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Cocosilk73 Sun Nov 08, 2009
| Being a Sugarbaby isn't just limited to receiving monetary incentives to the Sugardaddie's requests. Too often, when people think of the terms, automatically intimacy is involved and cash is exchanged afterwards. More often than that, the Sugardaddie just wants someone to express themselves to, a shoulder to lay on, someone to vent their frustrations about the world to that no one else can provide. With how the world is these days, professional and personal lives causes stress and you need to have that release to speak to someone who is unbiased and is understanding. Sometimes the reward in the end is a lovely gift and sometimes it's just a simple thank you. It all depends on the situation and the individuals involved. |
Slimandstunning Fri Nov 06, 2009
| After reading some of the comments i felt i had to add my own.
The term Sugar daddie is just in my opinion a term used by this site, after all the site is called sugar daddie.
I am and always will be independant, i,m afraid i burnt my bra years ago.
And what gives anyone the right to anothers hard earned money. Man or woman.
If your on here looking or running after money my advice would be, get of your backside and get a proper job like the rest of us do.
I,m on here looking for someone to connect with, and i couldnt care less if they,ve got money or not.
At the end of the day i,d much rather be happy and skint than rich and miserable.
I,ve a feeling i,m going to upset a few members with my comments but its a free world and i,m entitled to my own opinion.
Goodluck to all you money grabbers out there. |
Kademu Sun Nov 01, 2009
| It doesnt matter what anyone says a man should provide for his woman. Whats the point of having so much and not sharing with the person u love or u think loves u irrespective of their motives. |
Simpleyetcomple Sun Nov 01, 2009
| I am on this site to possibly connect with a 'real' man.. that will compliment my femininity. I 'thought' that there might be that successful and ready man. One who knows and values the caring, love, and sexuality that a woman can bring to his life should she desire to and he would respect and care for her because that is what a 'real' man does. Sex is not the end all and be all.It is a part of the interaction. It's love, respect, fun, intellect and chemisty that bring it all together. |
Travelmogul Sat Oct 31, 2009
| A Sugardaddy is someone who truly wants to enhance your life, not just your week. Whether it is an agreed upon allowance or a wonderful range of experiences and spoiling, it is meant to be a reciprocal relationship that reduces stress, nurtures creativity and helps the Sugarbaby feel respected, pampered and supported to acheive her life goals. The beauty of this site is it can happen with a sense of humor, a sense of honesty and a real zest for life......let's all be generous with each other in our compliments and advice, even when we may noy agree.......this should be fun!! |
Tattoogirl33 Fri Oct 30, 2009
| I joined with the idea that it would be nice to have a man who could handle the financial side of the "relationship" by paying for dinner, travel, etc and I would be the arm candy. Now, I have read enough profiles to understand that a lot of the men on this site are interested in real relationships and have the education, good looks, and financial stability to want the same from their ladies. I personally have been the joint or sole finacial provider in my past relationship and am happy to have found a site where I can expect my high standards for a partner to be met. |
Tinman Fri Oct 30, 2009
| Sorry LonghornBill, but I don't agree with you totally. Yes, a sugar daddy may give an allowance, but that is not a requirement. I have been a sugar daddy in the past, have taken care of the women in my life VERY well, but I have NEVER given an allowance. To me, an allowance is too much like a business transaction and not a relationship to me. It is difficult sometimes to explain what a sugar daddy relationship truly is, but in my opinion it is one in which each person gives voluntarily what he/she is capable of. The GIVING is done because both involved want to make the other person happy. In my opinion, once allowances and set fees are negotiated it becomes a business transaction and has nothing to do with a SD/SB relationship anylonger. |
Longhornbill Fri Oct 30, 2009
| Okay! An SD is someone that will provide an allowance and what ever else they choose to do. THAT is a Sugar Daddy. What does he expect in return? When the SB is with him, total devotion and SEX!
Now: What about those of us that are here for, certainly sex, but more? They're really are some of us on here to find a relationship - and usually with a younger lady. Keeps us young and feeds our egos. Me? I am in search of a companion that can travel with me or visit my home and just do nothing. There will always be some additional benefits but not the sugar daddy type on a monthly basis.
Bottom line: An SD provides on a monthly basis. That's not me. |
Mkslaw2003 Fri Oct 30, 2009
| Lets not be naive --- sugar daddies give u more than wut the average man will or can. Whether that be monetary or luxury etc. --- this sight is not soley for those seeking true love ---- women that come on here and say that they don't care about the finer things in life and or money are lying to you... im sick of being with men who can't support themselves or me...so if thats wut you want -- is uggest you open your eyes and your mind to giving to get what you deserve in this life. |
Luvzthesteelers Thu Oct 29, 2009
| My Sugardaddie is someone who will let me get to know the "real" him, not hide anything and be upfront and honest. I am looking for someone to spend time with and ...who knows!...spend along time with if not always. Yes I too dont have alot of money, I have enough to live life ok, but I will be honest Its just as easy to fall in love with a man who has wealth as to one who has just as much as I have or less....I want to give love and receive it back.... |
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