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Summer1979 Thu Jun 19, 2008
| Although the type of people on this site are the kind I am looking to be involved with, educated, affluential, proud and successful- I am not looking for someone who has lots of money with whom I hold no attraction to. I am looking for much more than just a SD.. I would ideally like an addition to my already comfortable life. To be able to enjoy and share with a man the finer things I already enjoy.
I think there are still some things in life which are more important than money; morals,dignity,loyalty,respect,pride and much more.
I know there will be men and women on here who are just looking for someone to financially support them and I am sure some are ok with that. However, I was taught by my father to stand on my own two feet and it would take someone with good money to keep me accustomed to the life I am familiar with - if I am to chose a partner to share my life with.
I am fairly picky aswell as I would expect or hope any SD to be. |
Silverdawn Thu Jun 19, 2008
| Although I would enjoy the benefits that money can bring to a relationship. It is extremely important to have a connection albeit friendship or whatever. If the person is say obnoxious then money doesn't mean a thing. If your lucky to have the money and the connection then you have something good to start with. |
Softeyes4you Wed Jun 18, 2008
| There are so many interpretations of SD/SB but this box is to place mine so therefore, here's my post. It's honorable. A man should by all counts when he's chosen a certain lady feel an honor of respect and pride to possess the power, the intellect, the mentoring and the financial status to have that chosen lady you have asked to be your guest in your presence at that moment to wine, dine, gift- endow or sky's the limit, then it is to a woman to adulate, take in, absorb and feel dazzled with delight that such a wonder time and wonderful man is gracing her table that evening. Being a woman is a wonderful thing. |
Minorchord Mon Jun 16, 2008
| For one I love making a woman smile.. be it with a word, a gift or something else:)
Its all about a respectful, mutually beneficial relationship that suits the particulars of two people, and when you think of all the various combinations of people on here, that is a huge universe of particulars.
Good luck to all of you.. I hope yopu find something that works for you! |
MeAsIAm Sun Jun 15, 2008
| As with diversity in people, there are varied 'opinions' about what constitutes the SD/SB relationship. I've not yet become involved with a SD... though have been on and off this site a few times. Which lead me to thinking about what I want from this site - and just what a SD/SB relationship is, in my humble opinion. "Friends with Benefits" - intimacy is a human need (and not solely a man's need), non-commitment to marriage is to be expected though not set in concrete, and he generally is a man of means, aware that she may not yet be so well-positioned. For me, I seek a companion who is educated, successful in business with much to teach me (teach me to fish, rather than feeding the fish to me), honest, mature, caring, and attractive ie he needs to at least take care of himself and be physically appealing. Perhaps I expect too much - and perhaps my old fashioned nature makes for too much whimsy. |
Lovelynurse30 Sun Jun 15, 2008
| I am brand new at this, but I think you should treat your SD with all the respect and affection that you can show them. I believe if you treat someone with the absolute respect and care. I am looking for that wonderful SD, so I can show him how a lady treats him. He would be treated like a king and always get all my attention. I am very loving and careing and I would love the opportunity to show a SD how I am in person and give him exactly what he wants. |
jyc25 Fri Jun 13, 2008
| I just was thinking to my self how this site has changed over the years for the better I might ad.The ladies seem to more up front on what they are seeking and seem to have gotten over that to be a SB seems like being a call girl.We men know there is a big difference.The craziest thing to me is when the ladies who come on here in skimpy outfit or a blouse cut down to there belly button and say they are not on here looking for sex.I read a piece in the forum when someone said the ladies should state what they are seeking a relationship on a SD/SB thing.The problem with that is most laddies have no idea what or why they are here.They say there is a better class of men or ladies here and they are correct.I will tell you from personal experiences show them the money and they will follow you anywhere.That is why the profile has almost no meaning the profile will say one thing and their pictures say something else.One thing we all must understand we all are seeking happiness and it comes in different forms and we should not hold it against the ladies if they no idea what they want.We all know why their are here MONEY and ladies most men on here are ok with that.Ladies be honest and do not be unrealistic and I promise you will love it here.One last thing ladies read the profile of the men and try to understand if one states I am looking for ladies in Florida Iowa or London England are to the best of my knowledge are not in Florida yet.I have been here for a long time now and have met a lot of nice people here and trust me this site works take advantage of this wonderful site. Jay |
EternalWhisper Tue Jun 10, 2008
| For me, it's never been about the money. It's about the drive. The passion a person has within themselves to build their life. Someone who is sucessful in dealing with loss as well as their gains. The material is just the bonus.
That is the "Sugar" in the Daddies and the Babes. How sweet it is! |
Shagadelic Sat Jun 07, 2008
| Obviously there are different opinions out there, hence it is necessary members clarify in their profiles if they are looking for an "opportunity" or for true "relation", because the two are not compatible. |
Stelbee Sat Jun 07, 2008
| Its very interesting that I am impressed with this website as the term SD/SB conjures up the old-fashioned belief one is simply out for what they can get whether it be moneywise or otherwise. I find this site to be the most honest and courteous with its replies and simplest to use. Other websites are not wrong, it is just that there are often profiles suggesting people are above human needs. |
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