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sliver246340
Mon Sep 21, 2009
There seems to be some confusion on this site as to the definition of a Sugardaddy. Sugardaddy and Cougar are exactly the same term, except one is a man, and the other is a woman. Both date younger partners. Thats it! Thats the only difference. Now, where folks run into trouble on this site (and others) is when you try to attach a monetary component onto the Sugardaddy. There is none! Does anyone expect a Cougar to pick up the tab for her young, broke stud that shes seeing? Nope! So why attach a financial responsibility onto a Sugardaddy? We Sugardaddies give because we can, and because WE choose to......not because a sugarbaby demands it. Honestly, reading these absurdly selfish womens posts is annoying. Get over the money aspect and you have the truth. Live with it, people. And just in case youre wondering, Ive had 3 sugarbabies that I lavished attention on first, then money if it was necessary (and since every woman seems to be totally and completely broke these days, of course it was warranted!). BUT THAT WAS BECAUSE I CHOSE TO DO IT.
Romaiya
Mon Sep 21, 2009
Typically SD are stereotyped as mostly older men who want to spoil a younger attractive female who in turn does what they want and tends to the SD almost at his beck and call. My version of a SD is a sweet person who does well for himself financially, and other important aspects of his life. He can do more then the stereotype because he can spoil a SB's mind, soul and more so in turn the SB is more than willing to return the treatment. I consider myself to be a SB because I'm sweet, caring, indenpendant, appreciative, and can spoil the mind, soul and more Oh a SB like me is not out to use a SD or be used by one. Sugar should always be sweet xxxxxx
Apple-sweet
Sat Sep 19, 2009
I understand the true meaning of SD/SB relationship. I am sure SDs are here because they have money, but do you really want to be liked only for your money or for who you are? I am a new SB girl, who truly believes that no matter how rich you are, if I don’t like you for who you are, then I don’t want to be with you. So, I am looking for a man I would like for who he is and a man who like me for who I am.
lynne72
Wed Sep 16, 2009
The official definition of a sugar babe is woman who provides companionship and/or sexual relations for a wealthy, older man in exchange for expensive gifts and/or money. For me it is a lot more than that, because I have dated men who were not well off and some who were, and I realized that the relationships which lasted were with partners who were financially stable, and the reason being they were more open minded and more positive. They are usually goal oriented and in turn make you want to grow as well professionally and mentally. Being a sugar babe means that you are a person who is goal oriented, opened minded and desire the finer things in life.
IAmSublime
Wed Sep 09, 2009
I have been single most of my life. Married only for a short time. Dated a lot of men and have had many relationships. Many men of extreme wealth and several totally broke guys too. Money was not a factor in my choosing men, chemistry & compatibility were. The broke guys it never lasted long with. Not because of their finances, but they were dull, boring, insecure and had a lot more issues. I noticed that men who were wealthy & sucessful also were much more interesting, intelligent, witty, fun and sexy. MUCH more. Also noticed they treated me better too. Better manners, more gentlemanly. So, in my book they are superior all around. Maybe it sounds like I'm stereotyping, but I have a lot of female friends and we all agree. I feel I have too much going for me (my ex-boyfriends would agree)to waste my time on a site picking thru whatever signs up, when I can join a site that gets the "cream of the crop".
Lil-minx
Sun Sep 06, 2009
sugardaddie means to me a nice gentleme who canc are for me in many different ways but is there still to have fun :D
Tiff5
Sat Sep 05, 2009
Well it is what it is. It only matters to the two people that are having a relationship.I was here to find my love for a long term relationship,I can't sale my soul.But its not for me to judge.I have found my knight..
ScorpionDream
Thu Sep 03, 2009
I'm looking for an equal, and that means someone adventurous, successful, fun and willing to give life a shot, it's not about the money - it's an attitude to life. why this site is also attracting hardworking, strong, fun women, who are alpha females with a philosophy of not settling for second best!
Juzbcause
Wed Sep 02, 2009
A "Sugardaddie" in my thoughts is clearly defined to me as a man that wants to take care of me rather than needs to both physically and materially. Is that wrong to think? Not in my eye- I love dressing the part and living the fantasy and that doesn't come free.....so why not let my "Sugardaddie" dress me and be a part of my fantasy;-)
Boundless1
Wed Sep 02, 2009
At the time of this writing, I’ve been enjoying SD.com for about a month. During that time, I’ve been fortunate enough to get acquainted with a few of the most delightful ladies I’ve ever had the pleasure of meeting. Some are financially independent and others are in need of financial assistance. Some are a bit younger, but the majority of them are within shooting range of my age. Most are single, but a few are married. I’ve also received insights from one woman who has become a good friend that I will likely carry with me for a long time to come. Refreshingly, all have been honest enough to clearly state their current situations and expectations early in our discussions. It has been a good experience overall. As an “older” married man, I believe I have the wisdom and experience to realize that I have to limit my own expectations to some degree, keeping in mind that the ladies who are in search of the love of their lives or a hard-bodied stud aren’t going to select me as their ideal candidate. Conversely, I know enough to pass by the profiles that have no possibility of resulting in a successful connection. My point here is that anyone who uses this site as a connection tool should take the time to evaluate who they are, what they are looking-for, whether they can reasonably expect a desirable outcome with the person they would like to pursue, and above all be willing to be totally honest before they attempt to make contact with someone. SD.com can definitely provide anyone who follows these guidelines with an extremely positive result. It’s a great website and I hope it remains for a long time to come.
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