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PerfectArmCandy
Thu Jan 24, 2008
Why is it now that everyone is disregarding the actual NAME of the site? It is SUGARDADDIE! It is not normalguywithjob or lookingforlove or middleagedwomanmustmarry! It is SUGARDADDIE! It also implies a mutually beneficial aspect (yes, ladies, I am talking to you!), so please, respect the name of the site, and stop compromising the integrity of it by posting these ridiculous average profiles.
Freespirit1005
Thu Jan 24, 2008
i have read with interest others comments on this site, I came on it by accident, and thought it looked a little more interesting than other sites I had been on, and I too have met some real idiots, and am still at loss at how many haven;t got jobs and are looking for a woman to pay, they think they are doing us a favour by just being there. I am independant financially and not in need of a sugardaddie in the orginal sense of the word but I am looking for is some with integrity, honesty, succesfull is an added bonus and someone who doesn;t mind picking up the bill occasionally. Many of us have enjoyed a good standard standard of life and just because we are now single doesn't mean we have to lower our standards or at the other end of the scale use others to get what what we want regardless. What happened to respect a word that seems to have been lost in the greedy 90'S. I don't give up hope I beleive that there is someone for everyone but remember what you give out you get back, good or bad.
Cynfulgoddess
Thu Jan 24, 2008
Why beat around the bush? I signed up for this site because it is Sugardaddie.com. To me a Sugar Daddy is a man who wants to spoil, pamper, and provide for his woman financially. I personally don’t see anything wrong with that. There are a lot of dating sites…I was surprised at some of the posts on here! I know what I want, am refreshingly honest and straight forward about it, and hope for the same in return. I don’t see anything wrong with a woman wanting to know what kind of gifts and provisions her man is willing to offer. I don’t know about other women but for me anything goes. I am looking for a mutually satisfying relationship. I’m not afraid to be discreet and I’m not apologizing for what I want.
Schmedler
Wed Jan 23, 2008
i don't need or want a sugar daddy, i am just sick of the bums that wanna sit on the couch all day when i am at work! the name of the site would imply that most of the men here have a job! that's a start :o) ohhhhhh i haven't seen a whole lot of men advertising "only" either, bruce. i think the concept is ok if that's what u really want but i think what most people really want is a more "real" relationship, hard to not think that "the one" might really be out there...
Bazzzz61
Sun Jan 20, 2008
I've been reading a few of the comments posted since my last post and it does seem to be becoming obvious that maybe the site is evolving from a purely SD/SB contact site, as implied by Freespirit and reading others her thoughts seems fairly valid and accurate and maybe thats the issue, if indeed it is an issue, for there is no doubt that (in my mind anyway) that a strong thread of purely SD/SB relationships runs through the site, despite the number of 'non limited to Sd/sb' profiles we see, if you checked out some of the ladies pictures you will see what sort of area they are targeting, however as Freespirit and A beautiful mind have commented on, there is also a growing number of ladies seeking more or a more 'normal' relationship (for want of a better description!)maybe evolving from a SD initial attraction or right from the start, and why not!!! Its just can be a wee bit confusing for us mere men!!(well this one!!) Bruce x
SteelHorseRider
Fri Jan 18, 2008
It amazes me how one is so quick to judge another. Yes, sugardaddie in the traditional sense is a negative word in my book. I read in someone else's comments about the other dating sites and how bad they were, this is so true. I have been on several and at least this one has some class. Not everyone on this site has class either, have met some doozies, but to each his own. As long as two people agree between themselves what is acceptable, then that is for no one else to judge. It also amazes me how many women will pose practically nude in their pics to get attention. The young, naive ones that don't even know yet what being a woman is about and have no idea what it really means to keep your body in shape, let alone get it back into shape after 40 or 50 years and bearing children, battling cancer and abusive marriages. I think in todays world, most people are looking for love, someone to grow old with, someone to make you laugh, someone to have coffee with and watch the sun rise, someone to cry with, someone to say I love you unconditionally. Yes, there are those exceptions where it's all about sex, lies and cheating. Maybe someone should start a site called just that...sexliescheating.com Hhhmmm, there's a thought.
Steph0965
Fri Jan 18, 2008
I didn't get on this website because I see dollar signs. I see the men on this website as mature and having their lives figured out for the most part. I think with some of the careers the people on this website have, they deserve to be spoiled too, they deserve to be treated like royalty, they work hard for what they have. IF they choose to share that with someone from this site, that's their choice. I won't ever ask someone for money, I'm on this site to find someone level headed who knows what he wants. I think, personally, it's more about being spoiled emotionally instead of with material things. Material things don't matter, the little things do. A "Sugardaddie" is someone who is generous, not just financially, but emotionally as well. That's how I think of it.
Pateddybear
Thu Jan 17, 2008
I agree with several of the previous postings about the nature of this site. I have been a member for months and am a true sugardaddie looking for my Sugar Babe. I am amazed at the number of postings of women who take offense to men who are on this site for that reason. I respect a person's ad, but don't be offended when you have married sugardaddie's posting and responding to certain ad's that may be vague. If you want a pure "dating site" there are plenty out there. My other comment concerns the women who are offended by a man paying them a compliment in a kind and respectful manner. I just received a nasty, rude, immature reply from a woman in California. I had seen her ad and even though she was not for me, I sent her a nice response with a compliment of her beauty and wishing her much luck and success in her search. Her reply to me about wasting her time was rude and ignorant. Are we not allowed to write two sentences to compliment someone?
Vayda
Wed Jan 16, 2008
Everyone has a differnt idea, me personally, I think sd/sb relationship is where we both fulfill eachothers needs. Dont get me wrong there are differnt ideas, some women on here are use to the lifestyle and just want to find a wealty man to share this life with, and thats all fine to me. Then there are the men who want a girl they can take around and show off, thats cool to. thats why its important to find out eachothers goals first before meeting. Hopefully everyone finds what their looking for!
InChicagoMn
Tue Jan 15, 2008
I am very impressed with this site and the fact that there are a lot of quality women members. I am more interested in a real relationship that a staight Sugardabbie one and have found many women who are looking for the same thing. On the other hand, I have met some really high quality women looking for a true Sugardaddie relationship and it has opened me up to the possibility. My only wish is that you would be more direct in what you're looking for and what relationshis you're open too. I think we can cut to the chase much faster that way......Bob
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