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Hmaitenance
Tue Mar 04, 2008
Hi erm... just want to say erm.. NEWSFLASH.. us ladies do know what you want, you are men! It is how you go about getting it that will work for you. A number of younger guys have contacted me and i think there are on the wrong site (or maybe its just me) I believe a sugardaddie to be wise, which comes with age. They do not throw tantrums, sulk or play one-up manship games. They are caring and are aware of what a girl needs in all areas of life. There are some wonderful men on this sight and one day you younger guys maybe lucky enough to be like them x
Seraphine2345
Sun Mar 02, 2008
I agree to disagree with some of the statements. It's difficult to really define what a term is, when it's apparent that it's not a term that can be defined as anything other than what that individual wants it to mean. If someone was to randomly ask me what I thought a SD/SB was, I'd say someone that has money and wants to share it with someone of their interests. I have had relationships with typcial SD's, and I find that usually they aren't what I thought they were, and I didn't enjoy the gifts. I may not have a lot of money, but I love to spend the time with people - and money really, althought is nice, has nothing to do with the relationships draw for me. :)
Tonijoi
Sun Mar 02, 2008
Hi, I'm Tonijoi from Illinois. I can only speak on my views pertaining to being a sugarbabe. I am a independent woman who has a lot of pride. It is hard for me ask anyone for help when I need it. Thats what attracted me to this site. I figured I can meet a guy that is not only intelligent but able to wine and dine me on occasions and financially contribute sometimes. Once I looked more into this site, I've grown to have a greater repect for SD/SB. I like AtticusFinch views. It was good to see a man's honest view as a sugardaddie.
Tammy86
Sat Mar 01, 2008
I have found that this website is very elegantly done. Despite the fact that income is a factor, people here tend to be more honest and straight forward as they have got nothing to lose. This is all fairly new to me and I have only been a member for a week but I have found it very satisfactory, and more rewarding than meeting guys in the usual mundane spots. I love having conversations with people and getting to kow them, especially if we share the same thoughts. If people are honest enough in what they both want then there shouldn't be a problem, regarding no-one gets hurt! x
SolitudeSolace
Sat Mar 01, 2008
I joined because I find it hard, being only 21, to find any male even near my age who can have an intelligent conversation about life, politics, philosophy, etc...I respect and enjoy successful hard-working males. It seems like a trend on this site is older man looking for younger woman and vice versa. I date men who are generally ten years older than I am. I'm not here to have someone spoil me rotten. However, having some money seems to be the only way to fulfill some of life's dreams with travelling, and in my case, a strong desire to work non-profit. So, yes, I am here in the hopes of possibily making a connection with someone who shares the same passions as me in making ours and others dreams come true. Also, this site just seems to hold everything to a higher standard, and that is wonderful.
Bambina08
Tue Feb 26, 2008
I totally agree with babar69, the sugardaddy/sugarbabe relationship will be a successful one as long as both individuals agree to the terms, it's beneficial for both and both partners are in the same page, it shouldn't be interpreted as a business transaction. Just my opinion.
Bigblue222
Tue Feb 26, 2008
I'm finding this to be a site that is mixed with girls that either want a successful husband or those that are looking for a traditional SD/SB relationship. To avoid crawling into the wrong bucket, I've taken to asking the question. No one has failed to respond and are fairly straight forward. Best group of intelligent women I've seen on any site. One item that is interesting is the typical height of the ladies. Lots over 5'8" and many 5'10". any comments from others about that? I'm about 6'1" so with heels on we'd end up face to face which is fine with me, but wondered how others see this item.
jyc25
Mon Feb 25, 2008
I always read the Forum to find out what people of this great site have to say.I sometime wonder and do not always agree about what they say but that what makes the site so great.I am a charter member here and the one thing that never changes here is what the ladies say in their profile or the way there are dressed it really means nothing.You see a lady who top is down to her belly button and states she is not here just for sex understandable.Then again you read the profile and she sounds like Mother Teresa and then you find out down the road all she wants is what most men on here are seeking is a SD/SB relationship.We are all different not all perfect but all looking for some kind of love.One thing that I will never understand however is when a LADY COMES ON SD.COM LOOKING FOR MARRIAGE and is insulted when a man on here is looking for what I am seeking a ongoing sexual relationship.It seems we can tolerate them but they have no use for us.I often wonder how many have found true love here.I do not mean for a night or weekend.lol forever.I will be interested to find out. Jay
Babar69
Sat Feb 23, 2008
Well I've been a sugardaddy to someone for several years on my own- that means buying her gifts, be it clothes, jewelry, perfume, etc., and paying for things that she can't on her own. She is my confidant, my close friend, but not my lover. Since she is already in a relationship, we do not have sex, much as I'd like to. She also cannot travel with me because of a dependent. So I joined to find someone who can be more reciprocal. The point is, a true sugardaddy gifts because he enjoys doing so and the lady is a sugarbabe because she is thrilled to receive. My definition of a sugardaddy involves relationship and not exploitation by either party. Escort services are readily available to men who want quid pro quo, control, domination. And ladies, sex is indeed a powerful attraction to men but it is a fleeting one unless it involves some sort of emotional bond, so my eyes glaze over when that is the principle offering from the sugarbabe. Just my 2 cents.
Caprissa
Fri Feb 22, 2008
Theres no bs. Ive never done internet dating prior, and this is defineetly the site for me. Im yet to meet that special guy. Heres hoping x
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