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Gr8bigeyez Tue Dec 18, 2007	Honestly, answer all of the emails ladies. Lighten up. Tell the guy thanks for hotlisting me but you aren't what I'm looking for and best wishes. Being on this site... best case scenario is actually finding what you're looking for. Worst case scenario is you've put out good energy. Remember you get back what you put out... right? Sounds win win to me.
Sugrbab4u Mon Dec 17, 2007	Isn't the beauty of this site that people from many different walks of life can come together and meet each others needs? Hopefully find compatibility and chemistry? I have been on here a couple of times and each time am struck by the number of lonely people on here. I hesitate to use the word desperate because no one wants to consider themselves as such. Enough of my raving. I wish all the Sugars on here a wonderful holiday season. May you all find what you are truly looking for.
PerfectArmCandy Sun Dec 16, 2007	To the man that said his emails go unopened... speaking personally, if I read a man's profile and it is WAY off from what I am seeking (for example if they don't want a "golddigger" or if they just want a relationship without someone wanting them for their money)... I won't open it. Why open it if you know they aren't a match? I have had 2 sugardaddy relationships. The way they began was with mutual honesty concerning a monthly allowance, meeting/travel expectations, etc. I refuse to meet a man that says love must come first, because this site is simply not about LOVE... it's about timely arrangements. Out of my 2 relationships, love did happen in 1 of them. In the other it did not, but I still remain good friends with that gentleman and we respect each other. To me, I have to LIKE someone in order to have a successful arrangement with him, however... I also have to like the allowance and terms, so they need to be discussed before meeting, otherwise, why waste each other's time? Even if a man is wickedly gorgeous, if his net worth is lower than mine, why bother? Love by itself does not make a couple happy (been there, done that, didn't work out). They need other things to sustain them and enrich their lives. My annoyance with this site is men's sensitivity to the discussion of allowance. I think pride gets in the way of what could be great arrangements. Get over it... we as women know what you want... you want us because we are beautiful, sexy, charming, sensual, intelligent, etc... so why can't we want you for your wallet? It's unfair to expect more from us than from yourselves, gentlemen. Tit for Tat. If I was ugly, I know I wouldn't get the 20 emails per day that I get. I'm a realist.
2000man Sun Dec 16, 2007	This isn't a regulare dating site. I'm seeing more profiles and speaking to more women that don't get what the "spirit" of this site is.
Ordinaryangel Sun Dec 16, 2007	It's not all about the money that I joined a site like this. It is all about meeting like minds. I am successful and I like being around successful men. Men who have achieved a certain amount of success and financial stability are generally not intimidated by a woman who has taken pride in educating herself and achieving her goals. Bottom line is you have things in common...intelligence, self-esteem, and an appreciation of the finer things in life. Men are sex oriented, of course, but at least here, chances are higher of meeting a man who can appreciate a "burner with a brain". So, what's wrong with spoiling her if she knows how to spoil you in return?
Tracee38 Sat Dec 15, 2007	Wow there's a lot of diversity in the response to this topic, but how refreshing is it to air your thoughts on what appears to be a sensitive area? I agree with so many of the sugar babes on this forum. Being a babe does not mean you are purely out for the money, if that was the case, many of the sugar daddies who complain that their mails are not replied to would have plenty of opportunities in selection. Not only that there are many other sites where woman can go and advertise themselves if they really are just out for the cash!! We are women who for one reason or another are seeking security in the partner that they may be fortunate to find on this site. Although I am currently not looking for any commitment, I certainly am not ruling it out. I look at it in the same way that arranged marriages are formed, only I am doing the selecting, with the help of maybe one day my Mr right! Don't be cross when some women are being honest about seeking a man who is financially secure, nature has provided us with many worthwhile qualities that are priceless, look for those qualities instead and you may find your soul mate sooner than you think. Good luck to everyone I hope we all strike lucky and merry Christmas. x
Penelopy999 Fri Dec 14, 2007	Money - titles etc whether married, single - whatever - as long as you know within yourself that you treat that person the way you would like to be treated yourself then to me that's all that really matters and being happy - as happiness and contentment in your life is just priceless - and if you have this then you are the richest person ever whether you have money or not. I do not have or judge anyones comments on the site - as we are all our own people and whatever makes anyone happy the go with it. I see the site as a way to enhance my life with new friends opinions and maybe possibly meet that someone special - who knows but will remain optimistic.
Bazzzz61 Fri Dec 14, 2007	posting again on thos topic mainly because i've read some very interesting and relevant views. I do subscribe to the SD/SB literal interpretation however I do believe that women in particular are attracted to success and successful man without necessarily the need or desire for any 'arrangement' and i'm sure that some would even perhaps be insulted by the suggestion. In reading some of the responses and views from ladies it might be stating the obvious but it would appear that men are not similarly attracted but intimidated? any thoughts?? Bruce
Femmeregal Tue Dec 11, 2007	Hmm, interesting subject and just to add my thoughts if I may be so bold... Firstly when I joined this site a few days ago I considered that the 'sugar daddy' element was a little tongue in cheek, and I was quite honestly intrigued. Now I am a fairly worldly person and I would beg the question that if the by-product of this was to create a platform for a trade of money for obvious 'returns', then why? There are very clear and effective routes for this kind of 'arrangement', without the need for writing profiles and selling character attributes..(subscription fees), which people do on here. Sex is very easily bought there is no mystery there and in many ways its an honest enough arrangement with clear rules. There may be a venue for a level of covert or overt activities of this nature, but I would argue, or at least hope that many people have another agenda. I for one will admit to being economically challenged :-) But, I would not a) insult myself or someone else's intelligence by compromising my own set of standards simply to buy into a better lifestyle, that is not to make judgement on anyone who does, its a trade of priorities.. BUT, it would be wrong to assume that everyone is working on this level. I joined this site because I am looking for someone special, Its the difference on a 'virtual' level between travelling by coach or by air, if I possibly can get the cocktail of attraction, potential love, intelligence, etc then yes, I would like that package. Ahh the idiosyncrasies within the human condition...Aspiring for a better lifestyle does not mean that I / we (some of us) want to sit on our backsides twiddling botox brochures.. we / I / some have standards that we need / want / demand to maintain in the name of self pride and sanity.
LovelyLovely1 Tue Dec 11, 2007	Well......the other day I met a guy on here. We had a long talk about his views of some people he has met on the site. Finally, I asked him to explain to me what a sugar daddie is. He said, "A sugar daddie is a man (usually wealthy) that can no longer attract women because of his age and so he pays for a woman to show him a attention. The woman is usually with him only because of his money." I guess it makes sense to me.That's when I realized that I am not looking for a sugar daddie. I want to be attracted to the man that I am with. Spending money on me is GREAT but the money will not motivate me to spend quality time with him. I need to really enjoy his essence.

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