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Sugar86
Fri Nov 14, 2008
I think a sugar daddy is a man who still holds traditional values, who doesn't believe in 50/50 or living off his woman. The idea of his woman picking up the dinner tab should make him cringe... and he wants to buy nice things for his woman simply because it makes her happy. Sounds pretty plain and simple, but there aren't too many men out there with these ideals...
SuperiorDesign
Fri Nov 14, 2008
I think this prompt is taking on particular importance as this site now encompasses such a diverse array of people and interests. For me, a solid "sugardaddy/sugarbaby" relationship, involves mutual respect. I think its easy for women to get upset because they've been objectified based on looks, or for men to be upset that they've been mistaken for a "walking wallet"--both sides rightfully so. So a meaningful sugardaddy relationship will not define itself in terms of a monetary sense, or a physical sense. Defining relationships, people, experiences, etc in purely materialistic exchanges can have dangerous consequences for those on both sides of the exchange. karma, mutual love and respect make the world go round :)
Eudemonic
Tue Nov 04, 2008
The connotation of "sugar daddy or sugar mommy" once meant that a person wanted to be "taken care of", meaning they were gold diggers looking to live off of someone else. As the social norms continually change, for me the connotation is null and void. I chose to check this site out in part because it seemed to not be the meat market, hash and thrash, jump into bed with every Tom, Dick, and Harry. I hold my own in life on the level to which I desire. I simply want to see if there really are the quality of people I want in my life here.
StillLookinFla
Sun Nov 02, 2008
---PART ONE--- I've been a member of this site for some time now and have watched it evolve and expand from a site that catered strictly to a sugar daddy relationship. It seems the site now conains people who are looking for a sugar daddy relationship and others that are looking for a higher quality person, whether this is in the looks department or someone that is financially stable or much better off. Either way, people are coming here looking for someone that can give them something that was lacking in their every day life. Myself, I am a married man. Does that mean I am looking to pay for discreet sexual encounters? No, it may simply mean I am looking for companionship. Someone that makes me smile, laugh or takes my mind away from the everyday problems I have in my world. Sex, may or may not be a part of this relationship.
StillLookinFla
Sun Nov 02, 2008
My role? I am a man of experience and knowledge, a man of financial means. Does this mean I pay for your time spent with me? No, I care for you and honestly like who you are and will help you with your bills when you are having difficulties, buy you a gift from time to time to put a smile on your face because it makes me smile too, not because it is or expected of me, but because I care and want to help. We are both there to help and care for eachother in our own special ways. We both know that this relationship is filling the voids and needs of eachother and may never lead to more. But, we do have our own private relationship that is special to the both of us. A lot of women come to this site looking for a better quality man. That is fine, but ladies, please keep in mind that you are coming to a sugar daddy site to find that better quality man, so don't be insulted when you find someone like myself that is married. Respect my reasons for being here as I will respect yours. After all, that is the point of the site.
JustJudyRyan
Tue Sep 23, 2008
Life is way too short everyone, just relax! The sole purpose on this lonely planet is to find love, to love and to be loved. Frankly, the best people I have ever met were from this site. I am a business woman, a professional, and a mom so I dont have alot of time to waiste on a man that doesnt have his act together. In todays society I feel men are looking for the same. Good Luck in your search. Judy x
jazzypbp
Sun Sep 21, 2008
I have read these postings with great interest...glad to see that I am not the only above AVERAGE WOMAN OUT THERE THAT HAS JOINED THIS SITE IN THE HOPES THAT i MIGHT MEET A MAN WHO HAS EARNED THE RIGHT TO HAVE A SUBSTANTAIL LIFE . hE IS INTELLIGENT, OUTGOING,A GREAT NEGOTIATOR, A COMMUNICATOR AND HAS RESPECT FOR THE FEMALE GENDER. mOST OF THE SITES THAT i HAVE TRIED HAVE LEFT ME WITH THE NOTION THAT MOST OF THE AVAILABLE MEN NEVER GOT THEIR EDUCATION, NEVER LEARNED THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE, STILL EXIST UNDER THE RIDICULOUS NOTION THAT WOMEN SHOULD STAY HOME, CLEAN THE TRAILER, RAISE THE YOUNGUNS AND COOK UNTIL THEY ARE BLISTERED.i WAS MARRIED TO A GREAT GUY FOR A LONG TIME...MY BAR IS SET HIGH....BUT NOT SO HIGH THAT i WANT A WEALTHY JERK WHO THINKS HIS MONEY CAN BUY HIM ARROGANCE. dO YOU THINK THAT IT IS A PIPE DREAM OF WOMEN LIKE ME TO FIND THEMSELVES ALONE AT A TIME WHEN LIFE SHOULD BE EASY AND FULFILLED? i THINK THAT THIS SITE IS THE CLOSEST THING TO POSSIBILITIES THAT i, PERSONALLY HAVE FOUND.ALL MOST OF US REALLY WANT IS TO BE HAPPY, TO BE CONTENT AND TO BE LOVED.
Ezontheeye
Thu Sep 11, 2008
I JOINED THIS SITE TO FIND A MAN THAT HAS TIME TO SPEND WITH ME. I'M A HOPELESS ROMANTIC AND I LOVE TO BE SPOILED, I LIKE CONFIDENT MEN , THAT ARE STABLE AND DON'T WORRY ABOUT MONEY. THE LAST WORDS I WANT TO HERE IS I CANT FOCUS ON BEING A PART OF YOUR LIFE WHEN MINES IS A WRECK. I'M A MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER AND WORK IN THE NON PROFIT SECTOR I DO OKAY FOR MY SELF, AND I'M TIRED OF MEN THAT DON'T! I DONT HAVE TO SETTLE FOR LESS WHEN I'M IN CONTROL.
Rracerb98
Thu Sep 04, 2008
a sugardaddy or babe is just like everyone else, we all just want to find someone we adore, someone to share our lives with, and that we can afford to enjoy the beauty of the world before we die. some of us can, some of us can't. it's not about money; it's about freedom. and it's about love. he who dares, wins. rb.
YourLilMama
Wed Sep 03, 2008
I think that a SD or SB should be someone who is able to be there just as a companion. I don't need or want someone to hold my hand while I cross the street, just be there on the other side. I am able to pay for what it is I desire, so I don't need an open wallet. Everything is a give and take. I have every expectation of treating my partner with respect and affection regardless of who is picking up the tab and expect the same in return.
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