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jazzypbp Sun Sep 21, 2008	I have read these postings with great interest...glad to see that I am not the only above AVERAGE WOMAN OUT THERE THAT HAS JOINED THIS SITE IN THE HOPES THAT i MIGHT MEET A MAN WHO HAS EARNED THE RIGHT TO HAVE A SUBSTANTAIL LIFE . hE IS INTELLIGENT, OUTGOING,A GREAT NEGOTIATOR, A COMMUNICATOR AND HAS RESPECT FOR THE FEMALE GENDER. mOST OF THE SITES THAT i HAVE TRIED HAVE LEFT ME WITH THE NOTION THAT MOST OF THE AVAILABLE MEN NEVER GOT THEIR EDUCATION, NEVER LEARNED THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE, STILL EXIST UNDER THE RIDICULOUS NOTION THAT WOMEN SHOULD STAY HOME, CLEAN THE TRAILER, RAISE THE YOUNGUNS AND COOK UNTIL THEY ARE BLISTERED.i WAS MARRIED TO A GREAT GUY FOR A LONG TIME...MY BAR IS SET HIGH....BUT NOT SO HIGH THAT i WANT A WEALTHY JERK WHO THINKS HIS MONEY CAN BUY HIM ARROGANCE. dO YOU THINK THAT IT IS A PIPE DREAM OF WOMEN LIKE ME TO FIND THEMSELVES ALONE AT A TIME WHEN LIFE SHOULD BE EASY AND FULFILLED? i THINK THAT THIS SITE IS THE CLOSEST THING TO POSSIBILITIES THAT i, PERSONALLY HAVE FOUND.ALL MOST OF US REALLY WANT IS TO BE HAPPY, TO BE CONTENT AND TO BE LOVED.
Ezontheeye Thu Sep 11, 2008	I JOINED THIS SITE TO FIND A MAN THAT HAS TIME TO SPEND WITH ME. I'M A HOPELESS ROMANTIC AND I LOVE TO BE SPOILED, I LIKE CONFIDENT MEN , THAT ARE STABLE AND DON'T WORRY ABOUT MONEY. THE LAST WORDS I WANT TO HERE IS I CANT FOCUS ON BEING A PART OF YOUR LIFE WHEN MINES IS A WRECK. I'M A MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER AND WORK IN THE NON PROFIT SECTOR I DO OKAY FOR MY SELF, AND I'M TIRED OF MEN THAT DON'T! I DONT HAVE TO SETTLE FOR LESS WHEN I'M IN CONTROL.
Rracerb98 Thu Sep 04, 2008	a sugardaddy or babe is just like everyone else, we all just want to find someone we adore, someone to share our lives with, and that we can afford to enjoy the beauty of the world before we die. some of us can, some of us can't. it's not about money; it's about freedom. and it's about love. he who dares, wins. rb.
YourLilMama Wed Sep 03, 2008	I think that a SD or SB should be someone who is able to be there just as a companion. I don't need or want someone to hold my hand while I cross the street, just be there on the other side. I am able to pay for what it is I desire, so I don't need an open wallet. Everything is a give and take. I have every expectation of treating my partner with respect and affection regardless of who is picking up the tab and expect the same in return.
Hotmommy24 Fri Aug 29, 2008	Everyone on this site has such differant expectations, I think people should be upfront about what they are looking for instead of exchanging endless emails and playing little games to figure out what the other expects from meeting someone from this site. I think a SD is a benificiary but also someone who is a friend, a mentor and a lover who wants to enrich the life for someone he cares about and who cares about him. A SB is someone who isn't just looking for someone to pay the bills, jumps from guy to guy and expects lavish expensive presents. She should be a woman who appreciates the help her man gives to her and spoils him with affection and attention and mutually cares for him too. I think this site is being geared more twords a regular dating site which defeats the purpose of people looking to meet traditional SD/SB's, cause dating is a part of being with one another anyways, but it's also more then that. I can go out and meet people to date, but I am here cause I am tired of dating guys who are not stable and bring nothing into a relationship except for problems. This is a place where women have a chance to meet a man who genuinly want to take care of thier woman and guys have a chance to meet a woman who should show him why she deserves him in her life caring for her financially, mentally and physically.
Abeutiful1 Mon Aug 04, 2008	I think a sugardaddie is be a man that by his own choice want or would like to share his time,thoughts,heart,outtings or whatever with a suitable lady. Sugardaddies are more than just money they are great listeners, fun to be around, good to great lovers, like the finer things life has to offer, strong confident man with means who deserves a real lady that can and will respect and appreciate his needs because of who he is not what he have.
im2cute21 Sun Aug 03, 2008	hmm I had stopped using this site for about a year or so as I had found what I was looking for..for awhile. Now I'm back. Alot seems to have changed and the website is migrating more towards regular dating as well as SD/SB relationships. Nothing is wrong with that, though it brings in a wider variety of people who may want way different things then when the site first started. I have met some cool people from here. I can say SD.com worked for Me once and I'm sure it will work for Me again :)
Seefa Tue Jul 22, 2008	SUGAR AND SPICE AND ALL THINGS NICE....I ADORE THIS SITE.....I JOINED RECENTLY NOT TO MEET RICH MEN BUT TO MEET INTELLIGENT, SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE WHO ARE SURE OF WHAT THEY WANT...I HAVE NOT BEEN DISAPPOINTED.....MEN ON HERE GENERALLY DONT TALK ABOUT COSY NIGHTS IN BY LOG FIRES.......THEY TALK ABOUT THINGS THAT REALLY MATTER TO THEM....AND THAT IS WHAT ATTRACTED ME TO SIGN UP....I HAVE CHOSEN TO DATE ONE PERSON WHO WAS CHARISMATIC, GENUINE AND BEAUTIFUL IN EVERY SENSE OF THE WORD......THE SUGAR SIDE OF THINGS IS TONGUE IN CHEEK NOT TO BE TAKEN TOO SERIOUSLY.....AND GOLD DIGGERS CAN BE SEEN A MILE OFF....
Dwightlan Sat Jul 19, 2008	I want to throw in a thought or two about those women who have said in their profiles or elsewhere that they "deserve" the expensive spoiling they are seeking from the men on this site These women believe they are entitled to have these expensive treats, that whatever they've experienced places them in a category of richly deserving. You've seen the profiles; so many of them say "I deserve it." I've got to tell you guys that when it comes to getting the goods from your SD OR SB, NO ONE deserves it. There isn't any such thing as "deserve." When you meet your SD, sitting back and saying I deserve it will (and should) get you a very quick goodbye; he'll pay the dinner bill if you're lucky. I have money. Did I just deserve it? Nope. Did I deserve it because I had hard luck? Nope. Did I deserve it because of an accident of genetics I was good-looking? Nope. I had to EARN it. I had to go out and show the people that gave it to me that they ought to make me rich by reason of what I was doing for them. To deserve means you are entitled. Entitlement means that because of something you've done or some status you have in the eyes of the giver, you're owed a reward by the rules of the relationship. You know, I'd love to have a few dozen bikini fitness models throwing themselves at me. Just because I have money, does that mean I deserve it? Or, if I say I deserve it enough times in my profile, should I then sit back and expect to get in a centerfold orgy? You don't deserve something just by taking the space next to a man. These men expect to spoil you, yes. They want to give you attention and lots of fun. But the lunch, and all those other things, aren't free. My question to the 'deserving' ladies who have contacted me is, what have YOU done for ME to deserve it?
Tomster247 Tue Jul 15, 2008	I can only comment on what the whole SD/SB relationship means 2 me I'm not a University graduate but I‘ve successfully built/run several companies & written 4 books I've met a couple of ladies looking 2 get married right away Slow down, it wasn't long ago that I & other men I am sure left the woman who mothered our children I’m not against remarriage just not 2morrow I've also met a few younger ladies that feel they can pretend 2 like me in exchange for $$$ spending sprees They are the ones who are quick 2 say "Let's go shopping 2morrow" Come on now I got 2 where I’m in business because I knew how 2 negotiate & read people If I just wanted 2 exchange sex for money I would be getting hookers instead of cruising a web site but that is NOT what I want I want someone I like someone who is understanding & I want 2 shower them with the attention they deserve I want respect & I want 2 give it but when a lil girl thinks that she can work me over 4 expensive gifts without being a true girlfriend (being there for you when you need - not just sex, but being a friend, a companion, a confidant) I find THAT a little disrespectful. In surfing, you need 1) have the courage 2 ride the wave 2) get on the wave & 3) ride the wave If the wave is traveling E & you want to go W, you are SOL If you fight the wave you sink You must go forward more than 2 the side I'm looking for someone who wants 2 ride the wave not fight it, someone to enjoy the experience & the fun that comes with it. Wanting me to marry before I am ready, is like trying to stand on your board before it is time, the ride ends quick Wanting me pick seashells while I am breaking a wave, I will hit my head on the reef & no one wins But if we go where the wave takes us, we have a great ride & can do it again & again

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