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Tinman Thu Oct 15, 2009	I partially agree with SummerBreeze about what it means to spoil a young lady. But first I have to state where I disagree. I do not beleive in allowances. To me, this is a business transaction and makes the relationship shallow. I have much stronger views on this, but I will leave it as is. As far as agreeing with SummerBreeze, she is right, just taking someone out to dinner is nothing special, but taking a young lady on a trip is something different. As far as her missing work and a week's pay, I have always compensated the woman for any time lost from their job. It is nice to take someone on a trip somewhere exciting, but if her financial situation worsens because of time spent away from work, this is not helping her in anyway. Part of a sugardaddie's role is to help women that are finding it difficult to enjoy life. There are also women out there that do make a lot of money and expect the moon from their man. To me this is being greedy. I can comment further on this, but I won't my intent was to simply add to the last post of this forum. Good luck everyone.
SummerBreeze Thu Oct 15, 2009	I agree with the post written below by Selina! She wrote: "a sugar daddy is a guy who wants the normal relationship side of things, but spoils his princess. He gives an allowence and buys her gifts, in return, she is his confident, arm candy, friend etc. A lot of men seem to have difficulty with the meaning of the term Sugar Daddy, and they think a "meal" at a decent restaurant is sufficient, well no, I could go out with my friends for that. A Sugar Daddy spoils a beautiful girl rotten, and she spoils him back. Get it now. Written by an experiences SB x" I would also like to add, that while you may think that travel is spoiling. It is only spoiling if you are taking care of your Sugar Baby's expenses as well. If your Sugar Baby has to take time off from her work as a -say- waitress for your week long getaway, that is a whole week of pay she is missing out on to be with you! Waitresses don't generally get paid vacation and time off. So, in actuality, she is still paying her way on the trip! This is where an allowance helps things. I hope we've enlightened some new potential Sugar Daddies out there! =)
Ngemma Mon Oct 12, 2009	In my opinion, a Sugardaddy is a provider. A provider of care, comfort and security. How you define those three words will determine how you define the word Sugardaddy. If to you they mean a monthly allowance, then so be it, but to me they mean desire, passion and love. :)
Nkiru8 Sun Oct 11, 2009	I think many terms can take on a contemporary meaning as society changes, and to me the term describes someone who is generous and giving. That doesn't however mean just material things, although it is nice to be spoilt! Rather, it also must include giving of their time, their affection and their attention. It would also have to be someone I connected with spiritually and intellectually. Having said all that, I love to make new friends and acquaintances, and sometimes you can develop a deep relationship with someone without the physical side of things.
Sweetand4real Sat Oct 10, 2009	If you look up the term 'sugar daddy' in the dictionary, it says "an older man who takes care of a younger woman". Every relationship starts somewhere, it's just that here, the outer expectations of wealth and beauty are put up front. What two people make of the time they spend together is up to them, however, it all begins with the man taking care of the woman without her having to even ask.
IzAlice Tue Oct 06, 2009	This is off-topic but there isnt a forum for it- maybe we need a "general/other topics" thread? Why is there no Sugardaddies from Japan?? I love japanese men and a lot of the are successful and affluent. I'd suggest this addition to the Sugarddadie.com site. To me, a Sugardaddie is a sort of Mr.Big (Sex & the City). He dressed elegantly, he knows how to treat his girl right, and he may be enclined to help out with rent or an allowance for his companion who truly enjoys his company, is classy, beautiful and elegant. It's hard to be a "sugarbabe" when you're on welfare or work a factory job and dont even have time to paint your nails, do your hair or take care of your skin. The Sugarbabe is a smart woman trying to get a better life with the help of her manfriend, but never is she a "whore". I think the key to a SD/SB relationship to workis that they have to truly care for each other, laugh together and feel comfortable, otherwise it's just an "arrangement" which equates to monex for sex = expensive prostitution. I dont think this site is what is about, unfortunately, on both sides, it is what a lot of SDs and SBs are expecting. (from experience)
PrettyGirlGeek Mon Oct 05, 2009	To me a SD is a wonderful man that values beauty, intelligence, proper manners, culture and a certain way of being. No matter how powerful and self reliant a woman becomes in her soul a Queen will always need a King. Remember how Cleopatra treated Caesar and then think about her relationship with Mark Anthony. I joined this forum to find a Caesar.
Temptationeyes2 Thu Oct 01, 2009	Being a sugarbabe is truly a fun and great experience. Meeting worldly men who know how to carry a conversation, treating a woman with respect and kindess. Meeting them has been a great experience to me as well as meeting "new friends" who I can hold close to my heart along life's journey.~
Spoilfelicianow Thu Oct 01, 2009	I think a sugardaddie is a nice upscale gentleman who like to spoil women....period..whether its a serious relationship or traditional arrangement type of relationship...but a sugardaddie dosent just want any woman..he wants a nice faitful woman such as myself...lol
Laurelle Wed Sep 30, 2009	To me the term sugar of either sex means...quite simply people who aspire, achieve,have goals,live life and go-getters!this is not a trial run and life short! so each to their own, non-judgemental,whatever your reasons maybe or your chosen goal for this site! goodluck to everyone x

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