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KC8888
Sun Apr 19, 2009
For me, it's a matter of standards- lifestyles- I am realizing that mine is above the norm and can't seem to find men of the same background/current lifestyle on the other sites/otherwise. It's not about having anybody take care of me, because I do that myself! It's about sharing experiences - living large! Hey, we all deserve that don't we?
2kiss4ever
Sun Apr 19, 2009
I have been reading posts for almost an hour and decided to write my thoughts; I am a 35 year old woman. Sexy, smart, great smile and full of dreams. My girlfriend told me that I should check out this site after she saw it on Dr. Phil. She knows that I am a great person, who has had some really bad luck and she knows that I could use some help, but most of all, she just really wants me with a man who will be good to me. I have always worked really hard. I was in the Military for four years and now I have a career that I love, but it is financially killing me! Some days it is hard to breathe. So, I signed up, have sifted around through some profiles, like we all do and have corresponded with a few of you SD's and I am scared to death. Because I really DO want something real... I want respect, emotional and physical attraction, passion, companionship, friendship and yes, love. Part of me thinks it is wrong to be on this site, afraid that there are only another site full of men, just looking to hook up with hot chicks... but the other part of me thinks... "why not try?" Why not hope to find someone who has all of the wonderful qualities that I am looking for, who also has the means to take care of me for once... I don't want to struggle through the rest of my life... I want to smile every day and enjoy every minute with a man I adore and love, who lets me take care of him with everything I have got emotionally and physically... and who knows that I appreciate him for ALL that he is to me! Are there SD's on this site who are looking for someone like me? Good luck to us all! S
Smily15
Fri Apr 17, 2009
I am looking for mature man, successful man..... a mentor and an inspiration.
Hotsexyangel
Fri Apr 17, 2009
WELL MY BELIEF IN WHAT A SD/SB ARE: AS IT SAYS; A SD IS THERE TO TAKE CARE OF THE SB NEEDS/WANTS/DESIRES, IT IS NOT FOR LOVE MATCHING STRICTLY SHORTTIME COMPANIONSHIP OVER A LONG PERIOD OF TIME. THOSE THAT ARE ON SUGARDADDIE.COM LOOKING FOR LOVE ARE IN THE WRONG SPOT YOU SHOULD BE ON E-HARMONY. I'M HERE LOOKIN FOR SUPPORT/HELP WITH MY FINANCES AND HAVING THE GREATER THINGS IN LIFE AND IF LOVE HAPPENS BETWEEN ME AND MY SD THEN THATS THE WAY ITS MEANT TO BE.
Sliver246340
Wed Apr 15, 2009
Generally speaking, the sugardaddy has the money that the sugarbaby desperately needs. If you show her the money, she'll do almost anything. The more lavish you make it, the more jumping through hoops she'll do. However, if the sugardaddy ever runs into financial trouble and can't provide, the sugarbaby jumps ship almost immediately. This is just the way it is.......I've witnessed it with a few of my rich buddies who are in the middle of hard times with this recession. Loyalty will never be bought here. It's all about the greenbacks and the freedom they provide.
SusieDDD
Thu Apr 09, 2009
I am here seeking the traditional SD/SB relationship. Which is finding someone I connect with on many levels and we both seek the same things. I do NOT believe a SD has to be older then the woman. They come in all ages, shapes and colors...as so SB's. I also know that not all men are after young barbie types. I'm tired of the unsuccessful men I have met and dated in the past. I'm looking for a man that is successful and confident. Who knows what he likes and wants and he goes after it. He is honest, open and direct, as am I. Sure, I need financial help. If someone doesn't want to have a SD/SB relationship they should go to a regular dating site. I'm here for many reasons. I'm not looking to meet the first rich man that sweeps me off my feet. I met someone that was wanting marriage right away and I declined as I was not in love with him or in a hurry to marry again. I am looking for a friend/lover/benefactor. I'm also single and open to love when/if it happens. I don't close my mind to what could happen with the right person. I do plan to be honest about who I am right from the start. It is very rare to find others who are honest and direct in what they want. My match for a SD will be what I have described. He wont be cocky or demanding. He will be honest & open to new experiences. I know it's a long description, but it's honest. :)
InkdCutie
Wed Apr 08, 2009
In my eyes, a sugardaddy is a man who has his life together. A man who has achieved by knowing what he wants and is ready to meet that women he knows he deserves. As a new sugarbabe, my reason for being here is simply the exploration. I have become exhausted by the uncertain foolish men who can't seem to get their lives together. The reality is there are many different views on what a sugardaddy/sugarbabe relationship means, and its that wide range of possibilities that makes the dating style so intriguing.
Channel2009
Wed Apr 08, 2009
i think, sugadaddie and a sugarbabe relationship is based on financial state, maybe love as well but i believe a sugardaddie should be in a position to care care of a sugar babe financially and physically, thats what it all bores down to...so both parties should be able to take care of themselves either ways..
Sweetsimone123
Tue Apr 07, 2009
I believe that being a "sugardaddy" or "suagarbabe" means something different to everyone. In my case it would mean a woman (me) seeking a financialy secure and successful man who is not only financialy stable but also mentaly and emotionaly (why do I feel as though I am asking for too much?) lol for a possible LTR. Perhapes for someone else it may mean something completely different. This is where the art of communication comes in handy:)
HughinSoFL
Tue Apr 07, 2009
I have had a previous "sugar baby" relationship. It was great. However, we didn't establish in advance the ground rules for an arrangement as is the awkwardness of this particular internet SD/SB matchmaking. My former SB was an arrangement we just drifted where I provided financial assistance and we both benefited from the relationship. However, she relocated with her job and our “arrangement” ended because of the distance involved. We remain friends. So, my experience was good. I miss and want the companionship and intimacy of a special, independent woman. In a mutually satisfying relationship an SD be a generous companion where nothing is expected or assumed. This is not about paying for services, if you will, it is about making it possible for my companion to have some economic freedom.
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