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Wickedgypsy
Fri Jun 19, 2009
Hey and Hi Life has enough negative we cant control so here is my spin on the positive.......I love life but i have my own, so i don't want a happily ever after in someone else's after thoughts. i am a happy well adjusted woman and I am looking for a man who is discreet and quietly secure. I just want a man who can hold his own in a conversation and in bed. I am ok with him being married or not it makes no difference to me I just want the time i get to be honest and filled with something other then his wifes woes.
HoneyHepburn
Thu Jun 18, 2009
I think that in this type of relationship, honesty and clarity is extremely important. I feel like there plenty of potential hookups on here for everyone, but personally I get frustrated when I receive emails that are laden with grammatical errors and sexual advances. To me, being a sugar baby means being a good companion to whomever you are with but I personally am not the type of sugar baby who leaps into bed with someone without foreplay (as in meaningful conversations, and compatibility that transcends caveman sensibility). I think sugar daddies should be classy, and know how to treat a woman with respect. He should be able to help a female out financially and sugar babies should not use men just for their money. That's just my opinion, and I'm really hoping I find someone through this site!
Xphaciax
Thu Jun 18, 2009
I have never been the gold digging type. I came to this site simply because I am fed up with broke cheap men. I am 30 and I've noticed a lot of men my age have became spoiled. What happened to most of the men in our generation? There's more women to every man, so "decent" women are starting to get desperate enough to pay all the bills while the man sits at home. I do not want to meet another man with those expectations.
Ruiguniang
Thu Jun 18, 2009
I am a ferm believer that men who spend money on women don't necessarily love them, however men who spend women's money surely do not love them. So the choice is easy :).
1954-Model
Thu Jun 18, 2009
Every once in a while I check back on this forum to see what's going on. And every once in a while I consequently wonder whether I'm on the wrong site. Like just about everyone here, I am also looking for love and someone I can daydream about when we are apart. But what I'd like to know, particularly from the gals, is whether I'm wrong to see how a relationship develops before I jump all over myself to spoil someone. If I was in a relationship like I describe in my profile, there's no limit to what I'd do to show my gal that she's loved. Does this mean spoiling with 'stuff?' Sometimes, but what it really means is spoiling with ME. To be there when she needs support, to listen when we talk together, to hold each other and to care for each other. Does it mean I'll rub her feet at the end of a long day? You betcha. Full body massages? You betcha. Send flowers for no reason? You betcha. But before I start all that, I want to make sure that the relationship will last and that love truely abounds. I'm not going to "buy" a relationship, or love; but I will INVEST in it - with me, my time, and my resources. What I have is too valuable to give to just hand it over to someone who doesn't really value it.
Plaything22
Thu Jun 18, 2009
I came to this site because I'm tired of meeting men who really don't care; No ambition, no drive, no passion. Ive always been the caretaker in relationships. The sugar mama if you will. I'm a pleaser by nature but I've come to the point in my life where I need something for me. I came looking for a man with ambition and drive and passion. Definitely passion...lol. Someone who isn't intimidated by intelligence and doesn't have to be told how to dress. I like the finer things in life but I don't go overboard. I prefer live theater to movies, that sort of thing. Oh I don't expect to be "lavished" with gifts and such, but its nice to have that option. The gentleman in question may get "lavished" before I do, but I'd like the choice.
Niceguy1966
Tue Jun 16, 2009
For all the 40 yr old (and up!) women complaining about not getting sugardaddies, or wondering why they keep getting negative reactions from their contacts or why the guys just don't "get it": To put it bluntly, someone who is looking to simply invest money and get a return of 'affection' isn't looking to get it from an older woman. There may be exceptions, but that is the rule. Your best bet by FAR is to look for a real relationship, and those CAN be found. Getting by on your looks and your body is a young woman's game. By the time you're 40, you should know that.
Positivetrainer
Mon Jun 15, 2009
I came to this website because I was interested in meeting like minded men who are successful and desire the best in life. I also enjoy attention as much as anyone and was hoping to meet someone that was willing to give attention as well as receive, that would be a sugardaddie to me.
SensualElegance
Fri Jun 12, 2009
If I receive another "too bad" message on this site, I give up! Too bad, what, that I'm looking for a Sugar Daddy and not a relationship on a site called SugarDaddie.com? Dorothy, weren't not in Kansas and this isn't eHarmony. Let's face it, I live in Vegas AKA 'Sin City' and most men come for fun, not to seek a marriage partner. I've been celibate for 9 months, so obviously I prefer Quality NOT Quantity. Several gentlemen from this site have written and asked me why I'm looking for a Sugar Daddy (duh, do they not notice the name of the site) and if I'm a "professional." Not wanting to give out too much personal info on my profile, I've decided to tell it like it is. I was a single multi millionaire two years ago, and lost everything I own in a bad business venture. So, I am making lemonade out of lemons. My motto is now: This Is Not A Dress Rehearsal, Make Every Moment Count. In today's bad economic times, like many, I'm struggling to survive. Realistically, until I recover financially, I decided this was way too much baggage to bring into a long term relationship such as seeking a marriage partner. So, I decided to see where this new journey as a Sugar Babe, takes me. Please excuse my candor, but hopefully my note answers any questions you may have about me, and why I'm on this site looking for a mutually beneficial relationship and not a LTR or a husband. I pray every night for answers and a positive change and direction in my life and I know if I keep the faith, great things will come to me. But please, don't judge me for my choices in life...I answer only to God, and no one else. So, you can take your judgemental "too bad" messages and think about this...Judge Not Lest Ye Be Judged & Let He Who Is Without Sin Cast The First Stone. Robbin xoxo
Purestofhearts
Wed Jun 10, 2009
The site does speak for itself, it is quit amusing when the emails come as that is not what I am looking for? Um ok, wait a second, Im a single mom of four, Nursing student, and work full time, yet someone with quit a bit more money can't figure it out?? Other sites out their, go to one that does not pretty much spell it out for you lol...wow really?
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