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Theresa8235
Wed Jul 15, 2009
Reading the comments posted on here, there are a few that have really shocked me. I am 27 years old and I am only on here to find company. Someone who WANTS to take me out, spend time with me and so forth. I am grown and I can take of myself. Money is not the object for me, it is the satisfaction of having that person that makes me feel important. I do not want a man to take care of me,yeah money is nice but when you have never had it, you can't miss it. I can't believe how selfish some people are. Yes, granted, this is a "Sugar Daddy" site, but money is not that important. Yes, I am tired of finding so called "men" who still need their mothers 24 hours of the day, or will not work, or work and never have money or bills to pay or can not pay for anything. Yeah, I would like a little help once in a while, who doesn't want that, but money should never be expected or the main reason. If your looking for happiness, look to yourself first! Only you can really make yourself happy. I am not looking for love, just fun. No strings attached are the best, not because of money but because I can still do what I want to do without having to answer to someone and still the have the fun friendship or whatever you may call it. For people to look for the ATM or the big bank, shame on you. Work hard for what you want just like everyone else has. These men and women who have money, and so on has worked very hard to get to where they are today. Don't take advantage of it.
Vh23
Tue Jul 14, 2009
After reading quite a few posts, I thought that I would offer my two cents worth. I believe that we can have many meanings for an SD. Everything from a man looking for a purely sexual relationship to a man looking for a new wife. The only real requirement is that he is financially sound and wants to use his finances to help a lovely lady. I have been very fortunate to have been contacted by many SD's. Some are very rude but most are sweet. Most of the gentlemen that I've talked with are looking for more than sex. They are looking for a long term companion. I think that if you are clear with what you want, whatever that is, you can find it on this site. I am looking for a friend. Someone who isn't looking for just intimacy. Please don't misunderstand, sex will be apart of the relationship, just not the only part. I want someone who can help me further my career. Words of wisdom, introductions to the right people, help comes in many forms. Of course I wouldn't be truthful if I didn't state that a gift is always nice. I love flowers. What I offer in return is a lovely face and body to enjoy. I offer a sound mind with just enough craziness to have a load of fun. I am capable of intelligent conversations. I want to be the person that he thinks of when he has big news. Good or bad. I offer a hand to hold without expectations of marriage. I will be a jewel on his arm. I will, once we are comfortable, be exclusively his to enjoy. I will not make demands of his time. Although, I might ask for more;). I fully understand the demands of an executive. I offer myself as a companion without the headaches of love in the traditional sense. So, what I want and what some of the women have asked for is different. However, we are the same. The women here want a successful man that can help them. The type of help just varies. The men are looking for companions. For the night? For once a week when he's in town? Or for a long term relationship. Here's a toast to everyone... Good luck at finding whatever it is that you are seeking.
DihO
Tue Jul 14, 2009
I joined this dating site because for me its not about dating someone who can spend all their money on me. It's about finding someone who is solvent, strong,intelligent, mature and can hold their own on all counts. I seem to be flypaper for insolvent, unintelligent, insecure letches which could say something about me lol, so am hoping to have a fresh insight on here! :)
Listensoftly
Tue Jul 14, 2009
I joined this site to find a man that can afford to treat me as I deserve and hopefully find love am I asking for too much?
Justdyl
Sun Jul 12, 2009
After reading some of the posts on here I have to say WOW! I am on this site to maybe meet someone who is educated, who has knowledge of world and current events and who has some class and etiquette. Not a "joe the plummer" type that you would meet in the bar scene. Some of these ladies the way they talk about using these men as ATM's to lavish this and that on them etc. well I am sorry but I think that is pretty distasteful and shows a lack of class on their part. And I would not blame the guys for running in the opposite direction! but hey to each his own.
sliver246340
Sun Jul 12, 2009
I may be the most skeptical man on this site, but one young lady from Western Washington state (she knows who she is - I made sure of that!) has recently redeemed your entire gender. I've had my share of nutty chicks contact me, and even meet me in person, from this site. So I'm not talking about "in theory" stuff......mine is all real-world, "meet you for dinner or drinks" kind of situations. I recently flew her out to Chicago with the usual low expectations - which should be easy to meet, right? Well, many haven't even risen to those mediocre levels. Not this young lady. She left me with my mouth hanging open. Beautiful, HUMBLE, fun, up-for-anything, sexy, flirty, intelligent, entertaining, and one of the funniest conversationalists I've run into in years. She seemed to loathe talking about stuff most sugarbabies love talking about : shopping, themselves, Britney Spears (etc.!), clothes, spending YOUR money, and the things YOU need to do to make THEIR lives easier. I think I speak for a lot of guys on here when I say to all you sugarbabies : stop being so damn selfish! Think of what your man needs, and you will get whatever you want in return. Give and you shall receive. All you potential sugarbabies would be wise to learn from her.
NAUGHTYDADDY
Sat Jul 11, 2009
I am very saddened that 90 % of the thoughts on this subject seems to come from women . maybe because they are the only ones truely interested in the subject. i think things have changed from the anna nicole days . I think a daddy is someone who wants the person who is very important in his life to have everything she wants . not because he has to but because he wants too because she is his best friend and his lover . Cheesy i know lol x
Mambosexy
Wed Jul 08, 2009
I have lived long enough and have experienced enough to know that if you don't really enjoy the company of the person you're with then no amount of money, trips, fine dining or gifts from a Sugar daddie or non-sugar daddie for that matter is going to give you what you're missing. Why am I here then? I want a cute, sexy man who can enjoy life with me without having to worry about what we can afford to do together. If we want to go on a spontaneous trip, we can do that. If we want to stay home, we can do that too. Two choices: Man who is cute, sexy and has money OR Man who is cute, sexy and has no money....it's a no brainer people.
Travelmogul
Sun Jul 05, 2009
The basis of a SD/SB relationship is honesty and respect. A woman finds it enlightening and sexy to be involved in a mature, successful, positive life and the man is enthralled at the positive energy and vitality of a sexy, vibrant woman. The man should cherish the thought of enhancing the woman's position, both short term as well as ultimate goals and the woman should enjoy the osmosis of wealth creation that comes from bonding with a very successful man. In its essence, this is a very symbiotic relationship that oozes with positive karma!
Reguyncali
Sat Jul 04, 2009
Overall, most of the women I have met and or had a relationship with on this site were very cool and fun. A few were shady, hustlers, trying to get every dollar they could and do the least amount for it...but most, were pretty cool. Alot of younger women were single moms with deadbeat dads( why they hooked up with them in the first place is beyond me) but it is what it is. A number were students looking for a way to get through school. For just about every one, its all about money. They dont have enough to make it, or are barely making it at all. Bills behind, rent due, low paying jobs....just the typical story in america today. The ones I cannot deal with have no job, are not looking, and are not even in school. Just looking for a free ride. Unless you can contribute, or at least are going to school to make something of yourself, most men and I am one of them, just have little or no respect for that. Especially successful men who work hard to get were they are. Do something, contribute, but dont expect a free ride. No matter how hot you think you are, your not that hot.
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