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Charlanton Fri Jun 26, 2009
| what and what isnt a sugar daddie,that seems to be the question.to me its like this and im only speaking for myself here and not any other guys on this site.a man that can afford to treat a lady to some of the finer things in life,like presents,meals and trips abroad and mixed in with maybe some help with some of her bills,(that manicure costs money boys )!is absolutely fine if you both agree.if the lady likes to or feels she should come across and have fun ,well thats also ok.what i dont like or want ,is where the lady is just after getting paid,to me thats prostitution,and ive had my fair share of those type of offers on here as well.well thats how i see it and from there its just a matter of degrees.x |
Ebonypleasure1 Tue Jun 23, 2009
| I think that the site name speaks for itself. I came on here to meet a quality man that being the keyword who can make me feel special to them and I've been spoiled all my life why stop now. I have found out on this site as a woman of color and a little more curvy that its a lot harder for me I dont discriminate but I guess its only 2009 maybe one day I will be looked at for my pretty smile and my great personality -ok dreaming> To answer the question this is a site for men with a little extra in there wallets to get exactly what they want be it a show piece or a side piece. Gotta pay the cost to be the boss and pay to play |
HoneyDipKs Sun Jun 21, 2009
| I think the terms mean what you want them to mean. A sugar daddy to me is someone who can take care of me as a good provider but is also sweet and caring; and someone I can love. I call people that just give money away: tricks. I think the generally perceived meaning for a sugar mama/daddy is someone who will give money to someone that doesn't even care about them. No person on this site should be offended if someone comes at them about just wanting some bills paid because you have a block option. |
Alli38 Sun Jun 21, 2009
| After randomly reading some of the competition's profiles & forum comments... I may have jumped the gun by signing up for this site's membership! I am not interested in being supported in return for favors. If the chemistry is there & it turns out that money is in the equation, then so be it. However, I am initially interested in the eye contact, the vibes that fly between 2 people and the potential for a quality bond between 2 people enjoying each other's company. If you are looking for other outcomes, keep moving. |
Wickedgypsy Fri Jun 19, 2009
| Hey and Hi Life has enough negative we cant control so here is my spin on the positive.......I love life but i have my own, so i don't want a happily ever after in someone else's after thoughts. i am a happy well adjusted woman and I am looking for a man who is discreet and quietly secure. I just want a man who can hold his own in a conversation and in bed. I am ok with him being married or not it makes no difference to me I just want the time i get to be honest and filled with something other then his wifes woes. |
HoneyHepburn Thu Jun 18, 2009
| I think that in this type of relationship, honesty and clarity is extremely important. I feel like there plenty of potential hookups on here for everyone, but personally I get frustrated when I receive emails that are laden with grammatical errors and sexual advances. To me, being a sugar baby means being a good companion to whomever you are with but I personally am not the type of sugar baby who leaps into bed with someone without foreplay (as in meaningful conversations, and compatibility that transcends caveman sensibility). I think sugar daddies should be classy, and know how to treat a woman with respect. He should be able to help a female out financially and sugar babies should not use men just for their money. That's just my opinion, and I'm really hoping I find someone through this site! |
Xphaciax Thu Jun 18, 2009
| I have never been the gold digging type. I came to this site simply because I am fed up with broke cheap men. I am 30 and I've noticed a lot of men my age have became spoiled. What happened to most of the men in our generation? There's more women to every man, so "decent" women are starting to get desperate enough to pay all the bills while the man sits at home. I do not want to meet another man with those expectations. |
Ruiguniang Thu Jun 18, 2009
| I am a ferm believer that men who spend money on women don't necessarily love them, however men who spend women's money surely do not love them. So the choice is easy :). |
1954-Model Thu Jun 18, 2009
| Every once in a while I check back on this forum to see what's going on. And every once in a while I consequently wonder whether I'm on the wrong site. Like just about everyone here, I am also looking for love and someone I can daydream about when we are apart. But what I'd like to know, particularly from the gals, is whether I'm wrong to see how a relationship develops before I jump all over myself to spoil someone. If I was in a relationship like I describe in my profile, there's no limit to what I'd do to show my gal that she's loved. Does this mean spoiling with 'stuff?' Sometimes, but what it really means is spoiling with ME. To be there when she needs support, to listen when we talk together, to hold each other and to care for each other. Does it mean I'll rub her feet at the end of a long day? You betcha. Full body massages? You betcha. Send flowers for no reason? You betcha. But before I start all that, I want to make sure that the relationship will last and that love truely abounds. I'm not going to "buy" a relationship, or love; but I will INVEST in it - with me, my time, and my resources. What I have is too valuable to give to just hand it over to someone who doesn't really value it. |
Plaything22 Thu Jun 18, 2009
| I came to this site because I'm tired of meeting men who really don't care; No ambition, no drive, no passion. Ive always been the caretaker in relationships. The sugar mama if you will. I'm a pleaser by nature but I've come to the point in my life where I need something for me. I came looking for a man with ambition and drive and passion. Definitely passion...lol. Someone who isn't intimidated by intelligence and doesn't have to be told how to dress. I like the finer things in life but I don't go overboard. I prefer live theater to movies, that sort of thing. Oh I don't expect to be "lavished" with gifts and such, but its nice to have that option. The gentleman in question may get "lavished" before I do, but I'd like the choice. |
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