| POSTEDEBY:EEE | SUBJECT |
MeAsIAm Sun Jun 15, 2008
| As with diversity in people, there are varied 'opinions' about what constitutes the SD/SB relationship. I've not yet become involved with a SD... though have been on and off this site a few times. Which lead me to thinking about what I want from this site - and just what a SD/SB relationship is, in my humble opinion. "Friends with Benefits" - intimacy is a human need (and not solely a man's need), non-commitment to marriage is to be expected though not set in concrete, and he generally is a man of means, aware that she may not yet be so well-positioned. For me, I seek a companion who is educated, successful in business with much to teach me (teach me to fish, rather than feeding the fish to me), honest, mature, caring, and attractive ie he needs to at least take care of himself and be physically appealing. Perhaps I expect too much - and perhaps my old fashioned nature makes for too much whimsy. |
Lovelynurse30 Sun Jun 15, 2008
| I am brand new at this, but I think you should treat your SD with all the respect and affection that you can show them. I believe if you treat someone with the absolute respect and care. I am looking for that wonderful SD, so I can show him how a lady treats him. He would be treated like a king and always get all my attention. I am very loving and careing and I would love the opportunity to show a SD how I am in person and give him exactly what he wants. |
jyc25 Fri Jun 13, 2008
| I just was thinking to my self how this site has changed over the years for the better I might ad.The ladies seem to more up front on what they are seeking and seem to have gotten over that to be a SB seems like being a call girl.We men know there is a big difference.The craziest thing to me is when the ladies who come on here in skimpy outfit or a blouse cut down to there belly button and say they are not on here looking for sex.I read a piece in the forum when someone said the ladies should state what they are seeking a relationship on a SD/SB thing.The problem with that is most laddies have no idea what or why they are here.They say there is a better class of men or ladies here and they are correct.I will tell you from personal experiences show them the money and they will follow you anywhere.That is why the profile has almost no meaning the profile will say one thing and their pictures say something else.One thing we all must understand we all are seeking happiness and it comes in different forms and we should not hold it against the ladies if they no idea what they want.We all know why their are here MONEY and ladies most men on here are ok with that.Ladies be honest and do not be unrealistic and I promise you will love it here.One last thing ladies read the profile of the men and try to understand if one states I am looking for ladies in Florida Iowa or London England are to the best of my knowledge are not in Florida yet.I have been here for a long time now and have met a lot of nice people here and trust me this site works take advantage of this wonderful site. Jay |
EternalWhisper Tue Jun 10, 2008
| For me, it's never been about the money. It's about the drive. The passion a person has within themselves to build their life. Someone who is sucessful in dealing with loss as well as their gains. The material is just the bonus.
That is the "Sugar" in the Daddies and the Babes. How sweet it is! |
Shagadelic Sat Jun 07, 2008
| Obviously there are different opinions out there, hence it is necessary members clarify in their profiles if they are looking for an "opportunity" or for true "relation", because the two are not compatible. |
Stelbee Sat Jun 07, 2008
| Its very interesting that I am impressed with this website as the term SD/SB conjures up the old-fashioned belief one is simply out for what they can get whether it be moneywise or otherwise. I find this site to be the most honest and courteous with its replies and simplest to use. Other websites are not wrong, it is just that there are often profiles suggesting people are above human needs. |
ManDoll Sat Jun 07, 2008
| Just my point of view...but most woman like the idea of being treated like "a pretty woman" yet she doesn't want the game that comes with that reality. Most Men & Woman want that one special "Sugar" that taste yummie and is healthy for their chosen lifestyle. I personally prefer a man that can share his knowledge, success and passion with Me, be it in a conversation, on a plane, in bed or in a lil blue box. I like the surprise of gifts and I love it when a man shows Me I am worth more than the average girl... Sugar Daddy Sugar Baby deep down we want it to be sweet & sticky *wink |
Classysexyladi Thu Jun 05, 2008
| I had been in a SD/SB relationship for around 2 years and I have to admit that the first key to this kind of relationship is Honesty. You must be honest with the other person and yourself as to what is going on. No one says you can't care, and care deeply for that person or vice versa-but their are just certain expectations that come along with the relationship. I don't understand why this is such a taboo subject or looked down upon, since so many people are involved in one aspect or another in some kind of SB/SD relationship at one time in their life.
My problem is what happens when the other person becomes emotionally deeper into the relationship than you? How do you handle it? Or better yet, how do you end the relationship while remaining friends? |
DSWEET Thu Jun 05, 2008
| I believe a Sugar daddie, feels in the security to a sugar babe. He makes her feel alive and complete and spoiled, never fearing isolation. I believe the sugar babe, allows this man to feel wanted and intelligent and special. A lot of Thank You's and a lot of Your Welcomes. A friendship forever! |
Crstal2008 Mon Jun 02, 2008
| ITS JUST A WORD SUGERDADDIE SUGARMUMMY IF THE PERSON HAS WIT CHARM CARING CONSIDERATION WHETHER YOU MEET IN A BAR WHERE ITS LOUD MUSIC CAN,T HERE A WORD THEY ARE SAYING OR OVER YOUR COMPUTER WHERE YOU CAN GET TO KNOW SOMEONE QUITE WELL THEN TAKE IT FROM THERE IF EITHER PARTY WANTS TO GIVE A GIFT OR PAY FOR DINNER THEN SO WHAT EXAMPLE:YOUR WEALTHY YOU HAVE A NOT SO WEALTHY FRIEND WHO YOU WANT TO HELP OUT YOU DO SO WHAT IS THE PROBLEMXX |
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