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Sugadaddy Mon Jan 14, 2008	wow. I think some Sugarbabes are not understanding the idea and that you have to be giving as well of yourself . I dont think anyone likes a selfish person , im finding more often that women are only concerned how they are going to benefit financially . When i see profiles of SB's saying "spoil me" , "no sex " and " i dont have time" its seems like most are just looking for a free hand out . Ive also been asked for a exact dollar amount im willing to give monthly to a SB .Is this EBAY , are we now bidding for a SB ? Also if i was just wanting friendship only why would i want to be a SD ? A SD wants to be spoiled too !
ABeautifulMind3 Mon Jan 14, 2008	Every opinion is valid as we are all entitled to search for what we believe to be right for us as an individual. Personally, I have been surprised. I came onto the site because I am attracted to the CHARACTER traits that I was hoping the men might possess. Anything else would be a bonus but certainly not a prerequisite. There is a general lack of courtesy though. To not reply to an email is rude. I read that as a common complaint from the men but I experience that too, often enough to make me consider giving up. That's to do with common courtesy not gender. I took the sugar daddy/ sugar babe thing to be an all encompassing tongue-in-cheek title that would encourage a whole array of different personalities. Keep smiling....I hope you all find what you personally desire :0)
Freespirit77 Sun Jan 13, 2008	Well, we all know what a traditional Sugar Daddy/Sugar Babe relationship is, but this site is evolving into a dating agency for long term, genuine relationships too. And why not? As long as people are honest and state their expectations from the start then no harm done. It's a great site to meet classy, educated and affluent people. Has anyone criticising the motives of people wanting serious long term relationships ever studied other dating agency sites?? Oh my God, you wouldn't want to be going there! So this site, for the time being is for me too.
Bazzzz61 Sun Jan 13, 2008	Must agree with some of the last few comments and I must admit that as a guy on this site its getting very confusing. I've had and am having a couple of very very good friendships from this site, realistic and as I mentioned very enjoyable relationships because I state quite simply that I seek a STRICTLY sugar daddie relationship, so I'm up front however very few ladies state the same aim, so i'm never sure what they seek!! I've met a total of 3 ladies from this site, as I said two perfect and dare I say honest sd/sb relationships. I tend to shy away from 'not strictly' because of one bad experience of a lady who was obviously looking for a love affair, hearts and flowers, leave her hubby. Of course if shes not happy then go for it, but I find it confusing why she would look for those things on a site called SUGARDADDIE.COM. It might just be me but lets be honest, its usually the first casualty of contact sites anyway, but surely a touch of realism has got to be there!! Bruce x
Nomad-Traveler Sat Jan 12, 2008	Perhaps the thing that bothers me most about the traditional SB/SD relationship is the aspect of choice. Many of us want to share time with people who feel the same way about that time. However, when a woman requires money or other considerations external to the relationship in order to choose to spend time with a man, then the choice is colored. Sometimes the consideration offered to induce the choice is not money, but the prospect of marriage. Either way, the woman is receiving something apart from the time spent together. The compensation can ultimately reach the level of an offer that cannot be refused. If the man has the magnitude of money to compel the woman to spend time with him, there always has to be the question if she is simply doing it as her "job" and not something she enjoys. And I have no doubt that some guys actually want and need the SD/SB thing, since they like the SD role and control. But if you care to read the profiles of some of the ladies, you will find a few who are financially secure, and are here for something else. They are often looking for someone to enjoy time with who is not calling the shots, like a traditional SD, nor seeking their SO/Soul-mate. They are looking for an equal person to enjoy time and common interests. Now the man should obviously pay the expenses - we are not talking about a sugarmommie thing - but they should both freely choose to share the time because it is enjoyable, not because of the consideration they take away. I have found a few ladies of this character, and knowing that they see the time itself as the reward, and not a means to additional revenues, makes all the difference.
Jack4952 Fri Jan 11, 2008	Why are almost all American women FAT ??? First, I TOTALLY AGREE about the definition of SD/SB relationship being about a mutually beneficial exchange. It is a LOT of work for a woman to look truly beautiful: exercise, diet, hair, make-up, nice attire. If a man wishes to pay for the company of such women, then let the "free market" decide! Forget this "inner beauty" crap!! Of course, personality counts for a LOT !! But if a woman (or man!!) MAKES THE DECISION to weigh 250 pounds and dress like a sewer-worker. then don't expect someone of the opposite sex to be attracted to you!! So, STOP WHINING !!!! Now, as to my question. If you travel to Europe (especially Eastern Europe!!), you will see that MOST women are thin/slender. If 5'6" tall, about 110 pounds is about right. Plus they always dress very well, are not afraid to look sexy, and know make-up and hair styles as well as most professional models here!! So, what is the deal with AMERICAN women?????? Just curious!
SexxiFantasy Fri Jan 11, 2008	OMG! I am overwhelmed with the posts and the range of thinking. I completely agree that this site is fairly specific in what it is about. I am not sure why I get so much grief about what I want and believe me, I can articulate that very well. JUST READ MY PROFILE. If you don't find it alluring or we have different desires.... PASS ME BY! I am intelligent, beautiful, not afraid to communicate my needs, have an excellent sense of humor and am educated. If you want a date or a wife or just sexual satisfaction, get real! I wouldn't be attracted to you if you were not wealthy, attractive, interesting and generous and you definately wouldn't be interested in me if I were ignorant, unattractive and boring. If you can't afford to drive and maintain a Bently...don't shop for one. Welcome to the real world. You may not like it and it may not be fair but it is what it is. It's frustrating to just want to have an excellent mutually beneficial time without the drama. Life's too short. If I met every guy who wanted to meet me for dinner, it would be a 24/7 thing (and NO, I don't think I am all that BUT!!!! I know my worth) Just the same as if the men on here gave every girl who wanted money at the first meeting....you'd all be broke. Is there no happy medium?
PerfectArmCandy Thu Jan 10, 2008	This site is becoming thoroughly saturated, or should I say POLLUTED with people that have no understanding of what a sugar daddy is. We have people on here discussing this as though it is a normal relationship of love/marriage, and "oh let's discount outer beauty", etc. Now, you know better than that! We all love to see the beautiful people. You cannot say that we should put away our shallow (human) instincts and disregard or discount beauty. Women that work to make themselves attractive for the viewing pleasure of others SHOULD be rewarded! It's a lot of work! This is a site that is built around two things: beauty and money. Men want to be with a beautiful woman, and women want to be with a rich man that is going to GENEROUSLY take care of her. I personally LOVE the benefits of my beauty...SO... Get on with it folks.
Onetomeet Tue Jan 08, 2008	I will have to agree with Lovely and Nicole. This is still a sugardaddie site. If we do happen to fall in love -- perfect. Right now lets fall into a mutually beneficial relationship.When all cards are on the table in a respectful way,from what I have heard and experienced both parties get WAY MORE than they were expecting.I was with my ex-boyfriend(who I found by definition was a sugardaddie)through illness, temporarily frozen assets, and even a move to Switzerland.We were both clear from the beginning.Doesn't everyone appreciate honesty?
Nikole2007 Sun Jan 06, 2008	Hi Everyone, I understand what PerfectArmCandy says below...and I see what a lot of us girls are expressing in our profiles: we all hope to fall in love(love is amazing)...but let us first establish an arrangement that benefits all parties- so no one is confused...let's not forget the beauty of this site.... xox

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