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FunForYou02 Mon Jun 02, 2008
| I think there are certain expectations on both parties.
I don't think however - and this is my own personal opinion - that a true sugar baby, should make requests or demands up front, such as, 'I want 500$ on the first date" or you need to pay me $1,000 up front if you want sex. There's a corner on the next street for that. I think that is distasteful. The sb/sd should be truley a class act when they are together. Should he CHOOSE to shower her with gifts, then that's his choice. I don't beleive a sugar baby should ever ask for money or gifts. I beleive what goes around comes around. When you're truley giving to him, it will come back to you. Now, ladies, are some total loosers out there? Of course. But that's why you need to get to know your sd. It's called a relationship - whether it stays at a level of companionship, or turns sexual, or perhaps becomes more.
Ladies, the men who do choose to shower us, they are investing something important to them. Don't get offended if they don't get back to you right away! It's like shopping for a fine wine, or that perfect diamond. If you want to find the nice ones, you have to be patient while they get to know you! While they figure out whether or not you're right for them. Notb be demanding! You will be sure to turn them off in a heart beat! Act like a lady, and you'll get treated like one! |
Palmier Fri May 23, 2008
| A sugadaddie like me wants high class relationships. My high class concept has much more sophistication than money, more adventure than those fixations on how it should develop, much trust that people are good and you should be good to them in return and, yes, intense sex encounters which we all look for and should be hosnest and admit to.
My sugarbabe is not after gifts and money. She is after genuine chemistry, she discovers my heart and my brain before she discovers the rest. She finds warmth in me and we go on learning together. As we learn everything else develops. |
Salliemay Fri May 23, 2008
| I have heard many different theories on what it is to be in a SD/SB relationship.
This is mine, First and foremost there has to be attraction between both people.
A SB should always be excited to see her SD, and keep his favorite beverage
on hand as well as what he likes to eat, and be prepared to cook it for him. She should make him feel like a King at all times. Rub his feet, wash his back and take care of him sexually. In return he helps her financially or buys her gifts and takes her on nice trips.
I believe that the old SD’s were usually married and sought out a younger woman to pick up where the wife left off. Now days a lot of the SD’s are just busy professionals that don’t seem to have the time to pursue a “traditional” relationship. It is much easier for them to find some one that is willing and wanting to provide them with the benefits of a relationship with out having to go threw the standard courtship. |
NothingIsTaboo Fri May 23, 2008
| It is my job as a SB to take care of whatever my SD needs. I feel a woman graced with such generosity should willingly show her appriciation. She should not have to be told, or asked to do this. It should come naturally to her. This ranges from always looking good for him, adapting easily to his chaotic schedule, being sensitive to his mood, making him smile, and giving him a drama free/stress free relationsip. I feel that a SB should never be bratty or catty. She is a reflection of the man that holds her on his arm. She should always have his best interests in mind... Be it her outward appearance, her interaction with others, knowing what is appropriate and when. A true SB should be capable of adapting to any situation when her suiter needs.
My idea of a true SD is a respectful man. I realize his busy schedule can make our time together chaotic or spontanious. Regardless of situation, he should communicate and have common courtesy. He should be proud to show off his Babe. A SD should naturally spoil his princess, never making her need to ask. This means not only an allowance and other random luxuries... but also flower delevieries for no reason. A random phone call 'just because'. He should guide her thru the finer things in life.
The most important thing is that both people are satisfied. That one person doesnt feel like theyre getting less than they are putting in themselves. |
lizaza Tue May 20, 2008
| I feel the sugar daddies concept has changed considerably It is e no longer older guy and the young babe being lavished with diamonds from Tiffany’s and shopping on Rodeo Drive In fact if you look at the statistics a lot of SD‘s are below the age of 50 ,changing the equation significantly.
I feel that a SD is much more then money he or she is a wealth of information. You have a web site of successful men and women that are willing to share their secrets of success, while having a great dinner or traveling the world. It’s there for taking for the most part there are those who will take the secret to their death but very few “I bet on that”.
I love this site, I ‘m an aspiring business owner and I have found a lot of support and guidance from SD’s on this site. I guess what I am saying is being older (not much and I don’t look it) I have found wealth comes in a lot of different forms, don’t get me wrong I love the role of a SB I loved to be spoiled I love shopping and I work my but off to compete with the young on this site, but I also keep my mind open and absorbed the teaching of those that have done it and have found success.. There are so many ways to be spoiled and knowledge is the key to every lock.
So I sum SD/SB relationships as this it’s a lot of give and take but the payoff for the SB will be greater if you listen and learn. |
Bastsheba333 Sun May 18, 2008
| I believe this sort of relationship suits our society in its present state. At the speed at which we travel now a relationship is a revolving door. This is so much more civilised and actually gives you a breather so that you can get off the merry go round and enjoy each other without
the weight of possesiveness and uncertainty. And its wonderful and fun to have a man treat you as a lady and be spoiled. An allowance is also so hassle free for all concerned. I enjoy this site and the men on it are true men, mature of mind and young of heart! |
6mil-man Fri May 16, 2008
| For me this site has been nothing short of fantastic!! I think that there is NOTHING wrong with an intelligent lady wanting to find a man of means. Other dating sites have left me cold and even a little jaded toward women..I've met with some really great women and had tons of fun on here.. However, for you ladies if you would narrow down what you're looking for it would make life lots easier for us older guys.. What I mean is if your young please state that you have no intentions of dating a man twice your age. At least for me the SD/SB thing does mean just that older guy with money who wants a vibrant, sexy, younger woman....The boundries of love and romance don't have age restraints. The heart does not know the difference between young and old it just wants to be in love..... Thank you... |
Tiggerann84 Tue May 13, 2008
| I believe the relationship between sugardaddie and sugar babe means that i give my time, friendship, and affection to the sugardaddie and in return i expect his time, friendship, affection and to be spoiled. This does include gifts and treats and if both parties are happy with this then why not?? |
Huntress73 Mon May 12, 2008
| To me personally, its two proffesional people, that build they careers together. Doesnt matter, if its plumber or a teacher. I believe that women must be educated and having a job.
Travel to different places together. And most important having respect for each other.
To be true friends and having great sex life!!!!!!!!!!!!lol)))))) |
bonny-lass Sat May 10, 2008
| I just love the old-fashioned word of "Sugardaddie". In fact not all "sugardaddies" are as sweet as their title implies. But, as an experienced "Lady of the World", with a great education and top-class upbringing there is nothing so wonderful as been a top-lady confidante, best friend, mistress, "wife" and business partner to some of the most elegant gentlemen in the world. I have always been treated with excellent respect, trust and support. In return they recieve the same from me. It is not always a matter of been spoilt, but giving the man a feeling of been someone special, loyal and been a very top companion. It´s all a matter of sharing and giving and not taking.
A lady of quality knows her place in society and that she is there for the moment. It is probably similar to that of the traditional Geisha Girl but with a more European touch. |
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