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IAmSublime
Wed Sep 09, 2009
I have been single most of my life. Married only for a short time. Dated a lot of men and have had many relationships. Many men of extreme wealth and several totally broke guys too. Money was not a factor in my choosing men, chemistry & compatibility were. The broke guys it never lasted long with. Not because of their finances, but they were dull, boring, insecure and had a lot more issues. I noticed that men who were wealthy & sucessful also were much more interesting, intelligent, witty, fun and sexy. MUCH more. Also noticed they treated me better too. Better manners, more gentlemanly. So, in my book they are superior all around. Maybe it sounds like I'm stereotyping, but I have a lot of female friends and we all agree. I feel I have too much going for me (my ex-boyfriends would agree)to waste my time on a site picking thru whatever signs up, when I can join a site that gets the "cream of the crop".
Lil-minx
Sun Sep 06, 2009
sugardaddie means to me a nice gentleme who canc are for me in many different ways but is there still to have fun :D
Tiff5
Sat Sep 05, 2009
Well it is what it is. It only matters to the two people that are having a relationship.I was here to find my love for a long term relationship,I can't sale my soul.But its not for me to judge.I have found my knight..
ScorpionDream
Thu Sep 03, 2009
I'm looking for an equal, and that means someone adventurous, successful, fun and willing to give life a shot, it's not about the money - it's an attitude to life. why this site is also attracting hardworking, strong, fun women, who are alpha females with a philosophy of not settling for second best!
Juzbcause
Wed Sep 02, 2009
A "Sugardaddie" in my thoughts is clearly defined to me as a man that wants to take care of me rather than needs to both physically and materially. Is that wrong to think? Not in my eye- I love dressing the part and living the fantasy and that doesn't come free.....so why not let my "Sugardaddie" dress me and be a part of my fantasy;-)
Boundless1
Wed Sep 02, 2009
At the time of this writing, I’ve been enjoying SD.com for about a month. During that time, I’ve been fortunate enough to get acquainted with a few of the most delightful ladies I’ve ever had the pleasure of meeting. Some are financially independent and others are in need of financial assistance. Some are a bit younger, but the majority of them are within shooting range of my age. Most are single, but a few are married. I’ve also received insights from one woman who has become a good friend that I will likely carry with me for a long time to come. Refreshingly, all have been honest enough to clearly state their current situations and expectations early in our discussions. It has been a good experience overall. As an “older” married man, I believe I have the wisdom and experience to realize that I have to limit my own expectations to some degree, keeping in mind that the ladies who are in search of the love of their lives or a hard-bodied stud aren’t going to select me as their ideal candidate. Conversely, I know enough to pass by the profiles that have no possibility of resulting in a successful connection. My point here is that anyone who uses this site as a connection tool should take the time to evaluate who they are, what they are looking-for, whether they can reasonably expect a desirable outcome with the person they would like to pursue, and above all be willing to be totally honest before they attempt to make contact with someone. SD.com can definitely provide anyone who follows these guidelines with an extremely positive result. It’s a great website and I hope it remains for a long time to come.
Luvlygal
Wed Sep 02, 2009
personall,I have always been attracted to older men.To me, a sd/sb rel isnt just about funding for things one cant afford but building a true fiendship with a physical, mental and emotional connection with someone you can always call a friend.I am educated and have always taken care of others.Hopefully, its a sweet thing to be taken care of.lol.
AshesAngel
Wed Sep 02, 2009
As to what a sugardaddy/sugarbabe is I think it is relative to what you perceive yourself as. As for me, I'm hoping to make friends and acquaintances and hopefully possibly by some twist of fate or divine miracle find someone that I can connect with on an intellectual, spiritual, and physical level. To me it isn't about money it is about stability. I admire a man that is successful and goes after what he wants, not the boys that sit waiting for it to happen and whine when it doesn't.
Cafegirl78
Mon Aug 31, 2009
There are no "perfect" relationships... It's not about give and take, but give and give rather... hopefully from both ends. It isn't the simplest thing in the world to find someone who is like minded, but the reality is that if we don't exhaust every possibility, we have only ourselves to blame. The idea of the sugarbabe/daddie arrangement is novel at best, but in truth most of us want the ideal, that solid, stable companionship that is found through trust and a balance in lives well led. While I myself am not interested in the traditional Sugardaddie, I have found there to be a number of men here just looking for women who are no-nonsense and have well-adjusted attitudes and interests. To each their own here and good luck to all finding what it is you seek. :)
IMAQT4EVR
Mon Aug 31, 2009
I have to comment on this. I realize it is rare but SOME women, myself included, earn a very nice living and simply find it difficult to meet men in their age group who are equally driven, successful, while not in the same professional circle. I have been on the 'love' sites and get matched with teachers, firemen and IT guys, all are very honorable professions, but these men will never keep me mentally stimulated or contribute to/grow the lifestyle I have built for myself. I am taking a big risk in believing that there might be a man on here, CLOSE TO MY AGE, who I click with. I want to be a partner not a taker. I have been fortunate enough to be in situations where men are chivalrous. ABOVE ALL SD.com is for women who want chivalry and men who are happy to give it. The difference comes down to individual expectations and what you are willing to negotiate. I am an honest women and do not give out sexual favors for dinners, trip or gifts. I am only physical with men who I am attracted to, once I feel that we have something I am secure with, period. This diesn't mean I need a ring for a kiss :) I am not a prude or uptight at all but all things come in time and growing into a sexual relationship I am comfortable with, comes with time. I keep these things on my terms and for the most part good men appreciate this. I just happen to relate to and have more in common with 'good' entreprenurial men. This site has some negative associations, and I am not naive, but if I happen to meet someone with the same intention as me and we end up having a future, it sure will be a fun secret and 'game' to keep things fresh in the bedroom as the years go by...right daddy?
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