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Porius Wed Apr 30, 2008	Ive read a few posts here and feel some people are missing the point.This objectively is a classy dating site, where people with half a brain can perhaps meet and make something happen together. Sure, sex is important but it an't the be all and end all! From my perpective as an older member of the site I'd like to say that interesting, attractive women in their 40's or thereabouts are hard to meet, particularly those who may just fit into my lifestyle and have the inclination to undertake a perilous journey. Life and relationships are like that! I'm currently single, financially cosy for the time I expect to have left (maybe 40 or 50, more if I manage to quit smoking!)yet I'm not overworked anymore and just want to share some travels with someone likeminded and the inbetween times. OK, so I love Bordeaux, champagne, good restaurants etc and yes, good sex, but I also want a caring individual who's just there when I might need her for something incredibly trivial! Possessions are nothing and let's face it, we can't take 'em with us. A great lifestyle is worth working hard for and equally worth sharing with someone you care for and cares for you. That's the woman I'm looking for here.
JustCrystal Tue Apr 29, 2008	For me, a sugardaddie-sugarbabe relationship is about mutual benefit, not business. I give what I have to offer, which is time, compassion, and affection. In return, I expect to receive what he has to offer, affection, gifts, and friendship. If the relationship works well and both sides are happy, I dont see anything wrong with an allowance, but I wouldnt demand one.
TasteLikeCandy Sat Apr 26, 2008	There has to be a mutual understanding because if you don't there will be a lack in communication. Personal opinion, there has to be a big age gap. "Sugar DADDY/ Sugar BABY". The sugar in this term alludes to the sweetening role of the gifts, and daddy to the age difference between the pair. Money, gifts, weekend getaways, and love are exchanged for erotic favors, companion, and happiness. They start as friends, eventually feelings take place. Sometimes the relationship can be discreet and sometimes there is no secret to their relationship. Another personal opinion, a REAL sugar babe is very LOYAL. She is involved with only one Sugar Daddy. She is a Sugar Babe not a prostitute. Having some life experience to share is a big turn on, as well. Girls like a man who can show them the ropes and teach them things that they might not have discovered on their own, particularly the finer things in life.
Miathediva Fri Apr 25, 2008	Ok my thoughts on this question is a Sugardaddie is someone who wants to be with a beautiful woman who can cater to him and have on his arm when he is free and want to excape the rest from his everyday life. Usually he is wealthy, successful, older and enjoy the company of a younger and beautiful woman. It should be an even trade. He should take care of her she should not want for anything. She should have an allowance, be bought little gifts
BlondieLikesPin Tue Apr 22, 2008	I think a SB is someone who is tired of the bar scene, and wants something substantial in order to build the foundation to a great relationship. A SB can be someone who is honest, trustworthy, fun, not into the whole casual sex atmosphere, and a person who is not afraid to put themself out there. Online dating sites can be a bit scary, but I think if you open yourself up to the idea that there really are great people out there looking for people just like you, it can make it all worthwhile. Just be sure to keep yourself in check, and not let negative comments from negative people stop you from finding the person you are meant to be with.
MissLucyFurr Mon Apr 21, 2008	What is a sd/sb relationship? I really do not know. Having read the forum, the general idea of a rich man treating a lady well seems to be widely excepted. But then, I wonder, really wonder, when it comes to searching for a more conventional relationship, is it possible to find one in such an environment? I respect that for the more mature woman, who is established already, perhaps, yes it is possible. But as a 22 year old university graduate who is still building a career and in the process of establishing one's self it feels somewhat like being on the back foot. I find it most interesting how status seems to dictate the way in which one is viewed, perhaps these are my own preconceptions, i do not know. But What i would be interested in finding out is if the younger women on this site are taken less seriously, perhaps veiwed as "Babies" rather than "babes" or are they one and they same? Are there catagories and sub catagories of sugarbabes? lol
Sexxyblbaby4u Sat Apr 19, 2008	I had a sugar daddy before and it was awesome.( he got married and moved away after 6years) My definition is usually a guy older than me that is real successful. Or a married successful guy. Its pretty simple. An on-going relationship between a girl and a guy where the guys helps you out and gives you things you can't provide yourself. Meaning, things that I could never provide myself. I love having a sugar daddy. He is the best! It is awesome bcuz I can go to him anytime and he can come to me anytime. I understand he is busy and/or has a wife and family. Its good to be him. He pays the cost to be the boss! xoxo
Palmier Fri Apr 18, 2008	I read many comments on forum that are condescending and simply highly narcissistic and selfish. They are mostly from men but women at times look selfishly for a respoonse to their own needs leaving little to imagine about the give and take. For me, this site is a chance at finding more sophistication (some of it comes with higher levels of education, some of it comes from being somewhat older and more mature, etc.) Other sites have rarely offered this level in my view.
Sweet-tea83 Thu Apr 17, 2008	I believe the SD/SB relationship is something special between a daddie and babie. The daddie is rich, powerful, overworked, very busy, sometimes in a very unhappy marriage and in need of some much well needed attention from a beautiful babie that turns heads and makes him very proud to have her on his arm and in his bed.. He could also not be married, but still working so many hours that he doesn't have time to go out in search for his babie. He can get on this site and its an open buffet. We can find exactly what we want. He then can relax and stop stressing so much and let his babie take care of him in the way that he desires and needs. They both do spoil each other with lots of attention, affection, and a special friendship and maybe even marriage. Although I don't believe that to many are looking for anything that serious on line but just maybe a few. To me the definition of Sugardaddie/babie relationship is this. An older gentlemen that has money and not much time who wants and desires a very sexy, beautiful playmate to share special time with, travel companion, drama free, who both will get what they want out of the relationship with usually a NSA relationship.
sugadaddy Sun Apr 13, 2008	Id like to say what a SD/SB relationship "IS NOT" . Its not Ebay were you go with the highest bidder , its not a second "JOB" , its not Welfare "something for nothing" , its not "Rent a FRIEND". and its definitely not "Pay for Play" . I strongly believe everything starts with HONESTY and FRIENDSHIP. So what ever your intentions are on here ,just be honest and upfront , it saves time . Ive had 2 long term arrangements from this site over the past 4yrs , the ones that worked started with Honesty. The ones that didnt , well it never went anywhere,lol.

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