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K-LU67 Tue Nov 17, 2009	The label of 'Sugar daddy' is not the heart of this site. I was drawn to it simply because I wish to meet those who value themselves. In order to be either a self made man or highly successful, one needs to have great self respect, focus, a willingness for personal growth, take personal responsibility and to know that nothing in life will change until one changes self. These are the things I expect of myself ....so I seek them in others and especially a partner. I also cannot only see the label 'sugar babe' as simply 'eye candy'. She may be a woman of means herself and need a gentleman who can keep up. To me, being spoiled, would mean a deep emotional connection. Laughing, loving and sharing wonderful experiences together. I have long since learned that the best experiences rarely have a price tag on them. I certainly don't need diamonds and pearls to demonstrate to myself or others that I am a successful human being who's worth knowing. (Just climbing down off my soap box now...then I'm off to go polish my tiara. Just incase I loose my natural self value down the back of the couch!) xxxxx
Shirlthegirl Tue Nov 17, 2009	If a woman knows herself, knows whats shes worth and can give all the IMPORTANT things to a man...to be his support and his pillar of strength...to run his household and to do this all with being content in herself and her own life - then whats the problem if she wants him to look after her in some ways..i.e pay the bills and mortgage! For so many years busting ones arse to bring up a child alone and scrape by each month even on a decent salary is quite irritating. Men are simple creatures...we add complexity to their lives. I couldnt care less about the money if I dont like the guy...but I would have an issue if I liked the guy and he had nothing...as that just brings problems later when the sh&*^& hits the fan! And come on...sharing is far better than doing it all alone.
WomanOfFaith Tue Nov 17, 2009	Everyone has different needs and due to that there will be different definitions of what a "Sugar Daddy" is. For some they will jump into it fast and it is spoiling in return for a night in the bedroom and X rated activitites and thats all they need when they are only looking for fun. Some of us though are Real women with REAL class, like myself. All must start somewhere. Sugar Daddies with real class will respect a lady, they will respect her pace. They are patient, sincere, humble and know the true beauty of a woman. They will take care of their sugar babies expenses on trips, pay for their time off from work if going on a trip, spoil them, treat us with class and elegance, The sugar daddy values intelligence, class, manners, knowledge, purity, and integrity above what sex could ever offer, give them gifts and true admiration of what God made us to be. In a true SD/SB relationship there is a true depth of caring for one another that goes at least a measure beyond friendship. Otherwise it is like what many have said an Arrangement which IMPLIES sex for money which is not class or respect for either person but prostitution. In return she is there to give him support in his work, his buisiness, be his companion and candy arm at events. She is the one he can vent to and count on for support, be his solace from the storm of life. She provides him with relaxation. Some women like myself can offer so much more than what sexual favors can because our energy is so pure. In time other things in the relationship will build if both parties are in agreement with the events unfolding. THAT is a true gentleman.
Redcarpetworthy Mon Nov 16, 2009	It doesn't mean that you're here to find some really rich guy. I'm here to find someone who is educated and ambitious. I'm a college student with high hopes and dreams for myself and it's so frustrating to keep meeting guys with really low drive and dont't push themselves. And yes, certain things come with ambition and drive, like success, but that's not saying that it's just for money. Yes, it's nice to go on a date with a guy where I don't have to pay for both of us because he's so financially unstable. I don't at all mind going dutch, or sometimes paying, just when it becomes me always paying for the both of us, it gets frustrating. And I don't mind getting treated every once and a while, but that's not my main goal. So I can say for me, I'm not here for a guy for the money.
Hotnthickn26 Thu Nov 12, 2009	andrea i agree slim is in denial she join the site for the exact purpose the rest of the women did. To find a wealthy man who you could be able to relate to or build a relationship.
Slimandstunning Thu Nov 12, 2009	This is in response to Andrea. I joined this sight as after 23yrs married and now widowed i,m hoping to meet someone to connect with. This is the first dating sight i have ever joined and it will probably be the last. The reason i dont care about money is because you cant take it with you. I realised when my husband died that material things dont matter. Oh i,ve got a collection of cartier and gucci (all bought with my own money) but dont care about them now, just want to find happyness again. Sorry if i,ve offended anyone with my comments.
Andrea Thu Nov 12, 2009	This is in response to Slimandstunning. I can understand why women come to this site if they are looking for a man with money. The reasons may anything, it doesn't matter because the theme of this site is attractive women and wealthy men. So why would you join this site if you couldn't care less about the money? It would be the equivalent of me joining a gay site for men because all the guys are so good looking and then I complain to the management that there are no heterosexual men for me to meet. Why?
Tantricmadam Wed Nov 11, 2009	I never realized how much confusion and wide opinions on what a SD is...I believe the relationship is one that benefits both parties and no its not exactly a business transaction but a negotiation...Both have something the other wants...So there is an exchange some may call this a business transaction but this is simply communication...Which is believed to be the #1 must have for a successful relationship today..Most times then not I imagine the SD wants the SB relationship for companionship,company,respect for discretness,,most of all honest and trustworthy. And then the SD shows appreciation for his SB but helping in eliviating some hardships ...
Mkslaw2003 Tue Nov 10, 2009	whether you are a sugar mama or a sugar daddie --- u are giving a great comfort/experience --- atypical circumstances if you find the right person. if i had the ability to provide for someone i would. i however at this time cannot, so im seeking someone who is on the other side of the fence. you only live once---who cares about money. spend it and make beautiful memories ---good luck to everyone on here on finding what they want ; ) I'm gonna go make some french toast....
Hotnthickn26 Mon Nov 09, 2009	I personally think some men on here have the meaning of sugar daddy wrong. Men if you don't know the meaning i want you to goggle it, get a dictionary if you have too: whats the definition of a sugar daddy? and quote: the answer will be A man who is usually middle aged or elderly who keeps and provides a much younger girl with expensive presents and the necessities of life in return for companionship, which is often sexual in nature. That is a scientific fact of what the meaning of a sugar daddy is. I agree with that meaning although during the process of being my sugar daddy i would if the feeling is mutual would like it to turn into a serious relationship. There's nothing wrong with a man wanting to help a beautiful woman as myself with goals and dreams. think about it? Mwuah!

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