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Dennine36 Sat Dec 08, 2007	I may catch a lot of flack from this! But I must speak.. I see a lot of men on here saying I don't want a woman that is going out with me only for my pocket or I don't have to pay for sex or not interested in a business arrangement. If so why are here?? Why not be on the other date sites that have nothing to do with how much you make. A sugar daddy is a man that helps out with bills and allowances and gifts. And a sugar baby is a woman that is your companion/lover/friend for these benefits. Not saying nothing meaningful can't develop from these relationships,but let's be realistic on where we are. Not Match.com. I try my best to be upfront and honest when I actually get a man to look at my profile. I am real and not a game player and on this site and others like this one, so many people (Men&Women) play games! Why not be real about what you want and others will be real with you!
MixedEgypt Fri Dec 07, 2007	This topic is slightly frustrating ..... I mean seriously, the name of this site is self explanatory .... I definately don't see a problem with people seeking relationships and/or companionship or whatever it is that you are seeking ... But I think that in order to be honest with others you must first be honest with yourself .... and people can take that however they choose .... I personally think that if you are searching for love you are in the worng place... A sugarbaby may want to love and be loved but her/his ultimate goal is to be taken care of , and so if you are not a nuturer or a giver by nature you probably shouldn't be seeking a sugarbaby ....
FeuLiquide Fri Dec 07, 2007	Further Thoughts to Consider: I have been a member here for 1 week. During this time I have sent out 11 emails, got response from 2, and met 1 lovely lady. Out of 11 emails sent out, 9 of them were never even opened! These remain unopened by members that have been online numerous times over the past week; so from a Male perspective, what kind of message does this send? 1. It begs the question: Why are they even here? 2. If they cannot be considerate enough to even bother to read their emails, how considerate or respectful would they be of my time? 3. Although no woman wants a "player", are they themselves so pre-occupied with THEIR "playing" that they haven't even the time to read their own emails? I cannot think of one redeeming explanation for such behavior, so, although my judgement may be harsh, I would deem them unsuitable candidates for any type of arrangement, and will not bother responding in kind IF they should ever get around to opening their emails. We all have a basis by which we 'sift and sort', so herein is a clue on how I would do so. :)
JoanneCDG Thu Dec 06, 2007	Well for me it is so I can meet a man who is not scared of my life, job, success & children etc. I think to meet a man of a similar age with similar lifestyle would be amazing. I am tired of meeting men who are terrified of my lifesylte or think that I am materialistic when I am not. I work hard to give myself & children the finer things in life so why shouldn't I have them?!?!?!?
Janey26 Mon Dec 03, 2007	For me, it’s about attempting to find a different quality of man. My two serious relationships have both ended pretty similar, in the way that its now seems I was used for there financial security. Now I know that a lot of you would simply say silly girl why would you let it happen and the answer is simple, because I have old fashioned values and believed that putting everything I possibly could into making the relationship succeed was the only fair chance of it actually working without having the added stresses of money, well that’s what I believed at the time. Although at last tally the man who apparently loved more than anything has cost me just short of 30k in three years! I am under no false illusion that I will find my perfect match or husband on this site, although I am honest as in my profile that is what I would be looking for eventually. And who said it was impossible, most people go out to bars and night clubs get blind drunk and attempt to meet the man of there dreams now I think that that is more ludicrous than on here. I am just sick of being taken advantage of by certain types and believe that equal respect is the foundations for a successful relationship, and that’s respect in all areas!
Sweety77 Sun Dec 02, 2007	Sugar Daddies are most often married men who are not getting what they want-or think they want-at home. Keep in mind I am not condoning adultery. But I'm also not going to tell you that dating a rich MARRIED man is a thing of great evil and you will be cast down into the the abyss if you follow that path. As long as he truly treats you like a Princess, these sorts of arrangement can be good for both of you. If you are not interested in a traditional realtionship and don't mind the stigma of being a "kept woman", finding a Sugar Daddy may be for you. But when the chuck wagon ended you can found yourself desperate for money, unfulfilled, and lonely. It's just my thoughts and comments on the topic (not my life story): more about me and what I'm looking for in my profile. Good luck.
Brooket7 Sun Dec 02, 2007	I have read a lot of comments about if we are looking for a husband, this is not the place to look. Regardless of the name of this website, I may seem foolish in the eyes of a lot of you, however, I want to remain optimistic because I cannot speak for those like myself who are looking for their future mate on here. If I feel this way, surely there are men who feel this way too. I own a business and love my work and if I do meet Mr. Right who provides stabillity, I will not quit my work just because I don't have to work anymore. There is nothing wrong with having a quality guy to me, that to me means he is stable and not some looser guy who is lazy and won't work. If he is stable financially then most likely he is stable emotionally although you still need to be careful. There could be those guys who don't make an honest living who might be loosers on the inside. Those who want sex and to be lavised wont just find it on this website you can get that anywhere. Match.com is just as slutty if not more. Most Guys on there are looking for sex and not love too. It's every where.
FeuLiquide Sun Dec 02, 2007	This subject has been exhaustively discussed, and al I have to add to this comes from the male persepctive only. Inasmuch that we all uniquely have the right to define our relationships, I have a personal opinion about what a sugarbaby is NOT: 1. She is not some hapless waif, down on her luck, and seeking a relationship solely out of necessity to get her rent paid, or car fixed, or address some other problem in her life. A sugardaddy (it can be assumed) is a man of stature and has the stresses and responsbilities that are attendant with his affluence. He is not seeking to take on another's "problems", but rather, seeks a respite from his own stressful life. 2. She is not an embittered woman taking a path of Theoretical Acceptance coupled with Practical Resignation (i.e., "i have been so hurt by men in the past, what the heck, i might as well get something out of this"), or some such compelling drive. An injured soul will only cause themselves more injury this way. 3. She is not imbued with this grandiose sense of Entitlement. I cannot believe the number of profiles I have read that have the flavor of: "I deserve to be spoiled....etc". It begs the question: "Why"? lol A sugarbaby should be EQUAL in stature to the male counterpart. We may have different attributes to bring to the table, but each bring those qualities. THe man, by nature, might be deemed to be Provider and Protector, but the woman then has her role of being Nurturer and Caretaker. "Mutuality" implies reciprocity, a notion that seems to have escaped many so-called sugarbabies. :) Disclaimer: "I could be wrong" lol
Silentsymphony Thu Nov 29, 2007	Uh oh, please don't be offended. In the past I use to split 50/50, now I simply can't. It won't be forever.I was well off before the divorce-and I didn't do the SoCal thing, I just went my own way. I believe in my art: it's the real thing, and my ambitions are too. Whomever chooses to help me will benefit. I believe in mutually beneficial arrangements. And I am confident that in such circumstances true love and affection may develop, if both parties are willing and attraction is present. Whomever said money can't buy happiness is wrong. It can buy freedom, alleviate mundane headaches, and open a person's focus towards higher, nobler things in life. Besides, whomever said that money can't buy happiness didn't know where to buy a horse.LOL I do. :-) Personally I don't mind if a gentleman bases his success on his earnings: in that case it is my job to help him see where he has more to offer as a person.And to bring out those qualities. Part of the fun is in the discovery. My two cents. Pun Intended. Blessings.
FabulousForties Wed Nov 28, 2007	I have been a member here for only a couple of months now. I really enjoy reading the thoughts and comments in the forums. I have found this site to be very exciting compared to the others. I am very particular and so it is hard for me to meet quality men where I reside. Seems they are all full of themslves, hot air and egos. I don't have time for that nor games. I am a say what you mean, "mean" what you say professional female. I am enjoying my time here for the variety of men that are here, who are honest and let you know what they expect from the get go. Honestly is key! No one should be condemned or judged for speaking the truth. It may not be your truth, but that does not mean it doesn't work for someone else.

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