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Preacherman Tue Jan 29, 2008	I came upon this site and wondered aloud...Just who would really use this site? So I signed up out of curiousity and to be honest, I am surprised! Yes there are the expected young ladies looking to sell themselves (call it what ever you want..you are selling), but I found out there are a lot of secure (financially and emotionally) women in search of secure men and both of these kinds seem to have gravitated to this site. This may be one of the internet's best kept secrets. I noticed the ladies looking for real sugardaddies are venting their frustrations in this forum, but truth be told...we all paid a subscription to be on here and we can all choose what we want. let's look at our situation... beautiful woman offering nothing but physical attributes vs beautiful woman with accomplishments of her own plus a willingness to explore the possibility of a real relationship? The total woman can call me daddy anytime. And I won't hate on the other woman cause there is someone who may prefer her.
Draya00 Tue Jan 29, 2008	I came on this site because I'm not meeting many quality guys in real life. I want someone who is interested in the same things I am and has the means to lead a nice, comfortable life. I'm young (22), working, and full-time student so I plan on being successful myself. In the past, I've always been more of the provider in the relationship, which was exhausting. To me, this site mostly implied that these men can take care of themselves which is very attractive. I'm excited to see what possibilities SD.com brings!
Ilovepresen7 Mon Jan 28, 2008	I'm completely perplexed as to why people on this site get offended when a woman states "Strictly Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby Relationship". As mentioned MANY times in this post - this IS Sugardaddie.com - HELLO! If you're looking for "deep and meaningful" then you should probably take your search to another site that caters to that and stop bashing those of us who seek something else.
Rarefind Mon Jan 28, 2008	chemistry is still important .. be it a sugar daddie or a relationship. I want to be attracted to the man I am spending time with and not justhis wallet.. to have a man touch you.. for your body to honestly respond. their has to be some basis of attraction..I see nothing wrong with wanting to enjoy the relationship for what it is and for the person is..
Gotobat1 Mon Jan 28, 2008	I was asked by a person I met on this site to comment on what I wanted to get out of sugardaddie.com. I too have been on several dating sites and they were not very rewarding. This site seems to attract a more classy and financially secure person looking for love. Since, I am also financially secure and a mainstream business person, I am seeking a mature woman who is interested in meeting a great man and beginning a relationship no matter if it has to start out as a SB situation. As users of this site, one must remember it is called "sugardaddie.com", not "love matches.com" Those of us who have used the alternative sites are finding success here because the name of this site implies financially secure people can be found here. One reason I came here is for a SB relationship to start, then if things progress I would be happy to forge a long term commitment. My last comment is for the women who will not consider responding to any male on this site, unless they have a picture in their profile. If we seem to click, then we will be gald to send you a picture. Remember, what the name of the site is called. I think the person who I met would agree, you don't know what your missing...
Jannel Mon Jan 28, 2008	Tinman.....Kudos, Well said! I couldn't have wrote that better myself. Each to their own. People can be so judgmental, but why? Go about your business on here and don't mind anyone else's. Here's hoping everyone on here walks away finding exactly what they're looking for. Or, at the very least some new friends :-)
Tinman Mon Jan 28, 2008	I've been a member of this site for quite some time, and I have been witness to the many changes that have been going on with this site. One of the biggest changes being that many members are coming here looking for a more meaningful and longterm type of relationship. These newer members looking for this still want the man to be successful financially and the woman to be above average in looks. Otherwise, why come to this site. Is there anything wrong with this? No there isn't. Is there anything wrong with anyone wanting a strictly sugardaddy/babe relationship? No there isn't, that's one of the reasons why the site was built originally. The main purpose of this site, is so that no one has to hide or feel judged about what they are looking for. Regardless of the relationship, sugardddy or longterm, everyone chose this particular site because of the successful men and attractive women. The worst thing anyone can do, is judege why someone else is here. No one is better than anyone else because they are looking for a "more meaningful" relationship or superior because they can be in "beneficial" relationship. Read a person's profile carefully before contacting someone. Sometimes, people will contact someone without reading their profile or contact someone even though they may not be right for them. Regardless of this, respect why a person is here, whether it is long term or not and remember that no one is better than anyone else because of the reasons that they are here or why they believe the site was made. The bottom line is, we all came to this site to meet a higher grade of person, whatever our particular needs are.
Dotcalamitie Sun Jan 27, 2008	I find this site the best by far of the "rich guy" sites. On the mainstream sites, I don't attract any beautiful women...yet in real life, I am surrounded by them. However, I need more than beauty...I require intelligence too. I'm sure as heck not looking for a gold digger or a SD type relationship...and the reality is most of the girls I'm meeting here aren't either. Whereas I pay the way in the relationship - the old fashioned way - the girls I have been seeing online are buying me presents, not the other way around. Paying for the hotel bills, the $800 dinners and entertainment are my job. I do prefer a woman who pays her own airfare. A broke woman seeking a SD just doesn't work for me. I'm looking for love, not arm candy. I haven't had a meaningful relationship from an online meeting yet and still do better in the real world. I think most women here are seeking love with a successful man more than anything else. One of the nice things about being almost 50 is that a beautiful woman without the intangible trimmings doesn't do anything for me. I'm looking for someone who is also accomplished...and extraordinarily beautiful. I recognize the frustration of the gold diggers finding men of modest means on here...I know a few on here...maybe SD can raise their prices - I know I would pay more because they really do deliver the beautiful women...a primary filter for me...and I can then focus on the chemistry.
TekNik Sun Jan 27, 2008	OMG... I totally agree with PERFECTARMCANDY about the integrity of this site..these guys and girls are turning it into so type of love match dating site where everyone is seeking a life partner.. This is definitely not why I am a paying member call me a golddigger if you want but this is sugardaddy.com not I want to be your girlfriend.com..If I was looking for love I would not be on this site so all of you women that are not interested in in a guy with deep pockets taking care of you because you require it be in your company please leave this site immediately..
Allegriaa Sun Jan 27, 2008	Some members are pretty miopic of thier own interests and intepretations of the site. While I am not in "need" of a benefactor, I still have room in my passport and jewelrey box for being spoiled. I think most women wish their man to be a SD in one form or another, I think we all want to be a princess to someone. The difference between what could be considered average and strict interpretation of a SD I guess depends upon where you are starting from and the personal integrity you maintain. I think while some SD's may be looking for "candy" others may be looking for more... why should we deprive?

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