currently single, financially cosy for the time I expect to have left (maybe 40 or 50, more if I manage to quit smoking!)yet I'm not overworked anymore and just want to share some travels with someone likeminded and the inbetween times. OK, so I love Bordeaux, champagne, good restaurants etc and yes, good sex, but I also want a caring individual who's just there when I might need her for something incredibly trivial! Possessions are nothing and let's face it, we can't take 'em with us. A great lifestyle is worth working hard for and equally worth sharing with someone you care for and cares for you. That's the woman I'm looking for here.
JustCrystal
Tue Apr 29, 2008
For me, a sugardaddie-sugarbabe relationship is about mutual benefit, not business. I give what I have to offer, which is time, compassion, and affection. In return, I expect to receive what he has to offer, affection, gifts, and friendship. If the relationship works well and both sides are happy, I dont see anything wrong with an allowance, but I wouldnt demand one.
TasteLikeCandy
Sat Apr 26, 2008
There has to be a mutual understanding because if you don't there will be a lack in communication. Personal opinion, there has to be a big age gap. "Sugar DADDY/ Sugar BABY". The sugar in this term alludes to the sweetening role of the gifts, and daddy to the age difference between the pair. Money, gifts, weekend getaways, and love are exchanged for erotic favors, companion, and happiness. They start as friends, eventually feelings take place. Sometimes the relationship can be discreet and sometimes there is no secret to their relationship. Another personal opinion, a REAL sugar babe is very LOYAL. She is involved with only one Sugar Daddy. She is a Sugar Babe not a prostitute. Having some life experience to share is a big turn on, as well. Girls like a man who can show them the ropes and teach them things that they might not have discovered on their own, particularly the finer things in life.
Miathediva
Fri Apr 25, 2008
Ok my thoughts on this question is a Sugardaddie is someone who wants to be with a beautiful woman who can cater to him and have on his arm when he is free and want to excape the rest from his everyday life. Usually he is wealthy, successful, older and enjoy the company of a younger and beautiful woman. It should be an even trade. He should take care of her she should not want for anything. She should have an allowance, be bought little gifts
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