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NiceGuy1st
Sun Nov 25, 2007
I personally am here because I am a frustrated sugardaddy. I enjoy mentoring, entertaining, and otherwise taking care of exceptional young women. It just comes naturally and I do it without even thinking. However I am disappointed and frustrated that I am not receiving the same degree of attention back from the young ladies whose company I currently enjoy. I'm not even talking about sex here – simple focused interest, appreciation and companionship is what I crave most in the short term. Comfort, trust and intimacy develop in time if the partnership continues. Money is just lubricant; it makes a good machine (ie relationship/arrangement) run like silk - but it won't fix a bad machine and I'd rather not waste it. Like most of us here, I am not finding what I need in my own social circles. So I am here to meet quality people and maybe connect with a few in a meaningful way.
NiceGuy1st
Sun Nov 25, 2007
I'm new here so I have read this forum from the beginning before posting. I have seen changes in content, mostly for the best. However, one thing has not changed: people keep trying to throw each other off the site because someone disagrees with some detail of what SB/SD is, and what Sugardaddie.com is supposed to do. From a business point of view, I believe we need everybody here that is here. It costs money to run a Web site like this. If the site was as exclusive as some would like to see, members (including SB's) could be paying up to $200 a month for membership instead of $20 or less. I came to this site for the community of successful, intelligent, articulate and thoughtful people whose preferences for intergenerational and otherwise substantial partnerships match my own. No other site I know offers that complete dynamic. I enjoy and benefit from the diversity of people at this site and would hate to see people leave because some individual thinks they don't belong here. If anyone truly doesn't belong they will leave on their own because the site will not serve their purpose.
LRenee07
Sun Nov 25, 2007
When joining the site I didn't take the Sugardaddie and Suggarbabe thing literally. I NEVER truly expected to meet someone to Upgrade Me (smile). I approached it like hanging out in a 24 hour Happy Hour Lounge in Everywhere, USA. No different than getting dressed and heading down on the Vegas Strip having drinks and meeting people, Or sitting in my Teeshirt, in front of my laptop, meeting people. I've met some really great people in my short time as member. Regardless of what type of relationship your looking for....You must establish a Friendship 1st. So just enjoy yourself, make new friends and have fun.
WestEndWench
Sat Nov 24, 2007
It's this simple. I joined because I thought the premise was hilarious. I work in finance so I meet lots of boys every day who think money defines them as a success. It doesn't. However, as a hard worker, with a business myself as well as a job, I've found there are men on here I connect to because they have brains, drive and ambition. Not to mention class. I’m pretty intimidating in general so a someone who’s not afraid of the world is probably a good start. I don’t expect someone to pay for me, but it is nice to meet someone who doesn’t expect me to pay just because I have a good job!
Sugardaddym45
Sat Nov 24, 2007
We all need something. It could be a loving partner, a career, travel, kids or just fun in our lives. For me I dont have a partner, or kids, i do travel and have a career, one thats been bulit on hard work - so now its time for fun. Being a sugar daddy to a sugar babe is the fun I seek and the fun I need. lets face it life is too short and it needs to be enjoyed and kept in balance. To be a sugar daddy to a sugarbabe meens being able to give and to share, to have intimate, spontanious moments which are mutually rewarding and brings life into balance with hard work and responsibilities. If a sugardaddy/sugarbabe relationship is mutually rewarding then we each enjoy otherwise "drab" moments.
Respond911
Wed Nov 21, 2007
i have been on this site for a short time but have met more people and received more interesting e-mails than anywhere else i have tried. for me this site has been a treat. this set me to wondering and to make some observations. please bear with me: - my approach here has been the same as elsewhere, except for the financial information this site depicts on my profile. i wonder if this has lead more ladies to reach out and reply when i contact them? - the premise of this site is right there in the name..perhaps that leads to fewer games and more serious replies. - there are still those who are offended when approached by an older, married man...the world continues to spin. - american woman are more forward in that i have had more of them make initial contact with me...only 2 canadian women have taken the first step while i have been contacted by 15 american women..many who have placed me on their hot list, sight unseen. what does this tell us about the differences a border makes.....i must confess a lot of the american woman have no idea of how large canada is..lol
Mocha27
Fri Nov 16, 2007
A sugar daddy is an older gentlemen who is established and has a wealth of knowledge to share with a younger lady, not a potential husband lets be real and maby every one on this site will come out a winner, first of all men, dont say on your profile that you are not limited to SD/SB relationship, really what does that mean if your married what your going to fall in love with me leave your wife and we will sail away in the sunset.....NO of course not so put strictly SD/SB on your profile, i know some of you try and trick yourselves that your not paying for affection by saying relationship instead of arrangement so really lets be honest with ourselves and no one gets hurt and for the so-called christian women on this site......are you foreal?? Dont answer that......Happy hunting folks
Bazzzz61
Fri Nov 16, 2007
I joined this site because of the name, it really described the relationship i was looking for. A friendship built on the pre-defined boundries the the term SD/SB implies. That however does not mean that I seek a relationship without a degree of warmth or companionship or compatability. A mutually enjoyable friendship without emotional baggage , the more cynical of you might suggest, but maybe that is not too far from reality. I fail to see why members looking for a long term/deep and loving relationship would be attracted to site named sugardaddies and all that the name implies however that might just prove that i'm one of the cynics after all!"!
KirRoyale
Fri Nov 16, 2007
I'm looking for an equal, and that means someone adventurous, successful, fun and willing to give life a shot, it's not about the money - it's an attitude to life. Thats why this site attracts slightly more ambitious alpha males, ambitious in work, expectations of women ,life , everything. I think half of the men on the site would be bored rigid if they had to seriously fulfil the stereotypical role of a sugar daddie! That's why this site is also attracting hardworking, strong, fun women, who are alpha females with a philosophy of not settling for second best!
Sweety77
Fri Nov 09, 2007
For sure, as we enter the new millennium, it’s a good opportunity to realize changes you need to make and adapt to a new century. This doesn’t just mean updating your computer, but yourself. I think, Sugardaddie/sugarbabe a New Millennium relationship and forming bonds based on TEMPORARY NEEDS. Show up, pay attention, tell the truth, and don’t be attached. That means either giving the relationship some breathing room or ending it- especially if their needs are not being met. A woman should not be desperate, but should love herself; expect to be treated well; and not settle for anything less than being respected, adored, and pursued. Turn off: man who thinks that he has some upper hand because he has MONEY. Sex is not about power, or about a guy owning you. Sex is about two people sharing their bodies and souls with each other, but maintaining their own integrity of self. Turn off: woman was only pretending to like you, or liked you because she thought a relationship with you could be beneficial. Doing good makes you feel good. Carry a sign of confidence, of comfort, of GOOD INTENT-and you will be remarkably alluring to the people around you. Happy hunting!
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