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RockyMtnLove Wed Jun 10, 2009	In this new era of women, we've become more and more independent and self-sufficient. For a little while it was looked down upon for a woman to try to appear to "wear the pants" in the family, or to prove she didn't need a man in her life to support her or throw her over his shoulder and save the day, with whatever that may specifically entail. Some women go out of their way to prove they can stand on their own two feet, and provide for themselves and then some. That's all good and dandy, but the twist is, is that now, men are becoming attracted to this quality in women, and even expecting it. I definitely do not think a woman should REQUIRE a man in her life to make sure she lives sufficiently. HOWEVER, I am a bit of an old fashioned gal, and the difference to me is that I get tired of cheap men expecting me to fork out cash for them just to PROVE I am doing well for myself, or that I am a big girl. Or perhaps to make them feel they have a push over for a girlfriend, and they won't always be expected to pay for dinner. I'm sorry but I don't agree with this. There is a shortage of Gentlemen out there. It's one thing when you're in a solid relationship and perhaps married, but when we are dating, or semi-committed, unless we have joint bank accounts, I think it's cheap to expect a woman to pay for your meal from time to time, for the same reason it would be scuzzy to expect a woman to open a door for you. It's one thing if the woman insists on paying, because she wants to. That's different. But to assume that from time to you'll get a free meal, courtesy of your lovely girlfriend.... you are CHEAP. I'm tired of these cheap men. It's not that I want a wealthy man or sugar daddie, but perhaps someone with enough money and class to KNOW BETTER. I hope this makes some sense.
Cocoe10 Tue Jun 09, 2009	well i think alot of people miss understand the word sugar daddy this should be someone that makes sure you a very well taken care of good company for you to be around someone you can share ur thought and experiences with.
Barbinna Sun Jun 07, 2009	I just thought it would be really wonderful to spend time with a gentleman who can afford to do all the things I enjoy. Travel and fun. If I am going to date, why would I choose stingy and broke? Besides, ordinary guys act the fool around me. I inadvertently bring out their worst insecurities. I need a man with confidence! Someone who feels like he has a lot to offer.
Jpriss82 Sat Jun 06, 2009	These days everyone is so busy processing their futures/careers and no one has enoughtime to meet someone that matches what they looking for in a person. They are stuck to meeting others in clubs and bars... and who wants to do that all of the time? This site is a place alows others to meet in a place where they normally wouldn't.
Mingon1 Tue Jun 02, 2009	Well I think maybe I should be on eharmony because I have my own BMW that I pay for and I live in Burbank ,but my reason for being here is that I wanted a man who could atleast pay for dinner I'm not a gold digger just wanted a man who could hold his own.But I must say I have read a lot of profile's were the gentleman says he doe's not want to be a atm I can understand that but maybe you should be on eHarmony as well. Hey this is just my view go figure.
Serenitty Tue Jun 02, 2009	I am not looking for a Sugar Daddie...I am sweet as it is, sweet and independent. I just want somebody to rock me every now and then. Who am I kidding...course I am looking for a Sugar Daddie, just like the rest of women on this site... even this is an advert for it. I am not greedy...I dont want a lot. Besides, greed goes against my spirituality mentality. I just want to meet someone who's successful. Someone who'll spoil me every once in a while. Someone whom I could learn something from. In exchange for that, I'll love them as best as I can and be good to them. I work full-time and am also attending night school furthering my studies to see if I can change my career. If I am lucky to get job at the end of my studies, I just might find myself in a job where I am meeting the right people and wont need Sugar Daddie to help me find such a person. For now Sugar Daddie it seems is the quickest route.
Masternlover Mon Jun 01, 2009	First I was seeking a nice girl to help out in life,send to college,buy her a new car,new clothes,give her a nice place to live and take her on nice trips,have fun and more. Now I am seeking a girl for a girlfriend,lover and maybe wife. I hope to meet that special girl soon. Mike-
LynseyLouLou Fri May 29, 2009	However I have since realised that it is not all about that and there are some genuine guys on here looking for relationships not just to use a younger girl... anyway I'll shut up now lol
LynseyLouLou Fri May 29, 2009	My original idea of what this sugardaddie/sugarbabe site was that I thought it would be rich mature men looking for a hot looking girl to spend their time with and to treat well... Yes well let me tell you after meeting the young immature guys I have met who don't have the first clue about how to treat us ladies I thought well why not meet someone more mature who can treat me properly...
Discreet1 Wed May 27, 2009	I disagree with you, Sliver246340. Like another person mentioned. Don't associate the word 'Sugar babe' nor assume, that a sugar babe is a gold digger or one who is 'desperately' seeking your money, and thus she'll do 'anything' for you. Don't undermine nor underestimate the intelligence of woman, nor her drive to succeed in life without the help of a man. With that said, if your a man looking for a 'girl' then your going to get the young mentality & immaturity that comes with young age. And, perhaps then. Yes you might find yourself with a gold digger with lots of baggage. Men have a need as do women. Men seek something from women, that far surpasses that veiled perception of what we 'think' is all that a man wants. There are underlying needs, that men seek and crave of woman. That helps them be a better man. (please don't take that the wrong way). I'm (not) saying women make men better men. There are however, things about a woman that enables her to care for, appreciate, adore and love a man. That w/o a woman. Men, would have an never ending ache within them. And that just as well can be said for women, when it comes to men. (good men) that is. There's far more to being a SD/SB that far surpasses the $ aspect of it.

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