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Hotmommy24 Fri Aug 29, 2008	Everyone on this site has such differant expectations, I think people should be upfront about what they are looking for instead of exchanging endless emails and playing little games to figure out what the other expects from meeting someone from this site. I think a SD is a benificiary but also someone who is a friend, a mentor and a lover who wants to enrich the life for someone he cares about and who cares about him. A SB is someone who isn't just looking for someone to pay the bills, jumps from guy to guy and expects lavish expensive presents. She should be a woman who appreciates the help her man gives to her and spoils him with affection and attention and mutually cares for him too. I think this site is being geared more twords a regular dating site which defeats the purpose of people looking to meet traditional SD/SB's, cause dating is a part of being with one another anyways, but it's also more then that. I can go out and meet people to date, but I am here cause I am tired of dating guys who are not stable and bring nothing into a relationship except for problems. This is a place where women have a chance to meet a man who genuinly want to take care of thier woman and guys have a chance to meet a woman who should show him why she deserves him in her life caring for her financially, mentally and physically.
Abeutiful1 Mon Aug 04, 2008	I think a sugardaddie is be a man that by his own choice want or would like to share his time,thoughts,heart,outtings or whatever with a suitable lady. Sugardaddies are more than just money they are great listeners, fun to be around, good to great lovers, like the finer things life has to offer, strong confident man with means who deserves a real lady that can and will respect and appreciate his needs because of who he is not what he have.
im2cute21 Sun Aug 03, 2008	hmm I had stopped using this site for about a year or so as I had found what I was looking for..for awhile. Now I'm back. Alot seems to have changed and the website is migrating more towards regular dating as well as SD/SB relationships. Nothing is wrong with that, though it brings in a wider variety of people who may want way different things then when the site first started. I have met some cool people from here. I can say SD.com worked for Me once and I'm sure it will work for Me again :)
Seefa Tue Jul 22, 2008	SUGAR AND SPICE AND ALL THINGS NICE....I ADORE THIS SITE.....I JOINED RECENTLY NOT TO MEET RICH MEN BUT TO MEET INTELLIGENT, SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE WHO ARE SURE OF WHAT THEY WANT...I HAVE NOT BEEN DISAPPOINTED.....MEN ON HERE GENERALLY DONT TALK ABOUT COSY NIGHTS IN BY LOG FIRES.......THEY TALK ABOUT THINGS THAT REALLY MATTER TO THEM....AND THAT IS WHAT ATTRACTED ME TO SIGN UP....I HAVE CHOSEN TO DATE ONE PERSON WHO WAS CHARISMATIC, GENUINE AND BEAUTIFUL IN EVERY SENSE OF THE WORD......THE SUGAR SIDE OF THINGS IS TONGUE IN CHEEK NOT TO BE TAKEN TOO SERIOUSLY.....AND GOLD DIGGERS CAN BE SEEN A MILE OFF....
Dwightlan Sat Jul 19, 2008	I want to throw in a thought or two about those women who have said in their profiles or elsewhere that they "deserve" the expensive spoiling they are seeking from the men on this site These women believe they are entitled to have these expensive treats, that whatever they've experienced places them in a category of richly deserving. You've seen the profiles; so many of them say "I deserve it." I've got to tell you guys that when it comes to getting the goods from your SD OR SB, NO ONE deserves it. There isn't any such thing as "deserve." When you meet your SD, sitting back and saying I deserve it will (and should) get you a very quick goodbye; he'll pay the dinner bill if you're lucky. I have money. Did I just deserve it? Nope. Did I deserve it because I had hard luck? Nope. Did I deserve it because of an accident of genetics I was good-looking? Nope. I had to EARN it. I had to go out and show the people that gave it to me that they ought to make me rich by reason of what I was doing for them. To deserve means you are entitled. Entitlement means that because of something you've done or some status you have in the eyes of the giver, you're owed a reward by the rules of the relationship. You know, I'd love to have a few dozen bikini fitness models throwing themselves at me. Just because I have money, does that mean I deserve it? Or, if I say I deserve it enough times in my profile, should I then sit back and expect to get in a centerfold orgy? You don't deserve something just by taking the space next to a man. These men expect to spoil you, yes. They want to give you attention and lots of fun. But the lunch, and all those other things, aren't free. My question to the 'deserving' ladies who have contacted me is, what have YOU done for ME to deserve it?
Tomster247 Tue Jul 15, 2008	I can only comment on what the whole SD/SB relationship means 2 me I'm not a University graduate but I‘ve successfully built/run several companies & written 4 books I've met a couple of ladies looking 2 get married right away Slow down, it wasn't long ago that I & other men I am sure left the woman who mothered our children I’m not against remarriage just not 2morrow I've also met a few younger ladies that feel they can pretend 2 like me in exchange for $$$ spending sprees They are the ones who are quick 2 say "Let's go shopping 2morrow" Come on now I got 2 where I’m in business because I knew how 2 negotiate & read people If I just wanted 2 exchange sex for money I would be getting hookers instead of cruising a web site but that is NOT what I want I want someone I like someone who is understanding & I want 2 shower them with the attention they deserve I want respect & I want 2 give it but when a lil girl thinks that she can work me over 4 expensive gifts without being a true girlfriend (being there for you when you need - not just sex, but being a friend, a companion, a confidant) I find THAT a little disrespectful. In surfing, you need 1) have the courage 2 ride the wave 2) get on the wave & 3) ride the wave If the wave is traveling E & you want to go W, you are SOL If you fight the wave you sink You must go forward more than 2 the side I'm looking for someone who wants 2 ride the wave not fight it, someone to enjoy the experience & the fun that comes with it. Wanting me to marry before I am ready, is like trying to stand on your board before it is time, the ride ends quick Wanting me pick seashells while I am breaking a wave, I will hit my head on the reef & no one wins But if we go where the wave takes us, we have a great ride & can do it again & again
Chelebelle76 Mon Jul 14, 2008	I joined this site NOT because I was looking for a wealthy patriarch to provide for my every materialistic whim. I joined because I was disappointed with the "quality" of men I was meeting on other more "traditional" websites. In other words, if I want to fly to Las Vegas for the weekend, I am not seeking a guy who will pay for me to do so, but a guy who at the very LEAST can pay his own way should I get "bit by the travel bug" on a moment's notice. It would also be nice to have a date with a guy who is capable of putting forth a little thought/effort into planning a nice day/evening. (I'm not sure I could stomach one more "par for the course" dinner at a mediocre steak chain followed by watered down drinks at a crowded sports bar.) I consider myself attractive, intelligent, successful, ambitious and FUN. (Maybe that's just MY opinion! LOL!) But, I have been surprised that even though I have met a handful of men who meet my qualifications on paper, they seem to come with either deep-rooted emotional insecurities or they make a hobby out of torturing waitresses at five star restaurants. On this site I am hoping to find a NICE balance of educated and sophisticated, but also down-to-earth and FUN! So far I have yet to meet anyone in person...which is probably due to my geographic location in the heartland of mid-America, but I still have the occasional fantasy involving Prince Charming riding up on his white horse or landing his helicopter in my front lawn. Ha!
Commet Sun Jul 13, 2008	I agree with those who say there is a real verity of individuals all seeking something different. I like that there is a level of honesty that allows all to see what is exactly the expectation. I like many have had a range of contacts all very nice and interesting men (have only been on this site for about a week or two so impressed so far). Some have wanted a companion and nothing more others are after a sole mate. Both apeal to me. I like being taken care of and treated like a lady, I was raised to expect men to act like gentlmen and pay for the lady but then I am capable of taking care of myself. I am educated and work and I like meeting men who are not afraid of a woman with an education, but also accepts that I may be educated but I am still from the old fashioned values that a man should take care of a woman no matter what the relationship and in return the woman should treat a man as he deserves.
Angellett Sun Jul 13, 2008	I've not been on site very long and have yet to meet that genine match, but i think this is the way to future dating, a little something for everyone but i think most important a genuine attraction between parties involved regardless of financial assistance if you find love then its a great bonus, which brings me to where is my mr right. xx
Molybdenum Sat Jul 12, 2008	As a mature older gent I have been a Sugardaddy for several years already. Yes I have had intense relationships with very intelligent women. My "Sugardaddiness" has been financial; but probably in the biggest part in supporting, encouraging and helping my friends achieve what they want. Having had corporate, entrepenurial and self-work I have has quite a broad range of experience. I have lived in other countries; this allows me to more fully support my preferred Sugarbabe! My biggest desire might be to help anywoman from 21 through to 50 achieve something that perhaps they could not otherwise do without a "sugardaddy". For me, my partner deserves my support; emotionaly, intelligently, physically and financially. I am proud to be a Sugardaddy and hope that I can meet a fascinating person. I know that there are other models of thought on this site; perhaps I am an extreme sugar daddy! Bon chance a tous!

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